Approaching a girl....

[Pulse]

I met her before and greet her several times. She's a classmate and I wanna ask her out but idk how to approach her. I feel we're not THAT close yet..

What do...

EDIT:

Yeah IDK if she's showing any signs of love to me or anything 0_o

Its like this...

She gets quiet when she's around me and like sometimes embarrassed idk wtf i can't tell.

EDIT2:
Assuming I'm a guy....

 

[krutoi]

Did you notice any kind of approachment? I mean, did she give you any "signs of love or did she do something that you think she probably like you"? More info wouldn't be bad, i'm glad to help ya out with this and give tips since when I was younger something bad happened between a girl and another one.. Both classmates.. Lol

 

Just be friendly to her, offer to walk her home, all that cliché stuff. But most importantly be yourself!!

 

[JustHereToRWT]

assuming you're a girl.

is she even a lesbian?

 

[Loner]

I would just attempt to become good friends with her first pick up her interests and her likes and then make your move from there there isn't any rush when it comes to women. Just take your time and get your feet wet it's better then drowning.

 

[Ziggily]

If I were you, I would approach her and casually ask her to if she would like to accompany you to an event [Movies, Concert etc.] If she declines, just ask if you could get to know her instead. Being a girl, I like guys that don't pine over me. I like to get to know them and then progress from there.

I wish you the best here and hopefully she will at least acknowledge you!

 

Approaching girls is the easiest thing in the world once you've already done it.
After you've approached her and talked to her etc you'll think "wtf? That was easy..".

Approach her as you would approach a friend, have a laugh with her and what not. As you're having a conversation just work in inviting her out somewhere with you

 

I would do as Shoop suggested, be her friend don't ask her out just yet, have a laugh with her and get to know her a little bit, ask what she likes what she dislikes etc then you can go from there about asking her out to the movies or something.

E.g if she likes scary movies, tell her there's a new scary movie and if she'd be interested in seeing it with you.

 

[Ridim]

Im sorry to tell you but you need to grow a pair. You can say absolutely nothing and she will give you her phone number. Confidence is key. Don't walk up and hit a brick wall. Just be a man and tell her how you feel.

 

[Pulse]

I would do as Shoop suggested, be her friend don't ask her out just yet, have a laugh with her and get to know her a little bit, ask what she likes what she dislikes etc then you can go from there about asking her out to the movies or something.

E.g if she likes scary movies, tell her there's a new scary movie and if she'd be interested in seeing it with you.

Yeah we watched The Conjuring already :3

Im sorry to tell you but you need to grow a pair. You can say absolutely nothing and she will give you her phone number. Confidence is key. Don't walk up and hit a brick wall. Just be a man and tell her how you feel.

I got her phone number easily and we had some talk going on.

Was fun indeed ;o

 

[djweasel]

Well get on this, I'd assume to just talk normal to her. Don't creep her out and don't say "Yea I am on a website and asked them how to approach you."

 

[Him]

Go up to her and talk to her. It's really as simple as that, the worst case scenario is it is a bit awkward and you feel weird for a couple minutes.

Trial and error is what it's about, i use to be SUPER shy around girls when i was going through my rocker phase. I literally had this scene chick like wanting to hook and i was too scared too, and this is in 9th grade (highschool).

With time you get better at it and soon you realize it's no big deal.

Question to you, are you a social person? and do you have a job where you have to work for customers like fast food or retail?

 

[millzlevels]

Go and ask her out for a coffee.
That's a pretty quick way to find out - sounds like you don't have a friendship or anything to lose if she says no. Can only win or remain the same.

 

[Mafiaclan]

Don't be TOO nice. Before your relationship as friends develops too far down the "friend" path, state your intentions that you think she's pretty and you'd like to ask her out.

You always want to be clear what your intentions are. If not, she could mistake your friendliness as just that, friendliness. Before you know it you'll be categorized as a "friend only" in her mind.

So just be honest and forward. You really have nothing to lose. If she says no just move on.

 

[ASAPgang]

Just be casual about it, to ask them into a relationship early would scare them.. Make friends, but not too friendly you don't want to get friend zoned.. See how you two react with one another, it might be awkward at first but once you get used to one smothers presence you could pop the question. Take her on a date, somewhere public don't seclude yourself to a private room.

 

[Pulse]

Go up to her and talk to her. It's really as simple as that, the worst case scenario is it is a bit awkward and you feel weird for a couple minutes.

Trial and error is what it's about, i use to be SUPER shy around girls when i was going through my rocker phase. I literally had this scene chick like wanting to hook and i was too scared too, and this is in 9th grade (highschool).

With time you get better at it and soon you realize it's no big deal.

Question to you, are you a social person? and do you have a job where you have to work for customers like fast food or retail?

I am a social person; she doesn't hang with the social people much; only with people from her previous class.

 

[Ridim]

Yeah we watched The Conjuring already :3



I got her phone number easily and we had some talk going on.

Was fun indeed ;o

See! When I was in 9th grade, alot of people bullied me like terribly. I hung out with the girls often since they wouldnt bully and got comfortable around them but 6 months later when I wanted to just hang out with them, they asked me if I was gay. I found the trial and error and now I talk to anyone I want and the worst that happens is they have a boyfriend.

 

[byte]

Be confident but not arrogant, just be friendly so she gets comfortable with you.

 

[Pulse]

She ignored my texts. What to do?!

If I keep texting her I feel i'm kind of annoying her or something.

 

[Shamefull]

She ignored my texts. What to do?!

If I keep texting her I feel i'm kind of annoying her or something.

If I was you'd I'd ignore her back. Girls tend to do that when they think they've got you on stand by. Talk to another girl if you have to. It's all about the confidence, if she feels you're confident enough to walk off and get another girl chances are you won't be getting ignored. I don't have all the experience in the world but I'm 23 and have never had a problem with girls. Just remember she's not the only one. Fish around, you're young. If there's a girl that doesn't want to talk to you then I bet there's another close by that does.