Being Given Everything Screws You Up.

[†Tysonâ€Â]

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[Jansen]

You know what else screws you up? Being in a broke-ass, fucked up, dysfunctional family.

Don't think you're getting the short end of the stick. At least you had a choice to be spoiled. It's your fault you let it go to your head.

Sorry if I sound like a dick, here, but reading this I am coming to the conclusions that you're just like everyone else - your financial situation has less to do with it than you think.

When i really like a girl and they don't like me in that way, it makes my head feel like its about to explode with the three emotions i previously stated.

Get used to that -.-. Shit sux

 

[Shawn_]

Well, for starters, when you like a girl a LOT and you aren't with her it sucks. I'm just going to continue this under the assumption that is the underlying cause for why you are point this.

Yeah, it sounds like you are used to getting what you want, and that's going to be a dangerous thing when your parents aren't going to be there for you, which eventually is going to happen. Put plainly, this is actually shockingly similar to an addiction to cigarettes, alcohol, gambling, or various other things. All of them release a neurotransmitter categorized as endorphins. Endorphins are linked with pleasure, and basically when you are getting artificial releases of Endorphins, such as getting a new car, or various other gift you've been wanting, it's going to throw your overall balance off. Essentially what happens is your mind gets conditioned to associate the endorphin release with getting what you want, so if you see someone that has something they'd want, you crash.

Either that, or you are exaggerating your situation, and are probably going through for first real "crush" that means something, and realize that it really sucks.

 

[tutoneppis]

So you in somewhat greedy and its got to your head. And your parents cant get you everything you want. Since you have a car I think you a mature enough to relise that any parents shouldnt help their children get girls.. You have been spoiled in your childhood and you want it to continue.
btw"
I guess girls are the only thing my parents can't give me.!" Your wrong, escor..

 

[†Tysonâ€Â]

You know what else screws you up? Being in a broke-ass, fucked up, dysfunctional family.

Don't think you're getting the short end of the stick. At least you had a choice to be spoiled. It's your fault you let it go to your head.

Sorry if I sound like a dick, here, but reading this I am coming to the conclusions that you're just like everyone else - your financial situation has less to do with it than you think.



Get used to that -.-. Shit sux

Suppose that'd suck too, i didn't let it go to my head, its just the way i was brought up type of thing. You don't sound like a dick and if you really knew me you'd know i am far different from everyone else, but you don't know me so its all cool to make opinions from what you do know.

To the get used to it bit, it more than sucks, its bullshit. Just thinking about it makes my head spin lol.

Well, for starters, when you like a girl a LOT and you aren't with her it sucks. I'm just going to continue this under the assumption that is the underlying cause for why you are point this.

Yeah, it sounds like you are used to getting what you want, and that's going to be a dangerous thing when your parents aren't going to be there for you, which eventually is going to happen. Put plainly, this is actually shockingly similar to an addiction to cigarettes, alcohol, gambling, or various other things. All of them release a neurotransmitter categorized as endorphins. Endorphins are linked with pleasure, and basically when you are getting artificial releases of Endorphins, such as getting a new car, or various other gift you've been wanting, it's going to throw your overall balance off. Essentially what happens is your mind gets conditioned to associate the endorphin release with getting what you want, so if you see someone that has something they'd want, you crash.

Either that, or you are exaggerating your situation, and are probably going through for first real "crush" that means something, and realize that it really sucks.

Thanks, knowing this actually helped for some reason lol. But trust me, i am not exaggerating my situation even though i know a lot of people do since its the internet.

 

[Jansen]

To the get used to it bit, it more than sucks, its bullshit. Just thinking about it makes my head spin lol.

Everyone goes through it, whether you want to believe it or not :/

 

[Swan]

Get used to buying cheap gear, mate. I've never gotten the absolute best in any category. The computers I have received in my lifetime are cheap, the bike I wanted when I was a lad was only second best. My first guitar was a cheap $100 acoustic, and my current electric (though I love it) is a cheap scaled down version of a much better model. The only real decent things I get are shoes, as I often have to import them due to my feet being abnormally large.

