what to tell her?

[bambino_91]

so today I had a bbq with some friends "big group"
and a girl I knew for like 1 year we never talked much
talked to today and I kinda liked her , I want to get to know her better

we talked for around 5 mins alone before some friends joined us so didn't have much time to talk to her alone

so I want to send her a message on fb since I don't have her mobile number yet
something simlpe but not creepy what should I say?

I want to tell her that i want to get to know her more and i enjoyed the 5 mins i talked to her alone in a none creepy way
is it possible ?

thnx in advance

update:

so I sent her a song on facebook I told her about earlier and she said that's exactly what I like ( she likes that kind of music) and she said we had soo much fun yesterday

I told her yeah we had soo much fun yesterday we should hang out more

and i am waiting for her reply I hope I didn't screw up :S

 

[Novi novak]

Just message her on facebook chat and start a conversation, tell her you have to go and ask for her number so you can text her when you're "away"

 

[Gurtaton]

Maybe you should just wait until you meet again and then ask for her phone number? But let me make a message off the top of my head...

"Hey, we met each other at (insert place where you met here) yesterday. I really enjoyed hanging out, so I figured I'd contact you asking if you would like to do it again sometime soon?"

 

[malakadang]

What type of girl is she?

Is she a party girl?
Is she an outgoing girl?
Is she a reserved girl?

All of which I think dictates on how you should word your message.

The best way to compensate for all is, 'Wanna hang out'?

 

[bambino_91]

Just message her on facebook chat and start a conversation, tell her you have to go and ask for her number so you can text her when you're "away"

don't you think it's a bit early to ask for her phone number:S?

Maybe you should just wait until you meet again and then ask for her phone number? But let me make a message off the top of my head...

"Hey, we met each other at (insert place where you met here) yesterday. I really enjoyed hanging out, so I figured I'd contact you asking if you would like to do it again sometime soon?"

it's a bit early to ask her out of her number

What type of girl is she?

Is she a party girl?
Is she an outgoing girl?
Is she a reserved girl?

All of which I think dictates on how you should word your message.

The best way to compensate for all is, 'Wanna hang out'?

I think part of the message i enjoyed talking to you today we should hang out more...

 

[orang3d]

Dont ask for her number, and i wouldnt say that you "enjoyed speaking to you", sounds a bit weird i think, just talk over chat as you would any other friend, but more.... i wanna fuck you style

 

[Listen to Young Money]

Don't be so passive. Idk what kind of girl you have here, but when I usually get with girls, their numbers is like one of the first things I get. Of course you have to do it in a creative way, but you know the drill. It only gets easier after that.

 

[bambino_91]

Don't be so passive. Idk what kind of girl you have here, but when I usually get with girls, their numbers is like one of the first things I get. Of course you have to do it in a creative way, but you know the drill. It only gets easier after that.

true but i won't risk it..as i said we talked for like 5mins alone

it would be creepy to ask her number right away

she might give it to me but i won't risk it

 

[i noob killer i]

Just chat and play it cool and then slip it in there that you would like to meet up again ect as you talk more.

 

[bambino_91]

Just chat and play it cool and then slip it in there that you would like to meet up again ect as you talk more.

so you think I shouldn't just send one message on fb
just chat with her for a bit?

 

[Gurtaton]

Are you guys gonna hang out more? If yeah, then there's plenty of opportunities ahead for you to get closer to her.

Just take it slow. And are you sure she's single and all?

 

[bambino_91]

Are you guys gonna hang out more? If yeah, then there's plenty of opportunities ahead for you to get closer to her.

Just take it slow. And are you sure she's single and all?

I don't think i will be able to see her because she isn't taking summer courses and I am

well I am going to send her a message on facebook
but still don't know what to say :S

 

[Obzen Sky]

I want to get to know her more and i enjoyed the 5 mins i talked to her alone

Tell her that you really enjoyed her company at the BBQ and would like to get to know her. Pretty much exactly what you told us XD

 

[Fayded]

Alright. I'm here to help.

There are 2 ways you could do it.

#1. Tell her straight up

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-Just tell her it was fun talking to her

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-See if she wants to hang out

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-Ask her to a movie. Sounds old but it works.

During the date: -Act natural

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-Relax

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-Don't overdress

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-Don't be nervous

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-You ask her, You pay.

#2. Make a conversation.

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-Say Hi.

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-Ask what type of things she's into

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-Try to keep talking and eventually you'll make connections

WORD OF ADVICE: During all this.

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DON'T: "hay dood. you me movies tomrow?" Immature grammar makes you look stupid.

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DON'T: Try to be a tough guy. Eventually she'll see through it and be over it. Be straight forward.

Best of luck to you sir. I hope it works. Let me know how it goes.

 

[Tox]

Start a conversation with her, and try and keep it going for about 5 mins. After that say you have to go and say oh wait can I have your number so I can text you?

 

[Dance.]

Don't start to heavy. Just get the chat going up, then try and swing the conversation around to the day you two hung out, then tell her.
Best of luck, buddy!

 

[bambino_91]

thnx for the advice guys

 

[Obzen Sky]

No problem, good luck on getting with her.