Weird Relationship .. Need ADVICE ASAP

il0vec0llege · Jan 9, 2011

Well I would just end it because if she expects you to not flirt with any girls but she is flirting with all the guys it makes no sense.

Rampage-Penetrate · Jan 9, 2011

I suggest just moving on man. Dont waste your time on a lost cause. There are many fish in the sea.

Vanmaster5 · Jan 9, 2011

You need to tell her, "we can stay good friends, but I have to move on with my life because I need someone I can feel open to and trust".

Bear in a Rum Bottle · Jan 9, 2011

Weasel2013 said: ↑

You have two options...

1) Let it all out. Sit her down one on one and make her listen to you. Be sincere about everything you say. Let it all out. Tell her you're sorry for looking (because you are..) but tell her what you found. Give her a chance to try to explain herself. I'm confused as to what she'll say because of the situation..I'm suspecting

a) oh, i wasn't flirting. it was just casual conversation

or

b) well, we aren't together anymore. I'll talk to who I want.

then you have a few ways to go about it..if you really love her just pour your heart out and tell her you meant it when you said it would hurt if you fell in love with another guy. Tell her you understand people change, but you still love her. Tell her you want her back.

or, option 2..

2) Just drop her. If she's going to go behind your back and betray you like that, you could always just give up on her.

Personally, unless you're very young or this is your first girlfriend, you probably know how hard it is to find a girl you love. So, personally...I'd go with option 1. Don't let a girl like that go.

I'll check back here later on, but if you need me here's my MSN: [email protected]

Good luck
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Heartfelt words thank you

hummergun · Jan 10, 2011

Leave her , she is prolly tapping someone without any doubt(depends if she is 17+

your own good · Jan 11, 2011

Move on dude, find a real girl.

Hope everything works out for the best.

Lured Yah · Jan 11, 2011

you should try putting her out of your mind

Bear in a Rum Bottle · Jan 11, 2011

lured yah said: ↑

you should try putting her out of your mind
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Harder than it sounds bro.. Thanks though

YouKnowTheScore · Jan 14, 2011

Ditch her, 3 hours on Facetime to another guy, and possibly several others.

If she TOLD YOU that she was'nt assosiating herself with her ex's then shes lied, i know you would'nt tell her you went through her stuff but i would. Shes lied to you and you've hit the nail on the head and caught her out.