Asking a girl out.

[Noodles :)]

Okay, me and this girl, we went out for a couple of days and she broke up with me because she didn't want to ruin our friendship later on if we had a bad break up.
It's been a month, I still like her. Should I ask her out?(she asked me the first time) I'm very unconfident. So that's why I'm asking. I'm scared of being rejected and making our friendship awkward..

 

[AshleyAne]

Well first off, if you guys are good friends sorry to tell you she'll probably say no just because you'r "friends" and like you said, god knows a women doesn't want to mess up a relationship. But if you like her just go for it, worst case she says no, you move on.


Just being straightforward.

 

[JohnK]

Talk to her and explain your feelings. No regrets.

 

[Noodles :)]

We are pretty good friends now, and yeah. :/

She knows I like her, she asked a few days ago.. I'm just way to nervous that I'll wreck our friendship. :x

 

[j-man]

Nope your chances are already none. Once your in the friendship zone is hard to move up to the relationship zone. You've already screwed it up and you're not ready if you feel nervous. Move on...

But anyway, you should search David Deangelo on google and read through his shit and download some of his shit off torrent sites aswell and read through it. It will most definately help you out.

 

[buttons]

ever seen the film 'just friends'?

 

[Lured Yah]

We are pretty good friends now, and yeah. :/

She knows I like her, she asked a few days ago.. I'm just way to nervous that I'll wreck our friendship. :x

wait, she asked you? grab your chance!

I'm having a similiar problem, but my girl is way harder
we got into a relationship in the beginning of this year, she was afraid to commit so everytime I gave her attention she withdrawed herself. and when I didn't give her attention she gave me attention. after 3 months (like a week before xmas) I broke up with her, saying it doesnt work the way it was going. she was in a bad mood for the rest of the week, but I calmly kept giving her attention.
a month ago I went to her place(with an excuse of me training for the marathon, getting a drink during my training there), told her I missed being with her.
yesterday she talked about her best girlfriend being afraid to ask her ex out for her birthday, so I grabbed my chance this morning. talking about the convo she had, "btw, dyou know how I should ask my ex out for valentine?"

At least she didn't say no yet

 

[Noodles :)]

Hmm thanks guys.
She asked me if I wanted to hang out at her place this weekend. Do you think I should ask her then in person?

 

[Lured Yah]

Hmm thanks guys.
She asked me if I wanted to hang out at her place this weekend. Do you think I should ask her then in person?

if you have the chance to, yeh. otherwise just text/phone her

 

[Snobb3n]

Just ask her, since you are already friends, she probably wont put you down.
Take it as it comes, don't get depressed if she says no... As every hurt man says : There are plenty of fishes out there xD

 

[Noodles :)]

Thanks guys.
I think I will on the weekend. Let's hope she says yes.

 

[Pro Porkchop]

Just be careful. Sometimes I prefer to have a friend I can flirt with and etc without being worried about them wanting a relationship. So just see if she wants a relationship in the first place before getting into one with her. And yes ask her out in person if you are going to.

 

[Pshynosis]

we went out for a couple of days

Doesn't sound like anything serious. You could try to fuck the girl or just move on. Or both.

 

[PieAndChips]

Do not text/phone. Girls think that it's really crumby. If your going to ask her out, ask her face-to-face.

 

[Basic_All_Day]

Perhaps you should discuss your feelings with her, but on the other hand, she may want nothing more than friendship - hence the first break up.

 

[Lordhooters]

Talk to her and explain your feelings. No regrets.

This is exactly right, telling her how you feel wont ruin your relationship.
If she has the same feelings you can move further into a relationship, and if not you guys will still be friends.

 

[Insidious Insinuations]

wait, she asked you? grab your chance!

I'm having a similiar problem, but my girl is way harder
we got into a relationship in the beginning of this year, she was afraid to commit so everytime I gave her attention she withdrawed herself. and when I didn't give her attention she gave me attention. after 3 months (like a week before xmas) I broke up with her, saying it doesnt work the way it was going. she was in a bad mood for the rest of the week, but I calmly kept giving her attention.
a month ago I went to her place(with an excuse of me training for the marathon, getting a drink during my training there), told her I missed being with her.
yesterday she talked about her best girlfriend being afraid to ask her ex out for her birthday, so I grabbed my chance this morning. talking about the convo she had, "btw, dyou know how I should ask my ex out for valentine?"

At least she didn't say no yet

I'm in a very similar situation, I really don't know what to do. >_<

Hmm thanks guys.
She asked me if I wanted to hang out at her place this weekend. Do you think I should ask her then in person?

Much better to do that, texting girls generally backfire because they 'think' things over too much. I know quite a few girls who just keep reading the goddman text trying to read into things that simply don't exist in my text that simply says "Let's hang out tomorrow".

My advice, though crude: Just ask her out, don't be a pussy.

There's much more complicated situations and the most that could happen is if your friendship is actually strong it'll make your friendship awkward for a week.