What Do You Guys Think About This

[Abarta]

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I personally think this is just plain awful I do not want any hate comments on this thread as I personally think this is just brutal, she is 15 and committed suicide 2 days ago. It makes you think what if she lived in your area and went to your school, do you think you would've made a difference or just be a bystander?

 

[T V]

Sad story, but in all honesty it's her fault for a) flashing in the first place, and b) not going to the police as soon as she was blackmailed. She could've easily avoided everything that happened. I can't give her much sympathy, but at the same time the people that hurt her are pretty fucked. I can't think of any reason for why anyone would want to be a part of that.


If I were her, I would've kept in mind both the fact that I brought all of that on myself and that people all over the world have it way worse (persecution, extreme poverty, abusive parents, war). Whenever I get downed and think about that, it really makes me realize how menial my problems are, and there's no reason for why I should be getting so depressed.

 

[rue]

First off, my heart goes out to her family that they had to lose their daughter over what seemed to be a harmless, foolish act. On a side note, if I were to write out the theme of this story I would simply say one poor decision can ultimately effect your life.

 

[Abarta]

I thought I made a post here :huh:...

You posted on the wrong thread I accidentally doubled sorry ;(

 

[T V]

You posted on the wrong thread I accidentally doubled sorry ;(

Ah, ok. I thought my post had been deleted >.>
Anyway, re-posted my thoughts on it

 

[Abarta]

Sad story, but in all honesty it's her fault for a) flashing in the first place, and b) not going to the police as soon as she was blackmailed. She could've easily avoided everything that happened. I can't give her much sympathy, but at the same time the people that hurt her are pretty fucked. I can't think of any reason for why anyone would want to be a part of that.


If I were her, I would've kept in mind both the fact that I brought all of that on myself and that people all over the world have it way worse (persecution, extreme poverty, abusive parents, war). Whenever I get downed and think about that, it really makes me realize how menial my problems are, and there's no reason for why I should be getting so depressed.

She went through the unbearable she got made fun of for 4 years non-stop about one minstake she got sweet-talked into doing when she was 12.. People in poverty still have good friendships and don't go through as hard of times as someone with no friends for 4 years constantly getting chirped.

 

[Loyal 2 da game]

Yeah not gunna lie i probably would have been a bystander

 

[Lilmj27]

Though I agree it's her fault in the first place, the man is sick and twisted for pushing her to this, her 'friends' are sick and twisted for saying that stuff, who says they want someone to die? Sometimes you joke about it, but taking it that far is just demonic. I honestly hope that her 'friends' see this.

 

[Laptop65]

One of the reasons I dislike Facebook. If she hadn't used Facebook or maybe even the Internet none of this would ever have happened. Seriously hope the people involved get shot for this (even though that won't happen).

 

[paypalwiz]

Lack of parental involvment. 7th grade means it was child porn ie that's why the police showed up. Its a felony, so how the man didn't get tracked down is beyound me. If I were her father I would of found him and beat him to death.

 

[Abarta]

You can only imagine how the parents feel, imagine losing your kid to bullying even losing your child in general.

 

[JarvisPK]

if she wasn't a friend, i would have been a bystander tbh. IMO parents should have stepped in, facebook can be deactivated, kids should have been dealth with sooner.

 

[Drinking Hard]

I fell like the parents should have been more involved. They have a huge roll
in her life as far as how shes going to be but much love out to the family

 

[Lame]

This got way out of hand to fast. Shes dead now...and i can't imagine being in a situation were i could take my own life. Why would this guy start harassing her one year later? That's so demented. He should be charged with some kind of crime. If i were in her family id probably try to take justice into my own hands. The parents, the school everyone should have been way more involved in the situation. She was 12/13 years old, so what she made a mistake and that mistake ended up killing her. No one should blame her. The perv who was harassing her is the one to blame. No one should have to go through what she went through. It's just cruel. People say how much worse other peoples lives are in developing countries. We don't live in those countries we have our own problems and we need to deal with them.

EDIT: Also fuck those little fucking highschool bitches. I bet they have done much worse then her. Their just little fucking cunts who followed and harassed her because their life is fucking shit and they have nothing better to do. I would be pretty happy if i heard they had died tomorrow.

 

[Joopiiii]

One of the reasons I dislike Facebook. If she hadn't used Facebook or maybe even the Internet none of this would ever have happened. Seriously hope the people involved get shot for this (even though that won't happen).

Justifying one persons death with another.


Good one.


OT: its a tragic story, People saying she shouldnt have flashed, When you are 13 you do alot of dumb shit. She didnt deserve this, Nobody does.

 

Humanity disgusts me, at the end of the day we're not even animals, we're much less than that. Animals have respect and decency.

I can't honestly hope this type of pain on someone else regardless of if they instigated it or not, but what I do hope is that the people who pushed this poor girl to her own end understand what they've done one day and have to forever hold it on their consciousness. That's unfortunately unrealistic, however, since it seems that the only way people learn is through experience.

Words literally cannot express how disgusting this is.

 

[Trent!]

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There are many many similar videos and stories around Youtube/the Internet. I met the girl above while I was in rehab this summer. It was not a rehab just for drugs; the high majority of teens there did not use any substances and were there for anxiety/depression/suicidal thoughts/self-harm. She was abused by a close family friend/member and she now has PTSD and severe depression. She was taking 2x as much medication that I am taking now when I last saw her in the program. She has a twin sister, and every boyfriend she has had has cheated on her with her twin. On top of that her most recent boyfriend cheated and got her twin sister pregnant and she is helping to hide the pregnancy from their parents. There are just no words for how cruel and fucked up some people can be. Stay strong.

 

[Rockerr]

She's stupid. She was 15 and ended her life over some fucking opinions.

 

[Abarta]

She's stupid. She was 15 and ended her life over some fucking opinions.

You have no idea what she went through,you're disgusting. Imagine for 4 years non-stop crying every day. Having no friends. Telling you, you should just commit suicide.

 

There are loads of these on Youtube. I personally knew someone on the internet who ended her life and was pretty similar to those above. Her video is on youtube, too. I think people really don't realise that keeping their mouths shut could save a persons life. Suicide isn't the cowardly thing, it's treating someone so horribly that they end their life that is.