A regular [starter] acoustic Ibanez would probably work out for you. They usually come with an instruction booklet with a few starter songs for you to try.
I asked my husband about how he learned to play and he said he learned by listening to the beat and repeating it. Generally its just something you pick up over time and you will create your own play style.
Something like this:
http://www.ibanez.co.jp/usa/products/jumpstart/IJV50.html
Start off with the kit and when you get used to it, you could always upgrade from there. Their website had several kits that were ready to go. I just picked one for the link