A problem with a kid... (School)

[FiveBots]

In latest news: Been Ignoring him lately, He is trying to get in a relationship with girls (been rejected like 20+ times by multiple people) I believe he trying to "Get in there pants" If you know what I mean by that.

I said stuff to him in comebacks to piss him off when he talks shit about me...
I notice couple of his friends are not talking to him, maybe they just notice his a "D**K" And left him as they were being used or something, He is a "Nerd" that is all up himself. I think he is trying to get a girl or girls to go out with him, one which I like

Well this person,
I hate him due the fact he turned to a prick when we were bestie in primary school, I told him if you don't learn some respect you will lose your friends...

I don't like violence, but I can't tell any teachers they won't do anything just say ehhhh stay away from him ehhhh if you do it one more time "THIS PERSON DAT" we give you afterschool which they won't...

I could fix this with one simple punch in the face or smashing his head in whilst he rides up from school, or just destroy him bike...

but I am a non violent person, and I don't want to be that.

Don't say suipid comments like have you talked to him? I have tired, he starts talking and tries to troll... I can't ignore him, due to the fact that if I don't talk it shows my am weak to him and he will just keeping (he shuts up when he gets trolled bad....)

I

believe he is an Homosexual if he is I wouldn't talk so badly to him because I am not against anything and do not want to be rude to anyone in there beliefs...

Is there anything I could do? Maybe violence is the answer or isn't it?

 

[xtrapsp]

Doesn't really make much sense... you hate him because he's a prick... yet you're the one here calling him a prick

 

[FloydZeppelin]

If you've worn out all of your other options except for violence, I think your best bet is to get away from him (legitimately) and he'll either learn it for himself, or continue to lose friends. That sounds like your only viable solution.

 

Violence is never the answer! Maybe you should listen to what your teachers say and ignore him! Bullies are simple, they do everything to get a kick out of you, so if you don't react he'll get bored and move on. If that doesn't work then perhaps think about changing schools, or talk with your parents. That's obviously the more extreme approach, but if it's affecting you that much maybe you should consider it.

> Ignore him
> Don't retaliate
> Stay out of his way

and you should be ok, if not. Let your parents know you're unhappy. But violence is NEVER the answer.

 

If you have absolutely no reaction, the bully will get nothing out of it and will bore him eventually. Surround yourself with good people and be sure to be courageous enough to say "I don't care what you think of me" and walk away. Just be careful to mind your space and keep out of his way. He'll get bored.

 

[Ali94]

Fuck that shit, that simple one punch will shut that dirty slut up trust me I've done it before it worked. Just GF him quickly doesn't take more than 2seconds then just like pot up if you need to before you do it (joke) yeah but urhm you might get in trouble for the punch you gave him but its totally worth it he wouldn't bother you anymore he'll actually be scared to even try to.

 

[Raising Hope]

Pretty sure if he was bullying you at school, that there'd be consequences like suspension or expulsion depending how violent and aggressive he was being. My school had a 100% no tolerance to bullying and punishments were very harsh. Try actually speaking to your school advisory about what's going on and what you should do from there.

 

[kill dank]

Honestly man, you've got to realize that people you've known for years are going to change as they get older and you won't connect on the same level you once did. It's best to just accept it and move on. It hurts to consider them a lost cause, but sometimes that's what they are.

 

[FiveBots]

He isn't a suipid bully he is in Select entre (HE IS EXTREMLY SMART) Where I am in high he is above high high high

 

Ignoring him doesn't mean you are weak, it just means you can't be bothered putting up with his crap. Regardless of how smart a bully is, if they fail to illicit a response and get no attention they will eventually move on.

 

Buy him a gay pride flag and move on

 

Violence is never the answer! Maybe you should listen to what your teachers say and ignore him! Bullies are simple, they do everything to get a kick out of you, so if you don't react he'll get bored and move on. If that doesn't work then perhaps think about changing schools, or talk with your parents. That's obviously the more extreme approach, but if it's affecting you that much maybe you should consider it.

> Ignore him
> Don't retaliate
> Stay out of his way

and you should be ok, if not. Let your parents know you're unhappy. But violence is NEVER the answer.

Good advice except changing schools?? That's ridiculous, changing schools just because of one prick isn't the way to go.

Fuck that shit, that simple one punch will shut that dirty slut up trust me I've done it before it worked. Just GF him quickly doesn't take more than 2seconds then just like pot up if you need to before you do it (joke) yeah but urhm you might get in trouble for the punch you gave him but its totally worth it he wouldn't bother you anymore he'll actually be scared to even try to.

Yeah, I doubt the OP wants to get suspended or expelled from school.

Pretty sure if he was bullying you at school, that there'd be consequences like suspension or expulsion depending how violent and aggressive he was being. My school had a 100% no tolerance to bullying and punishments were very harsh. Try actually speaking to your school advisory about what's going on and what you should do from there.

Exactly, just complaining to your teachers might not be enough. If you can't handle this on your own have your parents set up a meeting with the administration and I guarantee you they will HAVE to take it seriously.

Buy him a gay pride flag and move on

lol'd, I'm not sure what the OP meant earlier. You act like if he's gay you'll just back off because you respect their beliefs, what does his sexual orientation have to do with anything?

