Girlfriend is coming over

I'm dating a new girl and we haven't hung out outside of school yet.
Tomorrow she is gonna be coming over to my house, so I was wondering what you guys think we should do. (Don't want any awkward/uncomfortable moments with nothing to do.)

I've downloaded (erm, bought? >.>) a movie she wants to see, but that's not very much of the day.
We haven't kissed yet either so I can't see doing anything like an "all day makeout session" or anything. There's a chance we might not be alone at all during the time either.

We both share similar interests, (we both like death metal for example), but I don't know that we really do the same things. (She watches a lot of movies for example, and in my free time I'm usually programming, learning something, or taking a break on Minecraft.)

So if you guys have any suggestions that would be amazing!

-W77

 

Bringing a girl over for the first time can be nerve racking sometimes as you are worried whether they are going to be bored or not. But it usually goes really well as the point is that you are spending time with one another.

Just show her around your house, maybe introduce her to your family & your parents, and then take her to your room. If you have similar interests that is great.. you could show her your music, books, etc, maybe pop on a death metal CD and play some mario kart or watch a film and cuddle. If she gets hungry, take her out to the kitchen and cook something for her.

As I am reading what I write, it sounds really fucking gay. But I am not joking lol. Really, you guys are just hanging out and getting to know each other. So just let loose, have some fun, and if things are going well maybe you guys can hunker for for a movie and you can get that kiss you are waiting for

 

It's sweet! :love:

Minus the introducing her to your parents, i wouldn't want a boy introducing me to his parents when i've never even been to his house before, awkk!

The movie is a good start, you can flip to T.V after it is over and just be playful!

Don't act like you're all nervy, pretend she comes over all the time, play fight like you've been dating for months!

 

Haha alright thanks -.^ I just hope my nerves don't get to me.

& Zerk The only thing I can't do is take her to my room D:
I had a cat that wasn't as potty trained as I thought. Long story short my room needs to be stripped and cleaned.
Kinda ruins a lot

 

If she smokes weed, that can be a good thing to do while listening to death metal. It can also burn (lol) a lot of time. It'll also help you guys understand each other a bit more.

 

Don't bring up drugs unless you know she's into that... it could be a major turn off if she isn't.

 

Firstly, don't try to force things, or go to fast. Just do romantic things for her; open the door, take her jacket, pull chairs for her, etc. When you watch the movie, cuddle with her, and look if she's enjoying it. If you sense signs of boredom, try improving her movie experience somewhat, or doing something that would entertain her more. After the movie, or whatever you do, maybe there's something she wants to do, so don't forget that. But, if there isn't, just try improvising by playing video games, listening to music, etc. When it's finally the time, try to see if there is any sign(s) she'd like to kiss, then take it slow, and don't rush things. If you don't get an opportunity to kiss today, then don't fret. Maybe she just likes taking things slow or just isn't ready, just don't do anything rash, the time will come. Finally, I wish you the best on your small date, good luck!

 

@that - She's not into it. She's not really against it, but she's never done anything "bad".

And thanks Wulf! When I get my next paycheck I'll hopefully have enough to do something. I didn't even have enough to put gas in my tank before yesterday though; luckily it was my birthday so I got some money from a few people. I want to have enough money to take her to see Ted when that comes out too ;p

 

Haha, I am totally the same way! Meeting parents right away makes me super nervous, I don't know why. I would much prefer hanging out alone a few times first, but you can't always get away with that.

If you bring her over and your parents are home, it may be a good idea to introduce them. If your parents are really awkward, goofy, and embarrassing (and you DO NOT want them to meet her), those are actually the best kind of parents because they usually win gf's over really fast. My dad is like that, he tries to be soo funny and crack jokes and he looks like Conan O'Brien (he's a redhead) and he is super embarrassing, so my girlfriends immediately love him lol.

Lmao @ your cat. That actually gave me a good chuckle :laugh:

No worries if you can't take her to your room, you can do the same things described above & below in any room. I just assumed that is where you'd be hanging out. Rec room or living room works too!

 

It's only my mom, so it shouldn't be too bad. Plus she's 60 and is usually just ...there. Never does anything embarrassing or mean when people around; she just stays out of the way.

And glad you enjoyed it haha. My room smells soo bad and I can't tell where it's coming from. Oh well, I've still the the couch to sleep on.
But yeah, we'll likely be in the living room, and we'll probably be alone for the most part.

And any tips if it gets to the "what do you want to do" point? Happened with my last girlfriend a lot but we were extremely comfortable around each other so it was never a big deal.

 

I just laughed so loud in the middle of the airport, your cat exploded in your room?

 

Like literally?

If not yeah, just don't know where xD

 

things like these you cant really plan out, trust me it will just go with the flow.

 

Going to move this to the support section.

 

Yeah, but I just wanted to be safe.

And okay, that's fine.

 

LOL


OP just be yourself. If she gets bored with things you do you probably don't share similar interests and aren't meant for each other. Don't change yourself for a girl. Try to find something that both of you can enjoy. Ask her what she likes to do? I suggest a kitchen date.

 

What's a kitchen date?

& I'm going to get her in like 2 hours; I'm kinda nervous.

 

Don't be nervy!

Pretend that you've known her for years, give her a big hug, OPEN HER CAR DOOR, be sweet and honest, say something like "haha, i'm so nervous" she'll ask why, say something "i don't know, i haven't been around someone so beautiful!" she'll melt, promise!

 

Haha it's kinda hard not to be.

And my mom has been screaming and yelling at me all day for no reason; I hope she knocks this shit off before within 40 minutes. All I've been doing is cleaning and doing chores, nothing that should have made her this vehemently angry.
Needless to say it would be a big turnoff if she came over and my mom was being a bitch.

 

It is very hard not to be but try not to, it will make things extremely awk!

Talk to your mom before she comes over, ask her to relax because you're trying to make an impression.