Girlfriend help.

[datpo]

Update.

I just logged onto her snapchat seeing she's spamming one dude with snapchats who seems like he obviously doesn't want to talk to her, but the worst part is this is what she said- "Haha yes I am right now hahahaha I saw your insta and I was like this guys cute I'll snap him but then after I was like crap I look scary"

What should I do.

 

Update.

I just logged onto her snapchat seeing she's spamming one dude with snapchats who seems like he obviously doesn't want to talk to her, but the worst part is this is what she said- "Haha yes I am right now hahahaha I saw your insta and I was like this guys cute I'll snap him but then after I was like crap I look scary"

What should I do.

Said that to whom? It seems like she's really being shady dude. She's calling guys cute and essentially making back up plans or worse. I would confront her about her activities WITHOUT letting her know you've actually seen her snap chats.

 

[datpo]

Said that to whom? It seems like she's really being shady dude. She's calling guys cute and essentially making back up plans or worse. I would confront her about her activities WITHOUT letting her know you've actually seen her snap chats.

There is no way I can bring up she's calling other guys cute and shit. Idk who she said it to also.

 

[Logic]

She is obviously tired of you and is looking to trade up. It's very common with women and I'd advice to ditch her now because it's just a matter of time untill she will dump you. Also from what you have said it's kinda obvious that she isn't a quality catch. More of a stuck up bitch who likes attention (who could have guessed right?).

 

[datpo]

She is obviously tired of you and is looking to trade up. It's very common with women and I'd advice to ditch her now because it's just a matter of time untill she will dump you. Also from what you have said it's kinda obvious that she isn't a quality catch. More of a stuck up bitch who likes attention (who could have guessed right?).

She showed she liked me a lot then literally one night it just changed I have no idea why.

 

[Logic]

She showed she liked me a lot then literally one night it just changed I have no idea why.

If you hope to understand why women do the shit they do then don't bother, cause they don't know either.

 

Fuck that shit, don't even give her an explanation. Definitely break up with her.

 

[datpo]

Fuck that shit, don't even give her an explanation. Definitely break up with her.

I don't want my mom to start asking questions and shit then too.

 

I don't want my mom to start asking questions and shit then too.

Tell your mom what's going down. She'll be like damn that bitch and completely understand. Do what is going to make you happy.

 

[datpo]

Tell your mom what's going down. She'll be like damn that bitch and completely understand. Do what is going to make you happy.

She will be mad at me for logging onto her snapchat account probably and wonder how I got the password etc.

 

[datpo]

Tell her straight up to get off the phone and give you some attention or you're outta here. Just be honest. Then if she stays the same and you still feel the same way, get outta there.

Can't hurt to bring it up to her. Who knows, maybe she'll go back to her old ways!

She will give me some bullshit excuse.

 

[Hamouze]

I'm gonna have to call bullshit for a second because you can't check what snapchats people send or receive. Once a snapchat is opened you can't open it again and once a snapchat is sent there is no way to view what you have sent. I asked you before and you didn't answer how you were doing it >.> Shady.
TBH kinda feel like this is just a way you're trying to get your post count up...
Also, "Haha yes I am right now hahahaha I saw your insta and I was like this guys cute I'll snap him but then after I was like crap I look scary" doesn't fit on Snapchat...

 

[datpo]

I'm gonna have to call bullshit for a second because you can't check what snapchats people send or receive. Once a snapchat is opened you can't open it again and once a snapchat is sent there is no way to view what you have sent. I asked you before and you didn't answer how you were doing it >.> Shady.
TBH kinda feel like this is just a way you're trying to get your post count up...
Also, "Haha yes I am right now hahahaha I saw your insta and I was like this guys cute I'll snap him but then after I was like crap I look scary" doesn't fit on Snapchat...

1- I logged onto her snapchat and opened the pictures (they were unopened
2- Fine I'll answer. Her password is the same as a lot of things so I just guessed it was that and it was so..
3- This is a legitimate issue...
4- I can screenshot that (was a chat on snapchat)

 

She's gone behind your back and really disrespected your relationship.

So you have three options:

1) Break up with her, if anyone asks why just tell them straight up. There's no defending a cheater whether you went on her snapchat or not.
2) Confront her about it and try to solve any outlying issues.
3) Be a push over and just act like nothing happened and eventually she'll leave for another guy. (Harsh, but true)

Reality is she's looking at other guys in ways that she wouldn't if she was in a committed relationship.

 

She will be mad at me for logging onto her snapchat account probably and wonder how I got the password etc.

....Why would you say it like that. Just say that she's been really distant and you got proof from a friend that she was flirting with other guys so you ended up.


Before you even go into a relationship you need to grow a pair of balls, are you really afraid of your mommy?

 

Break up with her and move on. Plenty girls out there that aren't selfish.

 

[Logic]

She will be mad at me for logging onto her snapchat account probably and wonder how I got the password etc.

If your mother is mad about the things you did and not for what your gf did then you have a seriously shity mom. The only reason women get away with manipulating men is that mothers almost never tell their sons that women can and will manipulate them. And the reason is that the moms are also manipulating their sons. Dump her and if your mom gives you any trouble about it then ask why the fuck didn't she warn you ealier to watch out for selfish bitches.

 

[krutoi]

Let me give you some tips. First off break up with her now, otherwise she will make your life a real pain in the ass. And what I mean by that is that she will eventually manipulate you (even more than she's used to) and you will end up with a hand behind and your dick between your legs. Don't you fucking see that she's chatting with others and that she looks towards other ways rather than being or spending time with you (her dear boyfriend)? She will cry but let her cry and go the fuck away from that snake. And about your mom, hmm.. Why the fuck would your mom ask about this? Did you even tell her that you have this girlfriend? Will your mother annoy you? Well maybe but that's considered life, rather than being bad yourself and spend time with a retard girl ( sorry for her, but it's kinda true ) who spends time chatting with other gals rather than with his "boyfriend" just talks by itself. Just leave that bitch, it will make your life easier otherwise you're just thinking of her every single second and indeed she already cheated on you by the way that you've said all. Just do that. Best of luck sir.

 

[Xolr]

Imo the problem is in the ages. You'll figure it out some day. I know this isn't the best advice and possibly exactly what you didn't want to hear, but you -will- understand this post better at a later time.

 

[datpo]

Thanks everyone for the help.