Child punishment

[CrazeD]

I mean it depends on the situation if someone just accidentally did somehing wrong they shouldn't get a backhand for it.

 

[Macroman]

I feel very strongly about this, Here is my case.

Well as the sinfull human beings we are we do wrong and we cant help it most of the times, But we all seek revenge.

After Being SPANked or so called Disiplined you get a deep feeling inside of you that you want to get back at that person.

Now Case 2:
You grow up learning that smaking someone is the way too dicipline them right?
Well The natural thing it makes you does it makes you violent trying to teach people what to do by bashing the Shit out of them.

I rest my case

 

[°•Faded•°]

It's wrong. Don't hurt me pls

 

[lancelot]

Everybody hates it. Thats straight forward
but change your veiw from the sissy little kid way to a parents point of veiw
havent they got enough stress to deal with at work or family then come and see us go goofy and shit his/hers reputation.
Not saying it's right to hit kids but when you try to find out the reason why, its legitimate.
Next time you get the slap think what stress your parents have gone through to bring you up then to see you shit it all up and became a pedophile.

 

[jaamal]

I feel very strongly about this, Here is my case.

Well as the sinfull human beings we are we do wrong and we cant help it most of the times, But we all seek revenge.

After Being SPANked or so called Disiplined you get a deep feeling inside of you that you want to get back at that person.

Now Case 2:
You grow up learning that smaking someone is the way too dicipline them right?
Well The natural thing it makes you does it makes you violent trying to teach people what to do by bashing the Shit out of them.

I rest my case

Or the person can start to hate violence so much they they never hit a person in their life... Just because you see soemthing doesnt mean you will do it. For example if you see someoneshoot themselves in the head, will you do it? No, of course not you will see it is dumb and not hate violence...
I rest my case

 

[Psybash]

jamal what you saying is true to a point, for instince my dad was beaten from my grandpa when he was young, and my father said hed never treat his kids like that, well it happened until i started hitting back. i mean you could say one thing but in a couple years your view could change everything. like when i have kids? im not going to beat the shit out of them for doing something wrong, maybe a little smack here and there but thats all

 

[Ermky]

Or the person can start to hate violence so much they they never hit a person in their life... Just because you see soemthing doesnt mean you will do it. For example if you see someoneshoot themselves in the head, will you do it? No, of course not you will see it is dumb and not hate violence...
I rest my case

Are you admiting that i won the argument since i still haven't gotten any response yet?

 

[jaamal]

Hit children to teach them 'What is out there?'
Theory is satisfactory enough to suffice.

Hitting children to teach them about the 'real world' is possibly the most ridiculous idea I've ever heard.

Parents are the most effecting role models over their children than anyone else. Hitting your child, as I said previously, is going to do nothing but teach your child that aggression is acceptable, and should be used.

Then you fail to relize that if someone that loves you some much will hurt you to make you understand that what you did is wrong then you missed the point anyway...

jamal what you saying is true to a point, for instince my dad was beaten from my grandpa when he was young, and my father said hed never treat his kids like that, well it happened until i started hitting back. i mean you could say one thing but in a couple years your view could change everything. like when i have kids? im not going to beat the shit out of them for doing something wrong, maybe a little smack here and there but thats all

It can work both ways is all I am saying it can make a person a killer if they go crazy, but it can also correct them and make them hate violence. And my dad doesnt hit me my mom does and I won't hit her back out of respect and that she is a woman...
Also I will whip my kids I am not going to go crazy, and just hit my kid for no reason but this is my chart...

1 year or lower: No punishment
2-4: Smack on the hand
5-14: You can get whipped. Not going to punch my kid...
Anything older: Let them learn the hard way...

Are you admiting that i won the argument since i still haven't gotten any response yet?

No, Just because someone may not have answered your question when you wanted doesnt mean they give into you... And I am not saying beat the kid up everyday, just whipping your kid isn't the end of the world...

 

[Batman_ownz15]

I agree with this. I was punnished when I was little and it made me the man I am today. Kids that don't get punished are always stuck up or spoiled rotten. I agree with this..

 

[Toxic.]

a simple grounding or take something like the computer away fromt hem will help very much in that situation.

