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Hey man. Well, first of all you could maybe try smiling at her, say when you walk past her or come to eye contact with her. If she smiles back leave it a few days and go from there and eventually and you can begin to talk with her and be yourself don't act like an idiot and just talk to her like you've known her for ages and you wont go wrong, man. If you're in any of our classes you could maybe ask her for help. When you start to talk with her just ask how's her day been and go from there. Best of luck! :)
 
The way some of us old farts do it is like this.
If we see a lady that looks classy enough at the club, we go talk to her for a bit, if she stays engaged in the conversation she's interested... from there you can either wait till a song comes on you see her boppin around a little bit to, then ask her if she wants to dance, or see if she wants to get a table and grab a snack or drink etc.... (it's all about reading the person)
However you're not an old fart yet... so kind of follow the same things but put a spin on it to match your age range.

Be a friend... offer to carry her books for her.. (hey it worked when dinosaurs roamed the earth... I mean when I was your age). If you have a class sort of near hers try talking to her on the way to her class every once in a while (don't do it every class or you WILL look like a wierdo lol). If your school has any sport events ask her to go to one with you. Bring money... so you can buy her something to eat at the game if she wants something lol. Also if it's on the level of a "first date" type thing bring her a present - something small but something in good taste.

I'm much older and married... it's been a long time since I thought of the things I used to do in high school to catch a fine lady. I don't think 15 is to young myself... My aunt and uncle met when they were 15 years old.. I don't think you have a girl problem young man. I think you found someone that is pleasantly appealing to you, and you just want to find out if she's as pretty a -person- as she is a -looker- That's not a problem, that's a gift, now sharpen those social skills and get to know her. Most importantly BE yourself. There's nothing worse than trying to be someone else and be in a relationship based on faked whatever.

Have fun.
 
elmerfudd said:
The way some of us old farts do it is like this.
If we see a lady that looks classy enough at the club, we go talk to her for a bit, if she stays engaged in the conversation she's interested... from there you can either wait till a song comes on you see her boppin around a little bit to, then ask her if she wants to dance, or see if she wants to get a table and grab a snack or drink etc.... (it's all about reading the person)
However you're not an old fart yet... so kind of follow the same things but put a spin on it to match your age range.

Be a friend... offer to carry her books for her.. (hey it worked when dinosaurs roamed the earth... I mean when I was your age). If you have a class sort of near hers try talking to her on the way to her class every once in a while (don't do it every class or you WILL look like a wierdo lol). If your school has any sport events ask her to go to one with you. Bring money... so you can buy her something to eat at the game if she wants something lol. Also if it's on the level of a "first date" type thing bring her a present - something small but something in good taste.

I'm much older and married... it's been a long time since I thought of the things I used to do in high school to catch a fine lady. I don't think 15 is to young myself... My aunt and uncle met when they were 15 years old.. I don't think you have a girl problem young man. I think you found someone that is pleasantly appealing to you, and you just want to find out if she's as pretty a -person- as she is a -looker- That's not a problem, that's a gift, now sharpen those social skills and get to know her. Most importantly BE yourself. There's nothing worse than trying to be someone else and be in a relationship based on faked whatever.

Have fun.
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Problem is that I barely see her around campus and I'm not sure where all her classes are. I'm hoping I can get into one of her classes, though.
 
All it takes is one "hey there... I'm (insert name here) what's your name... ohh wow those look heavy, can I carry your books for you" If she lets you then not only have you introduced yourself but you are walking her to class and having a conversation on the way.

That's just one method of making a first contact / impression.
Back in my day that was called being a gentleman. It also shows her that you care about her at least enough to try to get to know her.

But then again times are changing. A simple hello might work wonders as well.
It only takes a few words to introduce yourself to her and try to start a conversation. So even if you see her only once a day there's your opportunity.
Even if you end up in the "friend zone" as someone else put it... when you're hanging out with her... well other guys will so envy you if she's a really pretty one. In these times you can never have to many friends, so make as many as you can. I have to think that the better relationships are built on friendship first. I was friends with my wife first.. our relationship has had some MAJOR problems but the foundation of friendship first saw us through those problems.

Even if you see her just once a day all you need is that once shot, but don't think of it as a shot just think of it as an opportunity, and be yourself.. even if you're nervous she might find that cute for all you know.

I play bass guitar in a band, and I get 20 year old girls all the time trying to flirt with me. The ones I really get flattered by are the ones that are shy.. maybe it's because I know they're the ones that are most likely wanting to get to know me as a person and not just some guy that plays in a rock and roll band... I always have to tell them "sorry I'm married, but I'm very pleased such a beautiful woman such as yourself thinks I'm worthy of your attention. I'm happy to have your company tonight between sets, let me introduce you to the rest of the band... can I buy you a drink or something.. I would love to see you again here's where we play our next show.. etc..."

I mean it's all about just getting out there and making contact. Just be honest with yourself and her.
 
This sucks, I didn't even see her today, so I couldn't even talk to her. I'm getting love sick. :(

elmerfudd said:
All it takes is one "hey there... I'm (insert name here) what's your name... ohh wow those look heavy, can I carry your books for you" If she lets you then not only have you introduced yourself but you are walking her to class and having a conversation on the way.

That's just one method of making a first contact / impression.
Back in my day that was called being a gentleman. It also shows her that you care about her at least enough to try to get to know her.

But then again times are changing. A simple hello might work wonders as well.
It only takes a few words to introduce yourself to her and try to start a conversation. So even if you see her only once a day there's your opportunity.
Even if you end up in the "friend zone" as someone else put it... when you're hanging out with her... well other guys will so envy you if she's a really pretty one. In these times you can never have to many friends, so make as many as you can. I have to think that the better relationships are built on friendship first. I was friends with my wife first.. our relationship has had some MAJOR problems but the foundation of friendship first saw us through those problems.

Even if you see her just once a day all you need is that once shot, but don't think of it as a shot just think of it as an opportunity, and be yourself.. even if you're nervous she might find that cute for all you know.

I play bass guitar in a band, and I get 20 year old girls all the time trying to flirt with me. The ones I really get flattered by are the ones that are shy.. maybe it's because I know they're the ones that are most likely wanting to get to know me as a person and not just some guy that plays in a rock and roll band... I always have to tell them "sorry I'm married, but I'm very pleased such a beautiful woman such as yourself thinks I'm worthy of your attention. I'm happy to have your company tonight between sets, let me introduce you to the rest of the band... can I buy you a drink or something.. I would love to see you again here's where we play our next show.. etc..."

I mean it's all about just getting out there and making contact. Just be honest with yourself and her.
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This girl seems shy, as well, and I like that. Reason being, is that shy girls aren't like those other bitches and sluts, at my school.
 
Don't get all depressed about it man... I would say go for it and try to figure out some kind of way to get her attention and talk to her. I know the feeling of being young and thinking that you are never going to find a good relationship. I felt the same way at 16..

When I was 16 this new girl moved to my school and I first noticed her in math class and how there was something different about her. She didn't wear makeup or dress like the other girls, she was very smart and just had this aura about her and before I knew it I began seeing her everywhere. Well it took me nearly 2 months until I finally talked to her on Halloween night when I was out and about and ran into her, but he ended up hanging out and then later going on to date and fall in love and we had 3 wonderful years together. I still love her, I still miss her and although things ended between us, I just want to show you that it is possible to find "true love" at such a young age, although it is definitely a rare occurence. Just don't give up hope man! Go say hello :)
 
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