Does This Make Me Gay?

[Unregistered]

Hi guys/girls,

I've had this feeling for a while now, everytime I watch porn I enjoy the boobs/bums and whatnot, but when it zooms onto the vagina I have to look away because I think it looks disgusting, I'm not sure if this makes me gay or not but I'm attracted to females.

I'm also a virgin so that probably doesn't help and nor have I seen a proper one in my life.

Thanks for the help, and does anyone else have this problem?

 

yeah if you have to look away when you look at a pussy, then you're probably gay.

Don't talk rubbish lol

It's probably nothing, how old are you? Once you've experienced it, it might be different. Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. Just do what you feel's right. Your opinions could all change once you've had sex. You don't have to decide right now what you are, just enjoy yourself man.

 

Don't judge yourself till you've done the deed!

 

[Promethium91]

We've heard this question dozens of times.

OP, no, you are not gay. If you find yourself sexually attracted to other men and ONLY men, then you are gay. At the very most you could be bisexual since you find women attractive.

As for the whole "vaginas look gross" thing, I don't really know what to tell you - I assume this is just a mental thing you'll get over at some point.

You enjoy bums? Not sure why you would like a homeless person being in a porno... but anyway, yeah if you have to look away when you look at a pussy, then you're probably gay.

Treat posters with absolute respect. Even if you find their problem to be repugnant or unethical, do not judge them. You are not the person in question and have no real reason to be passing judgement either way.
If you are responding to a topic, please post maturely and inoffensively.
Please try to give quality advice, rather than usual, droning clichéd advice.

Please be realistic here.

 

[Cabbage]

I'll be honest, it really depends on a lot of different factors. Age is a really big one. As you said you're a virgin, which would make some sense to me. If this little personal experience can maybe help you so much the better-
I'm like that too, in a sense. I just don't watch porn partly because that reason, and for other moral reasons. [There are alternatives but that is a completely different story].
Don't be ashamed of anything really man. Urges, desires, disgusts, lusts will change in time and new ones will take its place(s). It will probably change after you've had intercourse for the first time; I would make that bet. Besides, you say you like boobs and butt. That would show me that you do have desire for women. Besides, every guy has had a time in his life where he's contemplated if he was gay; its a natural thing. If you need anymore help, feel free to hit me up. I'm always willing to help with this stuff.

 

[Cruellex]

As far as I'm aware it's fairly normal, every girl is different and some vaginas simply have to be enjoyed with the lights off instead.

 

[Whatsgood44]

Aye man pussy not pretty lol but forreal naw your not gay unless you like dudes

 

[cig123]

You are going through the classic sexuality exploration of growing up. Don't stress it man. You are not gay because you find a vagina unattractive lol! There is much more to human sexuality then finding a sexual organ attractive. Once you begin having sex you'll find out what you are really into.