 

[Psybash]

a simple grounding or take something like the computer away fromt hem will help very much in that situation.

my thoughts of when my comp gets taken away. "need to steal it back, wherd they put it. its not gonna help them taking it away". so i just end up doing more stupid stuff =D and when i get grounded... nothing happens i do whatever the fuck i want

 

[jaamal]

my thoughts of when my comp gets taken away. "need to steal it back, wherd they put it. its not gonna help them taking it away". so i just end up doing more stupid stuff =D and when i get grounded... nothing happens i do whatever the fuck i want

Yeah I think everyone has stolen back there stuff, because it made them angry just like getting a whooping makes you mad, but if you think you can swing at your parents and stay in the house you are a foolish person...

 

[Psybash]

ive been told that many times jaamal, and yes sometimes i am. i dont wanna stay in my house. i can move in with my best friend, but the fact is my moms not ready for me to be "grown up", and reports me as a runaway everytime i leave the house for more then 24 hours. my dad recently moved out because he couldnt deal with my mom, so thats why ive been doing whatever i want, but im still in by curfew and going to school.

 

[Ermky]

No, Just because someone may not have answered your question when you wanted doesnt mean they give into you... And I am not saying beat the kid up everyday, just whipping your kid isn't the end of the world...

I never said you losed the argument. If you would have paid more attention to what i wrote you would have noticed what i meant.

I know, i never said that it will or would.

 

[jaamal]

I never said you losed the argument. If you would have paid more attention to what i wrote you would have noticed what i meant.

I know, i never said that it will or would.

You asked if you won since I didn't reply...

ive been told that many times jaamal, and yes sometimes i am. i dont wanna stay in my house. i can move in with my best friend, but the fact is my moms not ready for me to be "grown up", and reports me as a runaway everytime i leave the house for more then 24 hours. my dad recently moved out because he couldnt deal with my mom, so thats why ive been doing whatever i want, but im still in by curfew and going to school.

Why not just get emancipated and move in with your friend? If it was bad enough that your dad would leave as well, I am sure the court would support your decision.

 

[Batman_ownz15]

a simple grounding or take something like the computer away fromt hem will help very much in that situation.

Grounding and taking things away only works when they are young.

 

[Ermky]

You asked if you won since I didn't reply...

I asked IF i won.
Keyword: If.

I never said that i DID win.

You gotta se the differences.

Anyway. I guess i'm done withthis topic. I've said my opinion, you've said yours and we have debated. I'm done.

 

[Krypton6]

As a smaller child I would also have bin hitted when doing something wrong.
Though I was never hit by any of my parents at any time.

But my conclusion is.

Humans are also animals. Every single animal in the wild punish their young ones by hitting them, when they have done somethign wrong.
Its natures way of making it clear and stating the rules of the world for one.
Animals do it, why shouldnt we? We all know it works.
I dont mean real hiting, but just some small hits same as what other animals do.
I dont think that it will create hate towards the parents. It will create some hate, but that hate will disappear after a few days, and left will be a learned lesson.

Hitting your child hard though, is out of the catagory. Not even animals do so.

 

[M O N G O pker]

My best freinds mom was abusive. From the age of 8 she beat him on a regular basis. Once when he was 12 he (accidentaly) smaked her back. She then burnt his hand on the stove last year he took his life. That was one of my best freinds. He was 16. Hitting your children is completely wrong. Even just a spanking, or a slap. Children should be punnished by say taking away the computer, tv, letting them have no freinds over ect. Violence isn't the answer.


~ M O N G O pker ~
R.I.P -Spoken C. Anderson August 23 2006

 

[jaamal]

My best freinds mom was abusive. From the age of 8 she beat him on a regular basis. Once when he was 12 he (accidentaly) smaked her back. She then burnt his hand on the stove last year he took his life. That was one of my best freinds. He was 16. Hitting your children is completely wrong. Even just a spanking, or a slap. Children should be punnished by say taking away the computer, tv, letting them have no freinds over ect. Violence isn't the answer.


~ M O N G O pker ~
R.I.P -Spoken C. Anderson August 23 2006

I am sorry to hear that, but his mom was just crazy, and how do you accidently slap your mom... I understand if you did and regret it, but accidently slap her... Doubt it. Sorry for your loss again.