Girlfriend help.

[TDD]

She'll either break it off with you, or come clean and quit. No sense in dragging it out - it will only get worse

Once a cheater always a cheater.

 

[dorianking]

Don't mess her up emotionally. Two wrongs don't make a right.

I disagree.

In algebra terms: Negative (-) + Negative (-) = Positive (+)

Just a food for thought.

 

[Rushie]

I disagree.

In algebra terms: Negative (-) + Negative (-) = Positive (+)

Just a food for thought.

(-)x(-)=(+)
(-)x(+)=(-)
(+)x(+)=+

So everything makes a right (positive) unless there's actually a wrong AND a right.

 

[Solidddd]

W00t GJ, coming on a site of people comprised mainly of illiterate 10-15-year-olds with no past experience. Anyway, if you know it for a fact just ask her without acting like a dick about it.

He clearly stated he already asked her about it and she denied it and stormed off.

Ownage, I'm wondering if by seeing you mean like dating him aswell (and possibly fucking him), or just like hanging out with him?

 

[kingthi]

Talk to her, if she keeps storming off, then she isn't right for you and is probably only using you as a rebound. Communication is the strongest thing about a relationship and if she keeps avoiding it then just drop her.

 

[ownage overdose]

Thanks for keeping this mature.
Thanks for all thoughts and ideas.

In response to the general thoughts and ideas expressed.
Revenge:
I am physically dominant over him by far, but I don't think he deserves a beatdown because he is hanging out with my girl. If he is tapping her, then a beatdown would be in order but as a few people have said, two wrongs don't make a right. Plus, I am relax'd and hippy like. Not my style.

Cheating back. What gain do I get from her being in pain?

Breaking up:
This is an option as she has lied to me. I don't feel though the lie is that severe that it can't be talked over and resolved. Unless they are banging.

Talk/Confront her:
Previous attempts have failed but maybe there is a better way for me to go about it.

Why ask on Sythe:
When learning to skate, do you only learn from one person? No, because everyone has different styles and ways of doing things. Get the point?
Ive talked to mates and her mates about it aswell. Asking here gives me opinions from all kinds of people. Some more experianced, some not so much, some conservative, some radical.

 

[Infernal Dave]

I disagree.

In algebra terms: Negative (-) + Negative (-) = Positive (+)

Just a food for thought.

If you're trying to teach us algebra; that's why we go to school. If I murder a stranger, and rob a bank, would that be okay? Real life decisions != algebra terms.

 

[Badger191]

I would say just break-up with her, obviously she is using you as a rebound.

Don't beat the fool unless he makes any rude comments.

 

[Cirx]

Well, its not going to make it any better asking for girlfriend help on a Runescape forum, is it.

 

[Maskiet]

Talk her face-to-face.
If she starts to scream, and cry etc. STAY CALM. Then try to talk her politely.

 

[ownage overdose]

Well, its not going to make it any better asking for girlfriend help on a Runescape forum, is it.

I adressed that in my last post.
I posted this in off topic.
You would be suprised how many active members don't play Runescape.

 

[golden virginia]

ok first of all 'fucking up' her ex wont help at all.. if shes seeing him behind your back just ditch her she isnt worth it.

 

[Chantecleer]

You need to:

a) increase the size of your penis

b) increase the size of your balls

c) get a more loyal girlfriend

d) have sex with her ex so she gets jealous

 

[The_Ace]

Just talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel.

Also i don't disagree with the kick the ex's ass, i would do this too, however this wont necessary prevent any cheating.

Also if this was me and my gf, i would fucking freak on both of them.

 

[Rhett3]

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Very true.

Break up.

 

[Rune Shadow]

Just talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel.

Also i don't disagree with the kick the ex's ass, i would do this too, however this wont necessary prevent any cheating.

Also if this was me and my gf, i would fucking freak on both of them.

From what I'm seeing.. talking wont do anything.

You should start treating how she treats you...

 

[M()nk3yz]

If she was cheating on you then break the fuck up with her, she obviously didnt care before.

 

[Albania]

if you are strong enough. fuck her ex up.

Can't always figh Ex'es because your girlfriend is the problem.

My Suggestion:

Call it off, explain to her why, and tell her until you want to tell me the truth, and tell me if your fucking with me or not it's off. When she Txt's you don't respond even though deep down you want to. Girls are fucked up man, some are stupid, some are bitches, and some got unbelievable game lol...

Be the stronger person, call it off before she cheats on you...because you will feel much worse knowing women has cheated on you, on the other hand if you call it off you got nothing to regret in the future.

 

[puffels]

And if you aren't, fuck her up. Same results.

no dont do that hitting a girl isnever ok in my oppinion come strait out to her and say i know ur cheating either she will stop and really suck up or she will break it off and either way i stil would put the effort in to fightthe peice of shit fucking ur girl!

 

[Diax]

Get her jealous, start flirting with other chicks.