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Deathsnova

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Can we take it back to the time when I wasn't aware.

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Gonna cut this short.

I get picked on my this kid at my school, mainly during Drama class because thats the only class we share. He likes to call me fat, tubby, w/e he thinks of. He thinks hes funny making all of these smart remarks, jokes on him, his parents are divorced, so whenever i hear "fat" coming my way, i just say your parents are divorced and he acts like it doesnt cut him.

Recently, he's gotten 4 of his other friends to try and and grab my chest whenver they see me or get close. My friend doesnt fucking defend me for shit because hes friend with the prick as well.

So anyway, Theres another 2 people.

Whenever person B calls me fat, i respond with "Your father was a corrupt polititan" (This is true, he took bribes and had to resign)
Whenever person C calls me fat, i respond with "Your a midget"
Both of them pretty much bully me, throw shit at me.

Person C decided this afternoon to persue me "What did you say about person B's dad" "i said his dads a corrupt polititan" "Why did you say that"
He decided to push and shove me untill my other friend came over and stopped him.

Anyway, this will proberbly go to the point where the little midget thinks hes all safe from trouble because hes "defending his friend"

Considering its generally always 3v1, and i only respond with my blows out of awkwardness (He usually shouts out that im "fat" around a large group of people, what am i suppose to do, just nod my head and say "Thanks!"

If i take this to a higherup teachers (Head of senior school, ect) Will his/his friends bullying/payouts outweigh my pay outs?

Am i more likely to get in trouble or his he?

Im proberbly getting punched in the face tomrrow.=@
 
Don't go snitch. Shows that you are such a pussy and if you did, he would be the one getting in trouble.

Only solution here is that you beat the living shit out of one of them and show them that you are not to messed with, obviously, this will probably be taken to the principle's office and there you say what they did to you and you wont get in trouble or at least not in severe. What they do to you is bullying and when you react to that, it's appropriate as there a lines not to cross.

Stand your ground, don't let anything step over you.
 
usually people like them are always looking for attention since their life isnt perfect either, best thing you can do is ignor them, if you play along with thier game someone will end up getting hurt. show them that you dont really give a damn, since we are who we are because we want to be, not because we have to be. ignoring them won't stop them ofc they will go on and on but eventually they get tired, no need to start uneccesary violence over some name calling. trust me, getting back at a person is not worth the risk, it could and will eventually lead to something regretable that can destroy your future. non the less good luck man and remember, chin up
as corny sayings go
"sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me"
 
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Meisei said:
usually people like them are always looking for attention since their life isnt perfect either, best thing you can do is ignor them, if you play along with thier game someone will end up getting hurt. show them that you dont really give a damn, since we are who we are because we want to be, not because we have to be. ignoring them won't stop them ofc they will go on and on but eventually they get tired, no need to start uneccesary violence over some name calling. trust me, getting back at a person is not worth the risk, it could and will eventually lead to something regretable that can destroy your future. non the less good luck man and remember, chin up
as corny sayings go
"sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me"
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They try to grab my nipples, what am i suppose to do. If they touch my chest they say "Yeah tits" or some random crap, if i bat them away they keep coming back.
 
Join the wrestling team! Lol jks.

I had an issue like this going into highschool. Except I was the super-short skinny kid. School has it's stages. Wrestling turn me into a short kid that was stronger than the whole football team wit the exception of a few linemen

You may be the chubby kid now, but you can change that. Work out a little each day, cut out the stuff in your diet you don't need (I'm not saying go vegan, just cut out the soda/ramen and shit like that) and eventually your weight will no longer be a issue.

The real issue seems to be you being scared of the kids physically (you come at them with verbal insults). The only thing you can do about that is throw down. You may take a beating but there's a wonderful thing about it. You ALWAYS come out a stronger individual in the end, and it shows them you aint scared of them.
 
