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Jman17
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CBA to read all the replies, so sorry if this has been mentioned.
At first, begin by holding her hand. This is a very slight move, and if she goes along with it then you know she is somewhat attracted to you.
Then, after about 10 or 15 minutes go by, say something such as
"I am going to go buy a drink" or "I need to use the restroom, excuse me please"
When you come back, this time, put your arm around her. If at your movie theatre the middle armrests between you two go up, then put it up! It is very uncomfortable if it is down and will make your arm fall asleep.
If she takes this ever so well, begin a have a quiet conversation with her. Be kind of sweet and say nice things without being a moron. Kiss her on the cheek. If she doesn't want to go any further, she will continue watching the movie. If she is attracted to you and wants more, then she will turn her head... At which point you kiss her. If it gets intense, do open mouth... However at a first date you probably shouldn't push the issue too much.
Good luck man
At first, begin by holding her hand. This is a very slight move, and if she goes along with it then you know she is somewhat attracted to you.
Then, after about 10 or 15 minutes go by, say something such as
"I am going to go buy a drink" or "I need to use the restroom, excuse me please"
When you come back, this time, put your arm around her. If at your movie theatre the middle armrests between you two go up, then put it up! It is very uncomfortable if it is down and will make your arm fall asleep.
If she takes this ever so well, begin a have a quiet conversation with her. Be kind of sweet and say nice things without being a moron. Kiss her on the cheek. If she doesn't want to go any further, she will continue watching the movie. If she is attracted to you and wants more, then she will turn her head... At which point you kiss her. If it gets intense, do open mouth... However at a first date you probably shouldn't push the issue too much.
Good luck man
FAWKZZZ I just realized after writing all of this, that this was posted a week ago. Sorry man.
First off the above advice sucks balls. Never start off trying to hold hands. That makes you look desperate and like a retard. Wait for her to show the initial interest. (ill point out a few key things to look for)
and if you start having a conversation in the middle of the theater I will fucking beat the shit out of you! Not everyone goes to the movie to get laid. I actually like to watch my free movies (I work at a theater = free movies)
Cinema's are a bad place to initiate a physical relationship imo.
Before the movie -
If she hangs on to you, touches you a lot, hugs you when she sees you, and talks like she wants you. Then you would have a shot. Considering there is no talking in theaters.
anyways!
If you get the initial spark before the theater. You can always go with the sitting close approach.
It's best to let her choose the seating this will show you where she stands
If she makes you sit smack in the middle she isn't trying to hook-up or at least at that moment. If she sits in a corner or far away from everyone that means she is trying to get you to make a move.
If you see a seat with the arm bar up sit at it, and if she sits nice and close then your set. Yet if she puts it down, or sits in the other seat with the arm bar down then she wants her space.
Now!
For the kiss watch her in the corner of your eye. If you catch her looking at you during the movie and not paying much attention to the movie you should look back at her. If she turns away and doesn't show much interest I suggest you stop staring, but if she looks away and acts nervously (i swear if you fuck up reading a girl you deserve the slap) you should nudge her or start some form of light physical contact and try to get her to look at you again. If she smiles, I would lean in for it %90 of the way remember the almighty words of...fuck what was that movie with will smith in it.
If she doesn't look away after you look back then you got a free pass to lean in %90.\
Oh and as for putting my arm around her I wouldn't.
I would just try to lean up against her if she does the same, and keeps looking at you in the corner of her eye, and your hesitant on doing what I said before then maybe go for holding hands, but I myself wouldn't. If you get into kissing then I would probably put my hands on her Neck, waist, upper thigh (but not to close), and hair. After kissing that's when I would try to hold her hand.
From there your on your own buddy.
Can't give out all my moves.
Oh wait! make sure to ask her if she wants any candy or something to drink. Try to avoid popcorn for many reasons.
First off the above advice sucks balls. Never start off trying to hold hands. That makes you look desperate and like a retard. Wait for her to show the initial interest. (ill point out a few key things to look for)
and if you start having a conversation in the middle of the theater I will fucking beat the shit out of you! Not everyone goes to the movie to get laid. I actually like to watch my free movies (I work at a theater = free movies)
Cinema's are a bad place to initiate a physical relationship imo.
Before the movie -
If she hangs on to you, touches you a lot, hugs you when she sees you, and talks like she wants you. Then you would have a shot. Considering there is no talking in theaters.
anyways!
If you get the initial spark before the theater. You can always go with the sitting close approach.
It's best to let her choose the seating this will show you where she stands
If she makes you sit smack in the middle she isn't trying to hook-up or at least at that moment. If she sits in a corner or far away from everyone that means she is trying to get you to make a move.
If you see a seat with the arm bar up sit at it, and if she sits nice and close then your set. Yet if she puts it down, or sits in the other seat with the arm bar down then she wants her space.
Now!
For the kiss watch her in the corner of your eye. If you catch her looking at you during the movie and not paying much attention to the movie you should look back at her. If she turns away and doesn't show much interest I suggest you stop staring, but if she looks away and acts nervously (i swear if you fuck up reading a girl you deserve the slap) you should nudge her or start some form of light physical contact and try to get her to look at you again. If she smiles, I would lean in for it %90 of the way remember the almighty words of...fuck what was that movie with will smith in it.
