Weird Possible Relationship?

[Trinityy]

Hey guys, so yesterday I was doing my normal routine and I got a text from my ex that I haven't talked to for a good couple of weeks. She said she had a dream about me, and that the dream was me and her having sex and then apparently she had a kid etc, etc, etc. Anyways, why would she be dreaming about me in this way? She has a boyfriend already and idk why she would still be thinking about me like that. Anyways, I really have no clue what to do, she didn't say anything about going out again or anything.

Any comments or help is appreciated!,

Trinityy.

 

[Brenny]

I can't tell if your taking the piss or what, but obviously if she is dreaming about you then she is thinking about you. So maybe she wants you back. BUT make sure you wear a condom when you two fuck. Because if shes dreaming about having kids. Then maybe shes planning on having one!

 

How long were you two together?
After long relationships it's typical for her to think about you even a few week/months after you break up.
Personally I wouldn't get back with her, just text her back rejecting her, just say "oh". Then you can move on and friend a girl friend, not being her.

 

[Dimethyl]

I can't tell if your taking the piss or what, but obviously if she is dreaming about you then she is thinking about you.

This isn't true. Dreams are completely random. I've had people in my dreams that I haven't seen or thought about for years. Don't take what she said so seriously, because she most likely wasn't expecting you to. I would honestly just ignore it.

 

[Skizzed]

This isn't true. Dreams are completely random. I've had people in my dreams that I haven't seen or thought about for years. Don't take what she said so seriously, because she most likely wasn't expecting you to. I would honestly just ignore it.

I would say to take this advice. Although, if you do still like her... it may be a good oppourtunity. Since she is dating another guy right now, I suggest you keep what you say within reason.

 

[FishFishy]

Hmm. This is kind of a tricky one as it was just a dream, and that really doesn't really prove much. Basically what I'm trying to say is that just because she had a dream of you two having sex, doesn't exactly mean that she want's to have sex with you.

With that said, if she was having a dream about you then you know at least that she is probably thinking about you. Normally people have dreams about other people that they know when that person has been on their mind lately. Possibly this is her way of telling you that she still has feelings for you.

Finally I would say to just talk to her about the dream, and tell her your true feelings about her. It's possible that she has the same feelings for you aswell, but you will possibly never truly know unless you ask.

 

[wtp]

Ask what the mood of the dream was. How did she feel when the different things happened in her dream.

 

[Weasel2013]

It sounds to me like she wants you back..I'd look into how her current boyfriend treats her. A lot of people that go back to their ex's do so because their current partner isn't who they thought they were.

Question is though..do you want her back?

 

[R2Pleasent]

She obviously felt like the dream meant something to her. Now that she has a new boyfriend, she might be comparing him to you often, and feel like he doesn't stack up in some areas. Girls are very indecisive. They go back and forth on things like this and always second guess their decisions. The real question is do you want her back? Because unless she's some ultra manipulative biatch, this seems like her trying to regain your interest, or at least see if you still have feelings for her.

Just remember, she will probably be second guessing your hookup too, and is likely to go back to the boyfriend at some point (or someone else).