Child punishment

[µDeAtH®]

It's good. It makes the child tough and more intelligent in some ways... It makes them not be so clingy you know...

 

[Ermky]

Thats dumb... I would tell my parent anything whether I was gonna get hit or stuff taken away from me, you hide the things you do wrong, And if I had a choice whether or not to lose all my stuff or get hit. I would rather get hit...





I never said that I would break my son's jaw... I used it as a example... People remember pain and they remember why they went throught that pain, therefore they remember what caused them pain and want to stay away from it... Also I fight very rarely, last fight I got in was 8 years ago... And fighting solves alot, it gets rid of stress and lets you express emotion.

Then it's a very bad example since violence is violence, as we were talking about violence thru family it's a very bad example.

They also remember BAD things when they feel pain. I love how you make yourself look bad. I'm going to continue on your sentence.

People remember pain and they remember why they went throught that pain, therefore they remember what caused them pain and want to stay away from it Stay away from the person that hit you. That's right. The child will get scared for their own Mom/Dad! Do you find that right?!

And NO fighting does not fucking solve anything. There is a reason that you were born with a mouth. One of the reasons was to compromise with it. So should you.


You can actually get in JAIL if a fight gets really serious. And if you're going to jail you have obviously done something wrong.

 

[jaamal]

Then it's a very bad example since violence is violence, as we were talking about violence thru family it's a very bad example.

They also remember BAD things when they feel pain. I love how you make yourself look bad. I'm going to continue on your sentence.




And NO fighting does not fucking solve anything. There is a reason that you were born with a mouth. One of the reasons was to compromise with it. So should you.


You can actually get in JAIL if a fight gets really serious. And if you're going to jail you have obviously done something wrong.

Yes thats the point, to remember the pain they experienced when they did whatever they did to be punished.

Next we all have mouths and only 1, but we have two knucklesl, what are those used for... And violence is a much faster way to solve problems.

 

[Red_Phoenix]

I believe it's wrong but parents should be strict with their children.
One kid on my street kicks his dad's ass and the dumbass father won't kick him out 'cause he's too scared.
So like grabbing their child by the collar or shoulder to show them who's in charge is perfectly fine by me.

 

[Mad-moose]

Punishing a child is one thing

but abusing a child is different. abusing children makes serial killers and rapeists. not even trying to be funny

 

[Ermky]

Yes thats the point, to remember the pain they experienced when they did whatever they did to be punished.

Next we all have mouths and only 1, but we have two knucklesl, what are those used for... And violence is a much faster way to solve problems.

Remembering pain from your Dad/Mom isn't a good thing. They will eventually get scared and starting to think that hiting someone is ok. Which is NOT ok.
I can't belive how you can actually have those opinions, i can tell how badly you have been raised. I feel kinda bad for you.

I can tell you, your two knucklels was not created to hit other people.

And violence is a much faster way to solve problems.

That's just a matter of time question. How will violence "solve" problems? None. To solve a problem you need to have a solution, that might work. Hiting someone is a very bad solution that does not fucking work. It's common sense.

 

[Pussy]

naaaa, i would be dead

 

[beheaded]

if u think about it most children get smacked/sometimes belted and they still hav a goood relationship with their parents. I dont think its wrong as it tell the child that is not right. plus it dont hurt anyhows ^^

 

[100]

I think it's right because on family guy in the beginning this guy hit his daughter and when on 8th hit other girl said:

"No dad! 8 is enough!"

And they all started laughing and it was cool so thats why child punishment is right.

 

[Govind]

Not unless they really ask for it. And even then, not too hard.

 

[§tr€nth Øwn§™]

na..my mom wouldnt hit me

 

[beheaded]

yo 100, family guy means sht, its a tv cartoon show -.-
wat does it hav to do with child punishment, i mean the thing u stated meant nothing

 

[Darlok1337]

The only way we can remove violence from our society is to start from the beggining, if people hit there children then where doyou draw the line? Children must know from the start if their lives that violence is wrong.

 

[slamed ur sister]

i think its wrong too

naw i dont think it is i learnt shit loads from it but now that im 13+ i barely ever get it

 

[Blak Magik]

I think, depending on the circumstances, children should be spanked. I was and too often i might say :] i was a bad kid. But if i was spanked it made me think about what I did and made me think that if I did it again it would hurt worse the next time so it helped me learn lessons.

 

[b1b]

i mean depends what they do..
if you are a little kid and run into the street wiothout looking yes spank him but dont abuse the chiold a spank is just to teach the lesson so if he wants to get his/her ball again or wtvr... he'll renenber the spank that nailed his rear

 

[ZandderR]

I put sometime because it does make them learn their lesson most of the time but as someone said it can make them dislike their parents and may lead 2 suicide rofl

 

[sink fauchet]

Child spanking is sometimes simply because the parent was so afraid of what would have happened (shown in the example above, when the child ran into the street) that they have to vent fear and teach their child a lesson. Although spanking is sometimes a good incentive to learn to do what is right, child abuse can lead to suicide, the child abusing his peers, or the child might fear his/her mom/dad. Many poems have been written about child abuse that can truly express the fear a younger child can feel if they are beaten or abused regularly. As expressed in the poem below, *Thanks to Chicken Noodle Soup for the Soul for the Poem* it clearly shows how afraid a child can be of its parent, when parents are supposed to give love and support and they give bruises and cuts then what will the child think of them?

My name is Misty
I'm only three,
My eyes are swollen
I cannot see,
I must be stupid
I must be bad,
What else could have
Made my daddy so mad?
I wish I were better
I wish I weren't ugly,
Then maybe my mommy
Would still want to hug me.
I can't speak at all
I can't do a wrong
Or else I'm locked up
All the day long.
When I awake
I'm all alone
The house is dark
My folks aren't home.
When my mommy does come
I'll try and be nice,
So maybe I'll get just
One whipping tonight.
Don't make a sound!
I just heard a car
My daddy is back
From Charlie's Bar.
I hear him curse,
My name he calls,
I press myself
Against the wall.
I try and hide
From his evil eyes,
I'm so afraid now
I'm starting to cry.
He finds me weeping,
He shouts ugly words,
He says its my fault
That he suffers at work.
He slaps me and hits me
And yells at me more,
I finally get free
And I run for the door.
He's already locked it
And I start to bawl,
He takes me and throws me
Against the hard wall.
I fall to the floor
With my bones nearly broken,
And my daddy continues
With more bad words spoken.
"I'm sorry!", I scream,
But its much too late.
His face has been twisted
Into unimaginable hate.
The hurt and the pain
Again and again.
Oh please God, have mercy!
Oh please let it end!
And he finally stops
And heads for the door,
While I lay there motionless
Sprawled on the floor.
My name is Misty
And I am but three,
Tonight my daddy
Murdered me.

 

[thecheftz]

kids should NEVER be hit...most kids that are hit by there parents are 16 and younger and they dont know any better of what their doing

*everyone that reads mine read the one right above! sad!!!!!!!

 

[Decisive]

As I was young I always thought that getting punishments such as a hit was bad, but as I grew up I notice it can get worst. I would take a hit over getting grounded any day. Being limited to things that you use to do seems more of a torture than getting hit. Being hit for 20 seconds to a minute is nothing compared to not being able to go to parties, chill with your friends, talking on the phone, play games etc for 3 months.