My Girlfriend...

[x oh ex o]

So after a small fight with my girlfriend because "I make her feel dumb" and "laugh at her when she's mad at me" She wanted a "break". So I agreed and than I started to feel better than not being with her. Soon after she thought I just wanted to up and leave her. So after a long talk, we decided we should wait a few days apart and see how we feel.

Now she has wanted "breaks" before but I always talked her out of them, this time I didn't feel obligated to, seeing as I somewhat wanted the break more than her. (She was trying to show me how mad i made here, so she wanted a break)

Well now we both don't know if we should be together or stay apart, It would be hard to stay apart, we've been together for nearing 2 years, and I really do love her a lot, and I'm so used to being with her, I think it would feel weird being with anyone else.

Not sure what I'm looking for here, kinda just don't know what to do. I feel confused. I want to be with her, but at the same time I want to do what I want and idk.

Post whatever.

 

[Ozaki]

Some people were made to spend their lives together, but can't operate with each other on a constant day-to-day basis. If this is the case with you, just call it off and stay 'very good friends'. That way you're technically single so there's no worries about 'dating' others, AND you get all the best bits of your relationship!

I highly recommend it. Best of luck.

 

[Matt Hasty]

You're just wasting each others time, and testing how far both of your patients can stretch. From the sound of it, you don't sound like a pretty good guy nor a hopeless romantic; so dumping her shouldn't be a long term problem. Never stay with anyone because you feel "obligated" too, love isn't a job its a privilege and should be treated as such.

"If anything, in this post offend's you I apologize"

 

[Spyike]

IMO.. Friends is the key focus here. Remaining close friends will perhaps provide both of you the time to understand what the future holds. Relax, Smile and most importantly, be glad that you and her can still enjoy time together as friends with open possibilities.

 

[Deacon Frost]

Just because you love someone, and can see yourself spending the rest of your life with them, does not mean you need to spend every second of every day together. Nor does it mean you need to breakup.

Go away from each other for a week, a month, something, but stay in a committed relationship, and say good morning/good night every day, but sparingly talk throughout the day, just do whatever else you do without your partner.

This will allow you to remember what you have, what you want, and what you would have if you weren't with her. If you decide you don't want her after that, then finish it, elsewise, you'll find that you miss her and want her more.

 

[chips]

You feel the same way i did. Just i've been for 3 months with her, not 2 years... And... I apologised for what i did ( not caring about her for few weeks ) then she left for 2 weeks, and broke with me USING SMS TEXT. I was drinking for 2 weeks, doing shit, getting into fights just to forget her... i felt like something is missing inside me... And i wanted to broke up with her, i realised what i lost too late... And after 1 month i still think about her every single minute of my life... So make ur choice. People are different.
Also while she was away for a month, she found NEW ONE. He's 80km away from her home... If i ever see them together... i don't think i could handle that. I Would just start a fight.

The worst feeling is that i know that she left ME because of SOMEONE. Meaning that someone is BETTER than me.

IMO.. Friends is the key focus here. Remaining close friends will perhaps provide both of you the time to understand what the future holds. Relax, Smile and most importantly, be glad that you and her can still enjoy time together as friends with open possibilities.

Friends. Thats what my ex said. Its going to be the same, just we won't sleep together... And guess what ? After that, she's been IGNORING me all the time. Now i saw the other side of her... I thought she was caring, emotional person... And what do i see now ? A ROCK. I did stupid shit while i was drunk, calling her, once i even talked to her mom LOL.

 

[Weasel2013]

I normally never reccomend this, but I believe you should look into asking her for an open relationship. Would you ever consider? It hurts to see her with other guys, but you'd be able to go with other girls too...