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For the last half year (Since I started my new position at work in Electronics) I've been hitting on, and interested in this girl. After a few months, I found out my interest was not in vein, because she has a thing for me to. She's had a boyfriend for 10 years. He doesn't treat her well, but she's used to him, and they have a house together. Two, maybe more, months ago, we used to share name badges, to mess with people, and one day I decided to 'steal' her name badge, because it was one of many she had, but this was her favorite one. One day, just before she went on a week's vacation, she came up to me, flipped back my name, as it is on top, and grabbed her name badge, without removing it, and sprayed it with a LOT of her perfume. You can still smell it now, and it's been well over a month. I took this as a sign of ownership, like she didn't want me to forget her when she was gone. She knows I like the smell of that one...

For the past three or four months we've been having dreams about each other, but one particular incident stands out in my mind. I had a dream where she approaches me at work with her 3 dogs (small ones) and she is trying to look nice, and is trying to smile, but she's been hurt by this guy... The next day, she had a dream, after I told her about mine, and it only continued from where mine left off. She asked me if it was still cool if she moved in with me, which we have talked about in the past, and I told her that it was, etc, then she woke up.

Yesterday, I recieved a text message that I didn't read until today. From Her phone. It said the following, "Dont talktomygirlfriendiwillbeattheshitoutofyouiknowwhoyouare" Recently we've been text messaging over the cell, all being innocent, and he got hold of her phone. He read a text she sent me that said only "25," which I understand as a joke punchline. He took that, like a dick, and asked her if that's the number of times we've had sex. Firstly, she almost never gets out of their house to have fun, let alone sex. What are we supposed to do, have sex in the stockroom? Not with another 100+ employees in the store at the same time, thanks - Not to mention the cameras, etc. Secondly, who counts? I mean, if we did have sex, unless it's like 1-3 times, I'm pretty sure you forget the number after a while. Especially over the span we've been interested in each other.

Anyhow, after reading that text from him, using her phone, I forwarded the text right back to her, so that she can read it. She knew about it, apparently, because she had someone else call me to see if I was angry after my forward. I wasn't, and won't be mad at her. After having someone else call, I knew it was best for me to go see her, so I took the chances and went to work on an off day just to talk. I got an update on what's been going on at home for her, and let her know what's going on in my mind. I also let her know that the door's still open if she wants to come to stay with me. I'm not sure what's ahead, but odds are, within the next few days I've got a fight ahead of me, and it's going to happen while I'm working. It should be fun, and afterward, because of the way things are going right now, she'll take me up on my offer.

I work at a Wal-Mart. (ASDA, Walmex, Seiyu) If I get into a fight on the floor, I will be fired. I have told my manager that this will be happening before the week's end. I have no doubts.

It's worth it.
 
Well, my firend, i wish you best of luck with that. it sounds like you are genuinely interested in her for who she is. I hope whatever happens works out for the best, and both parties end up happy.

I have been through a similar thing myself, but at a younger age than what you appear to be.

I would advise you to confront the boyfriend outside of work, possibly in a public place. Try not to get in a fight, as this ends things on bad terms - rather try to talk it out. However, if you are so inclined to get into a punch-up with this guy - come out all guns blazing. Just don't lose your job over it - you are the one who is losing something, not him.

Anyway, best of luck with whatever happens and keep us posted.
 
Fair play to you, i'd do the exact same if I were to be in your position. If the fight does happen just think what he's probabaly put her through and your punches will be 10x harder and his 10x weaker. :)
 
Have you ever even seen the guy before? If so, what's the size/age difference between the two of you? And by the way, good luck with the girl, your job, and the fight. =)
 
Wow, all this just for a girl. >.<

I mean you get another one pretty easily, but I guess you are helping her too, and it wouldn't hurt to hurt her BF (that was a pun :D)
 
I would use the self defense situation. Don't fight him but get him on the ground and hold him down or something. That way you still get to see her at work and all.
 
That's an interesting and enthralling story.

I hope you maul him, assuming it ends up in a brawl.
 
Yeah, as other say, use 'self defence'. You will not get fired, and you get to work with her for longer. Good luck, let us know on any developments.
 
That's a pretty bad situation, but it looks like she likes you.. All I can say is, don't play the friend spot.. If you're her close friend, some girls will want it to stay that way, and that's bad. But from your age (I stalk you, etc.), thats sorta the age of "love" and such, so just, if you love her, pursue her, and don't let her out of your eyes. You can always kick his ass, but then look like a jerk.. Good luck with that, and I love the new avatar, but old one is better ;).
 
