Love

[I Got Munnyz]

How long has she been with her boyfriend ?
It could help with some of the advice that people give.

She has been with her bf for 2 years, then she broke up with him, and got back with him 6 months ago. I shoulda took my chance when she broke up with him but I was afraid.

Do the right thing bro You'll find true happiness in the future. All that pain and long wait will soon, give you back something. Don't give up now Keep fighting the feeling!

Yea bro I hope I do

 

[master414]

I doubt she'll ever be single, she really love her bf

If you really want to make you, her boyfriend, but she has one already, you'll need to prove yourself to her. Not by asking her out or putting pressure, but by doing simple things, it has helped me a lot.

Simple things:
Going out shopping that's near school, or going to the dinner que at school (if you are attending) together.
Then build on, don't make it sound as if you are asking her out, or she might feel pressured. Spending time with her, and saying hi - waving at her everytime you see her will make her feel better with you.

Hope it works out.

 

[Snow Patrol]

If she likes you, she likes you. If she doesn't, she doesn't. YOU don't have much control over what she thinks, so just keep living life. Don't come off as a "clingy friend" or you might lose a friend.

 

[Hayd3nrox]

Any updates as of recent?

 

[I Got Munnyz]

Any updates as of recent?

Yes, She told me she lost her virginity and stuff, which made me even more sad and I have come to the decision of trying to forget her, I told her that. She respects it and wishes me the best. and she was crying

 

Ooof, girls always go back to the boy that made her lose her V, most do anyway.
Your best option is what you have done and simply just forget her, although if she ever breaks up with her boyfriend you can always try to take advantage of that situation and comfort her while she is sad, don't try anythig with her at first though, as she will know exactly what you're doing. Even then it may not work.

 

[Hayd3nrox]

Yes, She told me she lost her virginity and stuff, which made me even more sad and I have come to the decision of trying to forget her, I told her that. She respects it and wishes me the best. and she was crying

The reason she's crying is because she's lying to you. The best thing you can do is just BE THERE. That's all she wants.

 

[I Got Munnyz]

The reason she's crying is because she's lying to you. The best thing you can do is just BE THERE. That's all she wants.

I hope you are right

 

[bad_moose]

If she loves her boyfriend and she isn't single then butt out. Don't voice your feelings, the only thing it will do is cause problems and make people unhappy. Maybe when she's single again or if she talks to you about it first something could happen but otherwise please don't try I'm sorry if I sound nasty or rude but someone tried saying this stuff to my girlfriend earlier and it's really made me angry.

 

[Prada]

if she is truly your best friend you will forget her and be her friend. If you want to get with her and potentially damage your relationship beyond repair seranade her. just a tip if your under 18 let it go .

 

[Rejection]

I hope you are right

I believe your decision was wrong. You should really not of told her you were going to forget her. You should keep your friends close, and having her as a friend would do no harm;- Then, if something did happen between her and her BF, you could be there to support her in the "Tough time", and she may realise that you care very much about her. Don't make the wrong decision.
Good luck, Mate.

 

[Deacon Frost]

If I pick option 1, i will be sad rest of my life. :'(

I can't wait forever




I think I decided what I'm gona do, I'll just try to forget her. Hopefully time will make me forget her

You're a selfish jackass and don't deserve her. The chick with the purple pink writing was correct, this is a crush and nothing more. It is not love, it is infatuation. I don't care if you've known her your whole life, but how you're treating her is just despicable.

If you loved her, you'd be happy she's happy with her boyfriend. Instead of getting jealous about her having sex, you should have been concerned that she was safe, and happy that she's enjoying herself. Instead of trying to get with her and prevent her boyfriend of TWO years being with her, you should have stayed by her side and done your best to show her your feelings.

If you loved her... you'd wait for her for no matter how long it took. This doesn't mean you can't be in a relationship with someone else, it just means you can't love someone else.

Try finding yourself someone else, and apologize to her for being a dickhead friend. Go get laid and maybe you'll realize you're a fool.

 

[The Pkkid V6]

I'm sorry, I can't really tell you anything magical. Fuck everyone hits the friendzone once, It's not a good place, but whatever. Everyone falls for a best friend once, I've done it twice. Lmfao. It's fucking the worst, wait no 3 times? Anyway, just move on, trust me. Start being friends with other people, and just trying to meet new people. Friend zone things won't happen, so don't waste time on it. This may seem harsh, but would you rather have a lie that's going to hurt you, or words of experience and honesty.

 

[Sheba888]

Someone got to her first

Do her a favor and spare the drama.

Just wait and see how her relationship progresses with this guy

 

[Peetu]

Don't tell her. She most likely won't care of how you feel, and it may result in breaking of your friendship.

 

[I Got Munnyz]

You're a selfish jackass and don't deserve her. The chick with the purple pink writing was correct, this is a crush and nothing more. It is not love, it is infatuation. I don't care if you've known her your whole life, but how you're treating her is just despicable.

If you loved her, you'd be happy she's happy with her boyfriend. Instead of getting jealous about her having sex, you should have been concerned that she was safe, and happy that she's enjoying herself. Instead of trying to get with her and prevent her boyfriend of TWO years being with her, you should have stayed by her side and done your best to show her your feelings.

If you loved her... you'd wait for her for no matter how long it took. This doesn't mean you can't be in a relationship with someone else, it just means you can't love someone else.

Try finding yourself someone else, and apologize to her for being a dickhead friend. Go get laid and maybe you'll realize you're a fool.

Dude that hurted me, I know I realize it now

 

[epicarrants]

Same situation here. Hide your feelings, and make her think you forgot about her. When she breaks up with her BF, talk to her. Get close to her. YOU will grow on HER.

 

[Sunno-boy]

Okay, Well What can I say? I'm young and in love. I'm in love with my best friend, she is amazing but she doesn't feel the same way for me and she's in love with her bf :'( & I don't know what to do, I always want to tell her how I feel about her..But I guess I'm too afraid..and a year ago I told her that I love her but she says that if she had to pick it would be her bf, So I tried forgetting her but I just couldn't. Please help me, what should I do?

I can understand your situation my friend, and let me tell you the best thing you can do, is be there for her. Her boyfriend isn't going to be there forever.

Couples break up, when she sees you are the one who is there for her to fall on, she may realize how important you really are. I also suggest you start talking to new people, talk to other girls, and I'm sure she has feelings towards you if you are her bestfriend.

Usually this does tend to happen with teens, and it will hurt you a bit to act like you don't care, but I promise you it's the best thing you can do.

If you ever just wanna talk, or need some advice, send me a PM, I'll help you to the best of my abilities .

 

[Sir Huntman]

Personally, I am in an EXACT type of situation as you are. First of all, I recommend you DO NOT go up to her and tell her how you feel when she has a BF....that is just not the right move at the moment.

Second, you stated you were young and by the sound of her reaction when you said you "love her" and she said "if I had a choice I would choose my BF" that seems like an immature answer and I would say sit back and watch the show, it aint lasting long.

Just stay friends with her, but don't get too close because it will aggravate her if she feels like you are trying to interfere with her relationship. If/when she breaks up, then that is your chance to jump in and be there for her and things might change.

Sometimes it takes time for someone to realize who they truly should be with...so you have to wait and find out. Life works itself out, if she is meant for you, it will work out.

If any questions feel very free to P.M. me because I have been in the exact same situation (though I am much older I am assuming since you said you were young) and it has been going on for a long time for me.

Goodluck ,

Sir Huntman

 

[Rich_Kid]

Love is bullshit, just bury it deep down and forget about it. All it ever does is get you hurt in the end, not really worth it. When it happens to you, you'll wish you took my advise >.<