 

[Tiger]

I'm sure the best thing to do is just ignore him he would give up his stupidness eventually

 

[Saint Grimm]

Well this person,
I hate him due the fact he turned to a prick when we were bestie in primary school, I told him if you don't learn some respect you will lose your friends...

I don't like violence, but I can't tell any teachers they won't do anything just say ehhhh stay away from him ehhhh if you do it one more time "THIS PERSON DAT" we give you afterschool which they won't...

I could fix this with one simple punch in the face or smashing his head in whilst he rides up from school, or just destroy him bike...

but I am a non violent person, and I don't want to be that.

Don't say suipid comments like have you talked to him? I have tired, he starts talking and tries to troll... I can't ignore him, due to the fact that if I don't talk it shows my am weak to him and he will just keeping (he shuts up when he gets trolled bad....)

I believe he is an Homosexual if he is I wouldn't talk so badly to him because I am not against anything and do not want to be rude to anyone in there beliefs...

Is there anything I could do? Maybe violence is the answer or isn't it?

If you can't just ignore him because you'll look weak, bash his fuckin' head in. If you can't bash his head in because you aren't violent, ignore him. You have to pick one or the other. If teachers or parents won't help you (I've never felt secure with teachers OR parents to tell them anything and always handled it on my own) then you have to handle it yourself SOME HOW. If you're more worried about looking weak than just ignoring him, simply show him that you aren't weak and he's nothing but a pest to be swatted at.

For the record, slapping a man is far more degrading than beating his ass. It is a show of "I slapped you because your my fuckin' bitch" than "haha I beat your ass!" so simply put, make him your fuckin' bitch.

 

[ssarekcuf]

Saint Grim, it's amazing how much my respect for you increases with every post you make. I totally agree with your last paragraph (well your whole post really.)

Even if you aren't violent, a threat goes a far way. Especially when you threat bitches like the kid annoying you. They're so used to fighting with words, they're bound to pussy out when you take it a step further. And if it does go any further back up your words. A good punch to the face and stomach will do the trick. By then the crowds will form and the teacher will pull you apart before he can recover enough to fight back. Like grim said, be sure to slap him in the face. Especially every couple days after the fight if it goes that far. Don't let him think he's dominate. He bows down to you. He's your bitch. He doesn't deserve to even speak a word to you. This is the mindset you need when he talks to him.

Next time he annoys you say this:

"So, were you a failed abortion or something? Don't see why your parents would want an ugly little freak like yourself. I mean, what makes you think you can even approach someone like me? Talking shit you won't back up won't bring daddy back. I'd hate to be your mouth. You already abuse it by talking shit that'll get you fucked up real bad. But I didn't think you'd go a step further and shove McDonald's down your throat you fat little fuck. If I punched you in the stomach right now, a fucking cow will jump out of your throat. So either back your shit up and fight me bitch or go cry like a pussy in the fetal position in your closet while you're probably touching yourself to sleep. What's it gonna be?"

Hopefully this helps!

 

[Nt A Charity]

The absolute worst thing you can do is show him you're scared of him or show any sort of weakness, that'll make him worse. Most bullies don't know what to do when they're being stood up to so try that at the start. Tell him how you feel. Might sound like a coward thing to do but tell him how you feel and tell him the repercussions if he doesn't stop. Violence should be the very last resort you use, if telling the teachers/anyone in charge what's going on isn't working.

 

[Austintheman]

Saint Grim, it's amazing how much my respect for you increases with every post you make. I totally agree with your last paragraph (well your whole post really.)

Even if you aren't violent, a threat goes a far way. Especially when you threat bitches like the kid annoying you. They're so used to fighting with words, they're bound to pussy out when you take it a step further. And if it does go any further back up your words. A good punch to the face and stomach will do the trick. By then the crowds will form and the teacher will pull you apart before he can recover enough to fight back. Like grim said, be sure to slap him in the face. Especially every couple days after the fight if it goes that far. Don't let him think he's dominate. He bows down to you. He's your bitch. He doesn't deserve to even speak a word to you. This is the mindset you need when he talks to him.

Next time he annoys you say this:

"So, were you a failed abortion or something? Don't see why your parents would want an ugly little freak like yourself. I mean, what makes you think you can even approach someone like me? Talking shit you won't back up won't bring daddy back. I'd hate to be your mouth. You already abuse it by talking shit that'll get you fucked up real bad. But I didn't think you'd go a step further and shove McDonald's down your throat you fat little fuck. If I punched you in the stomach right now, a fucking cow will jump out of your throat. So either back your shit up and fight me bitch or go cry like a pussy in the fetal position in your closet while you're probably touching yourself to sleep. What's it gonna be?"

Hopefully this helps!

Yea... Don't say this... it's not intimidating at all. If someone were to tell me this i'd take it as a joke.

 

Good advice except changing schools?? That's ridiculous, changing schools just because of one prick isn't the way to go.

Since I didn't have a great education I can see now how important schooling truly is. If this issue is bothering him to the point where is effecting his school I would for sure suggest he changed

 

Buy him a gay pride flag and move on <

Allows the guy who is gay to be proud > Meaning he leaves you for a new man

 

[Loner]

Just ignore him honestly you're not required to talk to him. The best suggestion I have is remove people out of your life who poison it.