i don't know what to do?

[anonymous54]

okay firstly i've made this acount because i'd prefer it if people did not know my real sythe account because there are a lot of immature people on this site.

i'll not go into detail about the problems but here they are:

1. my parents can't stand me.

2. i owe them almost £4000 and can't pay them back for 3 years

3. i'm 18 start uni in a few weeks and depressed.

4. every girl i meet isn't interested in a relationship only a bit of fun for one night.

5. my ex girlfriend who i was with for 2 years is with one of my good friends and i miss her but said they should be together because it makes them happy.


everytime i'm riding my motorbike i think what would happen if i just turned into that lorry or if i just dont turn on a corner this is because most motor accidents are accidents and so if i did this people would think it was an accident and not blame themselves.

please if you've read this leave a mature response or nothing at all.

also please don't say talk to someone or anything along those lines because it just doesnt work for me.

 

[Loveable]

Well, your quite immature for posting this on a runescape cheating site, if your suicidal i recommend calling a doctor and speaking to a professional.

Your parents don't like you? Well there not good parents, no matter how much cash i owed my mum she would still love me.

Uni- Make the most of that will be amazing and a good part of your life.

 

[MurphTurph]

try to work it out with your parents some house work you know....if not work move out with mates in an appartment

get a better job

councliling

there is plenty fish in the sea

 

[Wedel]

Well, id tell you what to do. But all i can give is an advice, which would be best for you, i think.

1. Be kind with your parents, no matter what they say don't argue back. Just forget it, if they say something like real important for example you have to go to a party or something, just say it straight to them. If they won't let you, just forget it for a while. And when they are in a good mood, ask them kindly can i please go and etc. That's how i keep a good relationship with my parents, and they will love you, believe me it works.

2. Owing 4000pounds to your parents isn't a problem, tell them that you will pay off when u get a decent job, or use point 1 and u might not need to pay them back at all.

3. Don't be depressed about university, its just like a normal school, with more fun though, if you stay yourself u will get along good. Keep your head up and look into every problem as an advantage.

4. If girl is not intrested into you, it might be because u are a player. If u know what that means, just find yourself a girlfriend and threat her right, don't expect sex on first date. After you have her as your girlfriend, you will have as much sex as you want, you'r only 18. Everything in your life just began.

5. About your ex, forget her. If she really needs/loves you she will get back to you. Trust me on this one pal... Find yourself a decent girlfriend, not the one that goes and (fucks) your mates, sorry for the word.

About your motorbike, id say you should be better off with a car. A motorbike is a dangerous thing, i am young too i know it is, im not agains't it i love motorbikes, but just get a car, its way easier and more fun. Don't think about doing something stupid that would put you off this life, everything will be fine, all of your problems will be fixed. Trust me, your only 18. You will be fine....

That was my advice, i was 18 not so long ago too.


If you would like to talk to me about something else, or discuss this topic. Feel free to contact me on my msn : [email protected] i'd be happy to help you.

Thanks and have a good time annonymous54

 

[Chantecleer]

1. my parents can't stand me.

2. i owe them almost £4000 and can't pay them back for 3 years

3. i'm 18 start uni in a few weeks and depressed.

4. every girl i meet isn't interested in a relationship only a bit of fun for one night.

5. my ex girlfriend who i was with for 2 years is with one of my good friends and i miss her but said they should be together because it makes them happy.

1. same with many other people, some adults are not meant to be parents.
2. if your parents are asking you for money, just call child support or something. They are very irreposible.
3. drugs
4. Look harder.
5. Why think over someone who doesn't love you?

 

[1encore1]

You shouldn't be thinking these sort of things at such a young age. It's common for young adults to owe money to members of their family so you shouldn't feel rushed to pay it all back if you honestly can't. They're your parents afterall and no matter how much you think they don't like you, secretly they allways do, their is always a place in their heart for you it just may take some time for you to realize that. University is a perfect oppurtunity to start fresh, be the person you always wanted to be. I'm sure you'll have a great time when it comes down to it. Girls are the most confusing fukers in the world and nothing can deny that. At least you've had a relationship that's been worthwhile. Their are thousands of people in the world that would kill for a relationship. It may have ended abrubtly but thats not reason to hang your head in sorro, maybe she wasn't the right one for you. You'll be meeting hundred of hot chicks at uni and in no time im sure you'll find that perfect girl.

Hope this helps