Friends help

[Unregistered410]

So I'm not sure what to do now yet life is just blunt all the time. I have some social problems in my life as I really hate it. In school, I don't normally do much but sit, do classwork and go home and repeat. Don't have very much friends anyways but during the lunch and break, I hang out with about 5 really close friends I know since Freshman/Sophomore year. I have another friend but he doesn't attend school but a different school and known him since kindergarten. I only had one relationship with a girl last year but ended less than 2 days because she probably wanted to go to a upcoming dance called the Jr. Prom. So about my friends that I hangout practically my whole high school life, which after a while they become so rude, throw jokes at me which starts to piss me off. Sometimes there are discussions about they hanging out and surpisingly they didn't call me up to hang out or anything which is kind of sad. I was thinking of just leaving behind my misery of my friends and just becoming a loner in school and possibly find a date to my last dance of the year which is the Senior Ball. Any suggestions on how to start finding one to go with, I'll probably go with a 10th or 11th grade girl. What should I really do? I feel so depressed just staying home everyday and having nobody to talk to in my life and yeah...

 

[Lordhooters]

I say stay with your friends man, when they throw jokes at you, throw some back.
Give them a call to hang out sometime.
Sure a girl is nice, but friends are more important.
Try to involve yourself more with a different variety of people around your school.
Do you have a vehicle/job? If so it is easier to get around to social gatherings. If not, ask your mother and father to take you, if they say no, explain your situation, tell them that you are depressed.

 

How bad are these "jokes" they're saying?
All boys joke around.

 

[malakadang]

You shouldn't let your friends jokes get to you.

If it does either you've got an emotional problem, or they're out of line.

What type of jokes did you find offensive?

 

[Redemptor]

Also, my advice would be to not be too pushy, in my experience anyone who comes over too strong can seem a bit freaky and creep people out. Same with convo's try and keep them light-hearted and friendly. Nobody likes a downer. lol.

And about the jokes, chances are they're only messing around as all guys do, there's not too many people who are complete assholes and try to put someone down on purpose.

Feel free to pm me if you wanna talk.