Confident with yourself?
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I get low self esteem when I'm around someone I'm attracted to. And I get nervous and tense and stuff.. I have no idea how to deal with it lol
I'm sometimes really shy, and sometimes i just don't care what they think of me and i'm myself. Like in school 1,2,3 i'm shy, or maybe i'm just tired. 4,5 hour i'm completly confident with myself. Also alcohol is just liquid courage so when i drink that i'm probobly the friendliest motherfuck you'll ever meet. When i meet a girl i like I usually flirt with her as much as possible. I used to be nervouse but about a year ago I met a girl that i knew i would only know for about two days, so i threw whatever she could have thought of me out the door. Which sucks now because i miss her.
Meh. I kind of lock in and don't talk that much around new people, because I don't know what their interests etc are. I'm pretty confident usually, I just have a hard time talking to people I don't know. Once I know a person for a pretty good length of time and start to figure out what they're into I can easily talk to them no problem. The only thing is that apparently by not talking much, I tend to come off as rude, which sort of sucks but I can deal with it. If I actually care enough to where I really don't want to offend them I'll just tell them I'm pretty shy and I want them to let me warm up to them before they pass any real judgment on me.
What you have to do to be confident :
Breathere more slowly then you usually do taking deep breaths.
When in converstasion with other people alway ask why how and etc.
never look down, always look in persons eye
when talking to a girl same applys, dont look at sides or down. listens to what she says and read her bodylanguage
there's more
but u'll overcome the fear believe me, but once you do you will feel like new person!
Breathere more slowly then you usually do taking deep breaths.
When in converstasion with other people alway ask why how and etc.
never look down, always look in persons eye
when talking to a girl same applys, dont look at sides or down. listens to what she says and read her bodylanguage
there's more
but u'll overcome the fear believe me, but once you do you will feel like new person!
i hope some of you people will overcome that once you will meet someone you think that can help you do that, i met someone who is 42 years old but has a body of 16 yr old and she teached me many lessons for life and im only 18. I am now confident, not afraid of noone, got good self-esteem, never search for words in my pocket if u know what i mean 
The advice that i can give you dude, don't care about your weight people might look at your differently but that's just you, overcome fear of your weight and start getting chiks
also try not to be shy, this is very important.. If you are shy.
Really, how come i got B in english at my leaving cert?..
Yup!!
We know that winners never do any different thing, But they do the same thing in a different way. So CONFIDENCE is required rather than OVER-CONFIDENCE.
I am always real at any situation. Thanks for such nice thread.
Have a nice time ahead.
Thank you too
Hmm, i'm pretty confident.
not scared for people or something like that
not scared for people or something like that
I find it very easy to be confident in real life, but when it comes to the internet I find it difficult to relate to most people. I don't get along very well with people that understand hate.
I'm shy for the first hour of meeting someone. If they're a serious person, they're not going take my humor and it's unlikely we'll end up being friends. After around 4 hours with someone we're both fully comfortable.
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I'm very confident, but not so much that it's cocky.
I have my good and bad days, really depends on the person/people. If its someone I can't relate to at all I'll usually just be pretty quiet and shy, but if its people that I have similar interests to and can relate to quite well, I can easily be myself. For example, yesterday I went to a concert with about 20 people, only one of which I knew beforehand. We all had the same tastes of pretty much everything and I made a ton of new friends just being myself.
I just act myself and it worked well for me. More or less everyone likes me just for the way i am.
Question is, are you confident with yourself?
In front of girls or other people, i mean can you be real yourself infront of everyone?
Well guess what i just went over a strage where i am now full confident with myself
Confidentiality is more of what you think is cool/right and you are doing just that.
I feel fine about myself around ppl. I don't give a shit what people think though. lol
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