Does she like me?

[FaTaL Sh0t X]

Just do it. - Nike.

But seriously, just do it. If she says no, just say "just kidding lalwalalawlz."

 

[The True Gears]

She probably does. Make sure you stay in contact with her, and try not to fall into the friend zone. Take her out on a date, Like the movies, which can be considered as a friend thing, or a date thing. Try holding her hand during a good part of the movie, and see how she reacts.

 

[pureandrim]

just take a go for it, the worst is a no. and no's happen all the time
best of luck

 

it sounds like she is just a friend. if you have known her since you are 5, it seems she is just doing what a friend for many years does. knowing someone for that long w/o ever kissing or anything else indicates that you are just friends.
i've known a friends for a long time too and have poked, hugged, wrestled, slapped their butts, etc. but never was it sexual.
i would try to ease my way into it, sensing her feelings, before asking her out.

 

[FretsOnFireGh2]

I had something similar happen. If she means as much to you as you say she does, she must be fairly nice (I would hope), so I don't see how she would be like "Dude fuck off I don't want to talk to you anymore" just because you say you like her.

I told the girl I'm talking about I like her, and asked her out. She said no, but she was also okay with it. We're still like best friends now, sooo yea.

I was kind of embarassed when she said no, and apologized to her.. and she said "You don't get to pick who you love" which is true. Just keep that in mind. If she holds the fact that you like her against you, then she's probably not too good of a friend to begin with.

 

[DickLord]

The medium shouldn't matter if you're intent on going out with someone. Fear of rejection applies in real life also, so I don't really see the problem. If anything, people naturally would be more fearful of fear of rejection in real life, since it's personal.

What are you talking about? I was talking about fear of rejection in real life. That would be less if you did it over msn, not in person. You are a pussy if you can't do it in person. It's not hard to understand man.

 

[SwiftSeller]

So you picked THIS website to ask that kind of question? DANNNGG....

Man, just chill with her and if she really does like you, then she'll keep conversations goin'. If shes just a friend, she'll kinda keep to herself. Unless shes shy. What you really gotta do is ask her opinion on seeing a movie together. Just getting a "yes" would be the first sign. Once you're in there just wait until you think its the right time and ASK if holding hands would be a bad idea.

Basically... You just gotta have the balls to come out and ask really far out questions. If you get a no, then you get a no. Its not the end of the world, just say, ok, then lets just be friends and move on. You'll never know until you try.

Btw... Girls (expecially my fiance) always say that they find the most convincing thing in a guy is their ability to just say what they're thinking and ask whatever is on their minds.
This means, if you wanna know if she likes you, find ways to just ask. Its unattractive to find a guy who is all emo about things. Girls love to talk, and if you talk back, you're the perfect one.

 

[bad_moose]

So you picked THIS website to ask that kind of question? DANNNGG....

Man, just chill with her and if she really does like you, then she'll keep conversations goin'. If shes just a friend, she'll kinda keep to herself. Unless shes shy. What you really gotta do is ask her opinion on seeing a movie together. Just getting a "yes" would be the first sign. Once you're in there just wait until you think its the right time and ASK if holding hands would be a bad idea.

Basically... You just gotta have the balls to come out and ask really far out questions. If you get a no, then you get a no. Its not the end of the world, just say, ok, then lets just be friends and move on. You'll never know until you try.

Btw... Girls (expecially my fiance) always say that they find the most convincing thing in a guy is their ability to just say what they're thinking and ask whatever is on their minds.
This means, if you wanna know if she likes you, find ways to just ask. Its unattractive to find a guy who is all emo about things. Girls love to talk, and if you talk back, you're the perfect one.

Wow, that really makes sense, I will try it when I see her!!

 

[Louis]

What are you talking about? I was talking about fear of rejection in real life. That would be less if you did it over msn, not in person. You are a pussy if you can't do it in person. It's not hard to understand man.

There's a larger chance of getting rejected if a woman recognizes this, so asking via the internet carries more of a risk(which means it technically isn't as big of a pussy move(?) )

 

[wtp]

I don't think anyone could say with the information given here. To tell though, compare how she acts around you compared to other guys. Do this as honestly as you can because it could be hard. If your the only guy she's touching then you're probably in, but less likely if it's not.

 

[Forced Induction]

lol man. This is the best part of a "relationship". When you are flirting back and forth and messing around with eachother and seeing how far you can go. Just enjoy it mate.

 

[neschn]

Just tell her you like her. If she declines then say, "I just felt the urge to tell you, I don't want this to ruin our friendship."

 

[Skurwysynu]

Hello everyone, I was just wondering if you guys think that a girl I know likes me. I really, really like her, and we are good friends, I'm not sure if she feels the same way though. She does the following things that could indicate she likes me:
-She does things like gently hit me when I tease her (when I do stuff like poke her) and laughs a lot
-She laughs at things I say, that other people wouldn't find funny
-She isn't reluctant to touch me, we went to London yesterday (not as a couple, there were 6 of us) and the train home was VERY crowded (I'm not even exaggerating, every seat was full, and every available bit of space was occupied, we were packed in like sardines, so literally no space) and we had nothing to hold onto (well, she had the corner of the wall, which would have been absolutely fine), and every time the train wobbled or she lost her balance, instead of going to grab the wall, she grabbed onto my arms and my shoulders, or fell forward onto me.
-We were facing each other on the train (we were about 2 inches away, thats how little room there was, and we were close enough to kiss without moving) and she looked a bit embarrassed and nervous and didn't turn around, even though she could have just about managed it when the train stopped (it stopped 5-6 times).
-She was perfectly willing to stand behind one of those signs with holes for your head, with a picture on the front with me, even though the sign said 'Spooning leads to forking', and she didn't object when our mates took photos.

I'm really confused about what to do, because if I ask her out and she declines, then its gonna kind of mess up our friendship, but if I don't, then I'm gonna keep feeling like this. Its so confusing!



Help....

lmfao go get some life nerd