I won't say I've never asked my parents for anything. I won't say they haven't given me anything either. My father bought my electric guitar when I was prepared to buy it myself, and my acoustic before that. My parents bought my laptop and I didn't ask for it. My parents bought my computer as a Christmas present, and it was only a cheap model, but I was grateful for it all the same.

Long story short, learn to like lesser things. If I can manage with things that aren't the best, then I see no reason why you can't. Learn to accept what you're given, and take it gratefully. I'm considered selfish in the regard that I do stuff for the benefit of myself, but that doesn't stop me from being thankful when required.

Let me finish by saying this: If you're given something, regardless of what it is, be it a cheap Holden or a very expensive Mercedes, would you be thankful for either?

 

[Shawn_]

Suppose that'd suck too, i didn't let it go to my head, its just the way i was brought up type of thing. You don't sound like a dick and if you really knew me you'd know i am far different from everyone else, but you don't know me so its all cool to make opinions from what you do know.

To the get used to it bit, it more than sucks, its bullshit. Just thinking about it makes my head spin lol.



Thanks, knowing this actually helped for some reason lol. But trust me, i am not exaggerating my situation even though i know a lot of people do since its the internet.

Like I said, the underlying cause for you posting this is a girl, or multiple girls.

It hurts, and it sucks. It's something everyone goes through, and you really need not let it beat your self-esteem up.

 

[TJ]

I advise to get a job, and make some money. Even though i hate working, since its at McDonalds (lol), whenever i buy something, i appreciate it more. I can look at it, and say "Damn, i bought this fucker"

 

[25packbeer]

after you are out of the house and living by yourself life will be shitty enjoy being 'spoiled' or whatever... as goes for the girl thing i realy dont know or care about how you cant get a girl to do that thing with you. lol good luck with life mate.

 

[†Tysonâ€Â]

Everyone goes through it, whether you want to believe it or not :/

Yeah i believe it, i just think some people are more affected by it than others.

Get used to buying cheap gear, mate. I've never gotten the absolute best in any category. The computers I have received in my lifetime are cheap, the bike I wanted when I was a lad was only second best. My first guitar was a cheap $100 acoustic, and my current electric (though I love it) is a cheap scaled down version of a much better model. The only real decent things I get are shoes, as I often have to import them due to my feet being abnormally large.

I won't say I've never asked my parents for anything. I won't say they haven't given me anything either. My father bought my electric guitar when I was prepared to buy it myself, and my acoustic before that. My parents bought my laptop and I didn't ask for it. My parents bought my computer as a Christmas present, and it was only a cheap model, but I was grateful for it all the same.

Long story short, learn to like lesser things. If I can manage with things that aren't the best, then I see no reason why you can't. Learn to accept what you're given, and take it gratefully. I'm considered selfish in the regard that I do stuff for the benefit of myself, but that doesn't stop me from being thankful when required.

Let me finish by saying this: If you're given something, regardless of what it is, be it a cheap Holden or a very expensive Mercedes, would you be thankful for either?

If i got a cheap holden i'd be like "cool, i have a car that i can just thrash since it didn't cost much" and if i got a mercedes i'd be like "cool, i'm gonna look after it good though and never do anything stupid since it costs lots". But my parents consult me about everything before they buy me it so nothing i ever get is a surprise. So if they were going to get me a cheap holden i'd just ask if i can have the money they were gonna spend on a car so i can save it up to buy a better car. Just answering honestly even though it sounds selfish.

 

[†Tysonâ€Â]

Like I said, the underlying cause for you posting this is a girl, or multiple girls.

It hurts, and it sucks. It's something everyone goes through, and you really need not let it beat your self-esteem up.

You're right, but you'd also know its easier said than done. I've liked this one girl longer than any girl i have ever liked. And this girl i have liked from the second i saw her. I usually get over things really quick but yeah not this time which sucks.