Deathsnova said:
They try to grab my nipples, what am i suppose to do. If they touch my chest they say "Yeah tits" or some random crap, if i bat them away they keep coming back.
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when it comes to physical contact, this is crossing the boundries of "my space" there are two ways of approching this.
1) they start grabbing be like "yea enjoy it faggot, since you cant get some from your gf... oh wait you dont have one!"
or
2) take the calm approche of telling to back off, keep a calm tone the whole time and dont explode or show any negative emotion. thats what they are aiming for, to piss you off. just shake it off.
 
Honestly the best two solutions I can think of is A: beat the living shit out of one of them to show you are not to be fucked with.

or

B: Do nothing and ignore them completely until they get bored and eventually stop.
 
Trust me, sometimes violence is necessary. Maybe it's just me but I don't like being seen by people as a pussy. Don't go about killing the guy but do get physical, it's the most beneficial and effective solution. There's a huge difference between name calling and then getting physical and trying to touch nipples and grabbing chests. Do what you need to do.. stay in control.
 
Scottay said:
Honestly the best two solutions I can think of is A: beat the living shit out of one of them to show you are not to be fucked with.

or

B: Do nothing and ignore them completely until they get bored and eventually stop.
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Definitely this. Both of these options are your best choice, it just depends how quickly you want results. They will continue to harass you as long as you react because that is exactly what they want. If you just ignore what they say and walk away, then they will get bored and eventually give up.
 
gamesman99 said:
If you're really abit overweight, I'd recommend joining a gym, you'll feel way better(believe me) and no1 will want to mess with you.
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If he wanted of felt like joining a gym I'm sure he would of.

Scottay said:
Honestly the best two solutions I can think of is A: beat the living shit out of one of them to show you are not to be fucked with.

or

B: Do nothing and ignore them completely until they get bored and eventually stop.
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Sometimes doing nothing never achieves anything, they may never get bored and He'll be at square one forever.

Pranster said:
beat his fucking ass? den spit and pee on him
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Because pissing on someone is the shit?


I don't think you'll get anywhere by telling a teacher, your in Dramma together so It'll just make things worse for you in the long run. Sometimes raising a fist can have a positive outcome but if your not comfortable doing so then don't. The guy who you discribed with divorsed parents is the ring leader so put him in his place and you'll be alot happier, though I'm not sure how saying someone has divorced parents would upset someone unless it just happened that week.
If you do plan to go with insults then make sure they are better than his, insecurity is Key.

I don't think what I've said will help you all that much but I wish you the best.
 
Get a new group of friends, if your friends won't defend you, fuck em.
i used to be fat and ppl who picked on me r fucking weird and un cool now. Sept the one who does steroids but ..im his friend now?
ppl are stupid in their youth, this guy gets off because he has power of u and prolly the random things u shout out. When he yells the fat part out...say something like..thanks i didnt even wear my new dress like u wanted :) fuck with em rite back
 
Well being a little bigger gives you an advantage over a lot of kids. Rock an outgoing personality, and let people know you are not to be fucked with. If I were you, I'd shove the little midget kid and make him look like a dumbass in front of everyone, like they do to you. Learning to not let people step on you is something you can use for the rest of your life, at the right times ofc.
 
I would fuck their shit up... One of them says it again just knock him in the jaw right there..
 
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People around school are asking why i talk shit about "Why did you say to him, he was the reason his parents divorced"
FML, they did shit to me first, and they think i stepped over the line by talking shit about his family
 
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I would say smart remarks, but not personal remarks like that, play with what they are calling you against them to the point where they won't want do it anymore.

If they call you fat say, I may be fat, but I can lose weight, your ugly and you won't lose that.

If they try to grab your chest say, I bet this will be the only pair you will ever feel, enjoy it while you can.

You have to be able to do and say these things with confidence, because it will let them know that what they are doing isn't bothering you. If they know it is bothering you, they will continue to do it, if they think it isn't bothering you it will get boring and they will stop. Joke around with them, by what you are saying it doesn't sound to me like they are "bullying you" but are being jackasses and don't realize it is really bothering you as much as it is.

Another thing, try not to let it bother you! Be confident! People your age joke around and think things are funny, when sometimes they aren't funny to everyone involved.
 
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