Damn, from the way you make it sound, you two really seem to like eachother.

I just have some questions.

How do you know her boyfriend is going to come into your work and fight you? If he has any common sense, he would do his best to try and not get himself arrested.

It's worth it.

Man you better THINK about this statement. First of all, everyone knows things change when a girl moves in with you. Is this girl really worth losing your job over?
 
Smash the cunt. If I was you I would go up to him.
 
Remember, SMI, let him throw the first punch - then it'll be self-defense.
 
Alright, in reply to all of you - Update:

I saw them in my store, when neither one of us was working. They were shopping. She smiled at me, and looked like she wanted to make conversation, but then, realizing he was there, averted her eyes, pretty much looking every direction. This seemed to have gotten his attention, as if he were thinking, 'what are you looking at?' He saw me, and, as expected, gave me a half-dirty look. I was lookking him in the eyes from the point she looked away from me, to meet him when he glared, and gave him a gesture as if to say, 'Bring it...' He did nothing - only looked away slowly. As we passed each other, I made sure to not look away, though he had, and looked at her again. I see her tomorrow, for likely the same shift - both of us, Noon-9pm.

I talked to our mutual friend, and fellow employee, Genna today. She came to the conclusion that tomorrow I am supposed to get Arijanna's house key, (that's the girl) which she wears around her neck, with her name badge, and explain that we are going to get 3 small animal cages, for her 3 small dogs, which she loves, and many boxes, and we are going to get her things packed for her, and move them to my house. He doesn't know where I live, so there's not any chance of him popping in. If we go to their house, based on his newfound lack of confidence - noting that he also did not tell me who he was when he called my phone a few days back, it shouldn't take much work to get him to sit on the couch while we pack for her. This plan is still a work-in-progress, and I will update as it occurs (maybe, depending if she's sitting with me in my room tomorrow, then it may be best not to let her know I've been posting about this in public forums. :P)

Oh, and for who ever asked. I'm 20 - He's 24. I'm 5'11" (180cm) - He's 5'4" (165cm.) I'm 150lbs (69kg) - He's 120lbs (54kg.)
 
You know allot about that guy already. Where's the complication in her just coming to live with you? Hide the bong etc.
 
Problem is, she's been with him a long time (10+ YEARS) and he's mentally abused her, by degrading her. I've been slowly figuring that out as we get closer, and have been reassuring her that she shouldn't have to deal with that sort of thing, but she has never been alone. Trouble is, if you've ever been with someone for a long time, you would understand that it's not easy to drop one person and just pick up where you left off with another. It just doesn't feel right. It takes time, but I've been working on it, and things are going somewhere. Right now, though, it just seems like someone has to take the step to push her over, and it looks like Genna wants to just do it for her already.
 
Update:

Arianna's boyfriend came into the store today. He was holding a puppy. He casually walked by me, and while maintaining constant eye avoidance said, "If your talking about me, I'll kick your ass." I then realize he's standing in front of me (keep in mind I'm literally a head taller than him - at least) and I make kind of a a slight 'Pshtt' noise, dismissing the idea entirely. I walk around the corner, his friend is standing there, near-drunk and says to me, "Pussy. Pussy. ... Pussy." This being said as I am staring him in the eyes the whole time. I'm working at this point, so I casually walk by, maintaining eye contact, and he has the gall to say to me, "Yeah, keep walking." For that entire length of time, after the third 'pussy' I had my hands about 1/2 a foot to either side of my body as if to say, "Go ahead - Start something." Then, after he said 'keep walking' I said it aloud - "Do it." I said this in the same tone as Ben Stiller in Starsky and Hutch.

I, at this point, am all juiced up with adrenaline. I walked to the back to see a manager about recent events, and who do I see there, after a short while? Arijanna. I casually told her, "Hey, you should go home with your boyfriend before he gets his ass beat, because he just threatened me, and his drunken friend called me a *I make a hand gesture here suggesting 'pussy,' because my manager told me not to cuss, after I said ass.*"

I later found out that today was my two-year anniversary, and I am two years accident-free. Would I have known that at the time that he said something to me, I would have knocked his fucking head clean off his shoulders, and dropped his friend instants later, when he piled over from the next isle.

I don't like this kid. No sir, not one bit.
 
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