If she doesn't look away after you look back then you got a free pass to lean in %90.\
Oh and as for putting my arm around her I wouldn't.
I would just try to lean up against her if she does the same, and keeps looking at you in the corner of her eye, and your hesitant on doing what I said before then maybe go for holding hands, but I myself wouldn't. If you get into kissing then I would probably put my hands on her Neck, waist, upper thigh (but not to close), and hair. After kissing that's when I would try to hold her hand.
From there your on your own buddy.
Can't give out all my moves.
Oh wait! make sure to ask her if she wants any candy or something to drink. Try to avoid popcorn for many reasons.
I have pretty much only ever kissed girls for the first time at movie theaters. First off when you go in, go to the very top and all the way over to the side where there is no light. Just mess around a little bit, but make SURE that the armrest thing between seats is up otherwise it limits possibilities. Just put your arm around her and just go. You gotta go by instinct at this point.
Don't give your first kiss at a movie theaters -.-. I understand you're 14, but seriously, no. In fact, you shouldn't ask her to be yours at the movie theater. How idiotically cliche. Take her somewhere sentimental to her, or to you. Make sure she knows this is your intention, ask her out, and kiss her THERE. If you do it as soon as you first meet her, you'll come off way to strong.
She saying she wants to be friends still even if you guys do start dating means she wants a friendship first and foremost. Establish that, and reinforce it. Don't let her get too comfortable in that stage, and show her a constant interest in having more, never let her think you just want to be friends. However, the slower you take things, the more she'll want you if you do it right.
I know you've probably never done this, but when making love, you can't just shove your penis in. You have to get them primed and ready. You have to work it, make them want it, the more they want it, the more you'll get from them. Plain and simple, women love to be made to beg.
She saying she wants to be friends still even if you guys do start dating means she wants a friendship first and foremost. Establish that, and reinforce it. Don't let her get too comfortable in that stage, and show her a constant interest in having more, never let her think you just want to be friends. However, the slower you take things, the more she'll want you if you do it right.
I know you've probably never done this, but when making love, you can't just shove your penis in. You have to get them primed and ready. You have to work it, make them want it, the more they want it, the more you'll get from them. Plain and simple, women love to be made to beg.
You really can't " plan " these sorts of things. It all just happens. Its like.. you can't plan sex. You can't just call up some girl and be like.. hey.. lets have sex tomorrow at 6pm. It doesn't work. Just take her on a date, hold hands, flirt with her, or whatever your little heart desires. If you wanna kiss her, go for it. Whats the worst thing she'll do? Turn her face? Ok, that just means she isn't ready for that stuff yet. Just take things slow, and keep talking to her, going out on dates, etc.. It'll all work out if its mean to be.
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Hook up with her in a dark area. Dont be afraid to lean close.
It's called a roofie
It got moved to tomorrow so all replies are taken into consideration. I'm going to a huge party tonight that should end at like 1am. I might go in at the party, but it might be awkward tomorrow :/
No worries I haven't gone yet
I'll take all of this into consideration, thanks for putting the effort in mate.
I'm hoping I can find a seat with no armrest :/
There's really not many other options atm with my parents being themselves. I have to pretend I'm going to a mate's house just so I can use the damn bus >.<
I'm not having sex at 14.
I suppose you can't plan it to an extent, but intentions are fine and I need some guide if it does lean towards intimacy.
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No worries I haven't gone yet
I'll take all of this into consideration, thanks for putting the effort in mate.
I'm hoping I can find a seat with no armrest :/
There's really not many other options atm with my parents being themselves. I have to pretend I'm going to a mate's house just so I can use the damn bus >.<
I'm not having sex at 14.
I suppose you can't plan it to an extent, but intentions are fine and I need some guide if it does lean towards intimacy.
Laughed.
lil hooligan
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please, do not get into the friend thing, iv seen it too many times before, once you are friends like friends friends it will be harder for you to even try hooking up seriously go for the hook up, no friends thing, arm round her, tell her she looks georgious yada yada yada, eyes meeting etc, go 90% in if shes interested she will go the 10% if not pull out seriously, hope this helps
I went to the movies with a chick id never met similiar to you bro though a friend of my friend's. Anyway I just looked straight at the movie like a stunned mullet i would not suggest it i didnt get any action unfortunately as I did nto make a move. Make a move and tell me how it goes might do it if i find another one XD
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In my opinion, forcing her to dump her BF was a foolish act, although if it was her choice, it's alright.
My sister works at the town Cinema, so it rules out my being there, lol.
But, just start watching the movie, eating, drinking etc. And then just move your arm around here shoulder, wait until she looks at you and then kiss her, lips at first. Later you can pash, i find it easier this way tbh, Just try what i said, have fun at the Cinemas mate.
My sister works at the town Cinema, so it rules out my being there, lol.
But, just start watching the movie, eating, drinking etc. And then just move your arm around here shoulder, wait until she looks at you and then kiss her, lips at first. Later you can pash, i find it easier this way tbh, Just try what i said, have fun at the Cinemas mate.
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