Girl problems... Help?

[Hexium]

Well anyway, theres this girl that I talk to almost everyday..

Shes in one of my classes and I believe she likes me but i'm not sure.

Every day I walk past her going to my seat and Ill just stare her down and say her name as I walk past, she does the same.

We have small conversations here and there, sometimes she'll come up to me at lunch and pull my hair or just say hi and then playfully tease me saying she wants to fight me or something.

Anyway, I believe she likes me but I want to find out for sure. Also, I want to ask her on a date or something but I never really get any personal time with her, shes always with friends or I'm always with my friends. I thought about asking her number or giving her mine but I have no opportunities where it wont be awkward.

I just want your opinions on what you would do here.

I know this sounds really lame but, yeah lol.

 

[Spy Tab]

A little corny idea I have, but do you have lockers with slots in them? If so slip a note in hers, asking for her number, and give her your locker number (not combination). If you get a number in there, call it, and it turns out to be hers, odds are she likes you. If you do not get a note, try to keep the asking her out thing on the down low.

 

[Garbear]

if shes with her friends all you need to say is "hey guys, sorry to interupt, can I talk to %$#%$# for a sec?"

talk to her friends and get inside intel

ask for her number

be the man. girls dont make the move you want.

 

[Hexium]

Spy tab I think that gives the wrong impression, makes me look like a pussy lol.

 

[DerrekLe]

I believe girls like confident guys. You should ask here even if there are people around. It shows you aren't embarrassed to be around her.

 

[Imagine]

To get her number, just ask her if you can borrow her phone to call somebody, and while you have it, just ask if you can put your contact in there + then text yourself from there.

 

[ll champion]

To get her number, just ask her if you can borrow her phone to call somebody, and while you have it, just ask if you can put your contact in there + then text yourself from there.

Oh please don't do that.

In the class you have her in just straight up ask her it. Just say "Hey, what's your phone #"? Make sure you slip that in a conversation where she's having a good time. If she gives an excuse don't think to hard about it, as Derrek said girls like confidence in a guy. Do it before Christmas break or you may have a lonely one (if you even do have a break).

 

[Imagine]

Oh please don't do that.

In the class you have her in just straight up ask her it. Just say "Hey, what's your phone #"? Make sure you slip that in a conversation where she's having a good time. If she gives an excuse don't think to hard about it, as Derrek said girls like confidence in a guy. Do it before Christmas break or you may have a lonely one (if you even do have a break).

Obviously asking her straight up is better, but there are some people that like to get into it gradually and might chicken out halfway through. Besides, it does work, I've seen a few people pull it off.

And whatever you do, don't just get it from someone else and text her, get it from her directly.

 

[Garbear]

All you need is confidence, seriously.

 

[Hexium]

All you need is confidence, seriously.

Yeah, I know.. I just don't want to get shot down and feel like an ass.

 

[DerrekLe]

Well, it's better to know that you do know the outcome, rather than not know what the outcome would be.

 

[Grrr]

Yeah, I know.. I just don't want to get shot down and feel like an ass.

Well what is there to lose? If you feel like this girl could be worth it, then go for it. Rejection isn't the end of the world, sure your ego will feel a little bruised for a couple of days but at the end of the day that's life and you may as well get used to it now because it happens to the best of us.

Just go for it, that's the only advice I can give you, you'll never get something if you don't try to get it.

 

[Garbear]

Getting shot down has made me so much better around people in general. Failure is success, essentially.

Btw, my girlfriend of almost 1.5 years is a straight TEN.

 

[Seventh]

Be a man, confidence is all you need.

And you can basically ask her out anytime. Casually.

I would say start with a "date but not an official date"

As in, you guys chat, start raising a topic about favorite movies, and then you would suddenly say, "How about a movie this Saturday night?", nothing personal, nothing cheesy. Any type of cliche questions will work. If she says no, she has no time, doesn't mean she hates you or doesn't like you or anything, it's because she's probably have other things to do. If she says yes, she's giving it a shot. Also, please pick reasonable times. Don't say like a Monday evening, when obviously you guys probably have school tomorrow, and probably have homework and all that. Reasonable times remember.

To sum it up, ask her out casually, like friends normally do. Start with the friend-zone remember? Seems like you guys barely have a heart-to-heart conversation yet. And that's really important.

 

[Hexium]

Be a man, confidence is all you need.

And you can basically ask her out anytime. Casually.

I would say start with a "date but not an official date"

As in, you guys chat, start raising a topic about favorite movies, and then you would suddenly say, "How about a movie this Saturday night?", nothing personal, nothing cheesy. Any type of cliche questions will work. If she says no, she has no time, doesn't mean she hates you or doesn't like you or anything, it's because she's probably have other things to do. If she says yes, she's giving it a shot. Also, please pick reasonable times. Don't say like a Monday evening, when obviously you guys probably have school tomorrow, and probably have homework and all that. Reasonable times remember.

To sum it up, ask her out casually, like friends normally do. Start with the friend-zone remember? Seems like you guys barely have a heart-to-heart conversation yet. And that's really important.

Yeah I really want to get her phone number so we can have a "heart to heart" but we never really get the chance to talk, its always rushed by class or whatever.

 

[rs emperor]

Just ask her to hang out, doesn't have to be a date. Once she says yes, approach her the next day and be like "I wanted to make plans last night, but realized I didn't have your number." This will start a conversation for at least a night and you guys can hang out together

 

[trappinjones]

you dont have to ask her on a date, sometimes thats a lil much for young girls. just ask her if she wants to hang out. play ball, go to the mall. but make sure in that week you make your intentions that you like her clear. because you dont want to be in a friendzone.

 

[Shoobies]

she wants your dick...

next time you see her be like "hey, i thought (new romance/comedy movie) looked pretty funny, and i was wondering if you would like to go see it with me this friday?"
she will more than likely say yes and blush and then you just ask her for her number then before it gets akward say "we'll ill talk to you again later " and go sit down

 

[artranier]

Just go with the flow dude. make the first move...But dont look overdo it.. Try hanging out with her for lunch and discuss what you really feel.

 

[Quatakai]

Well youve got this, make a move Im sure she likes you and its better than never finding out at all. If she just sees you as a friend then move on, nothing worse them hanging out with someone you like that sees you only as a friend.