I advise to get a job, and make some money. Even though i hate working, since its at McDonalds (lol), whenever i buy something, i appreciate it more. I can look at it, and say "Damn, i bought this fucker"

I have a job, i've had a job since the second i could. Every time i spend my money i get a feeling of regret thinking i should've spent it on something else lol.

 

[TJ]

I have a job, i've had a job since the second i could. Every time i spend my money i get a feeling of regret thinking i should've spent it on something else lol.

Lol, thats the money spending world right there. You buy something, usually stupid, and then a couple days later ask yourself, wtf, why did i buy that?

 

[Jansen]

Lol, thats the money spending world right there. You buy something, usually stupid, and then a couple days later ask yourself, wtf, why did i buy that?

I rarely regret purchases.

I buy stuff I know I want. The only time I regret purchases is if its food

fuck buying food, but you have to some times :[

 

[TJ]

I rarely regret purchases.

I buy stuff I know I want. The only time I regret purchases is if its food

fuck buying food, but you have to some times :[

Lol yeah, i hear that. Its really good at first, then your like..shit, did i really just buy that?

 

[Tgump]

My main emotions that i feel about 90% of the time are Hate, Anger and Jealousy. Whenever i can't have something i get angry. I am always jealous when someone has something better than me and i hate those who have something i can't have. My friends often think i can be an extremely angry person at times and that i am heartless because i don't care about 99.9% of people nor do i care what happens to them.

When i really like a girl and they don't like me in that way, it makes my head feel like its about to explode with the three emotions i previously stated. I guess girls are the only thing my parents can't give me.

Welcome to puberty, it hates you as much as you hate it.

 

[The Dark]

Well, for starters, when you like a girl a LOT and you aren't with her it sucks. I'm just going to continue this under the assumption that is the underlying cause for why you are point this.

Yeah, it sounds like you are used to getting what you want, and that's going to be a dangerous thing when your parents aren't going to be there for you, which eventually is going to happen. Put plainly, this is actually shockingly similar to an addiction to cigarettes, alcohol, gambling, or various other things. All of them release a neurotransmitter categorized as endorphins. Endorphins are linked with pleasure, and basically when you are getting artificial releases of Endorphins, such as getting a new car, or various other gift you've been wanting, it's going to throw your overall balance off. Essentially what happens is your mind gets conditioned to associate the endorphin release with getting what you want, so if you see someone that has something they'd want, you crash.

Either that, or you are exaggerating your situation, and are probably going through for first real "crush" that means something, and realize that it really sucks.

^scientifically explained.

IMO, you have become a spoilt bitch. Literally. And think about it, what would a girl want with a bitch?

 

[mage3158]

OP sickens me

 

[HeavenLord]

Hey i just want to get this out here coz i'm in a shit mood like usual. My parents have always given me everything, the best clothes, best shoes, best everything really. The most recent thing my parents bought for me is a Nissan R33 Skyline. While some of you may think that it'd be great, well it is when you actually get the item, it makes you really happy etc. But overall i think it just screws you up.

My main emotions that i feel about 90% of the time are Hate, Anger and Jealousy. Whenever i can't have something i get angry. I am always jealous when someone has something better than me and i hate those who have something i can't have. My friends often think i can be an extremely angry person at times and that i am heartless because i don't care about 99.9% of people nor do i care what happens to them.

When i really like a girl and they don't like me in that way, it makes my head feel like its about to explode with the three emotions i previously stated. I guess girls are the only thing my parents can't give me.

Anyway, what do you guys think? Is this just my personality or is it because i've been given lots of things? And any ideas on how i can be less jealous etc? Coz its started to like really build up and i think i'm just gonna snap one day.

your parents giving you everything so easily makes you spoiled. If you had worked for those things on your own, then you would realize how hard it is and appreciate what you have.

 

[shakaka]

Like Jansen said, it's your fault you let it get to you.

I've been given pretty much everything, and I'm grateful.. I don't ask for more than I need as far as money goes, and if it is more I usually don't have to ask for it.

As far as girls go.. I would say that people in third world countries wearing boxes on their shoes have those same emotions. Everybody does, it's not because you were spoiled.