Ugh.... Need help please.

This is srs so don't troll please

My sister tried committing suicide last sept..

then this girl who I rly loved started cheating on me.

It was one of the more painful heartbreak things I've ever gone through, because I've never felt or been cheated on by someone I love.

Then I was given a chance to compete this september in a powerlifting competition .. I was like sure. I got sick for 2 weeks and the coach I had said nvm because I lost so much weight.

One morning I was sleeping in the living room downstairs because I passed out after being awake for 30+ hours because I was too sick and couldnt fall asleep. I got about 2-3 hours of sleep when I heard my mom yelling.
I kinda thought it was because of my sister, due to her being a jerk sometimes.

I run upstairs.. and it was just my two parents. My dad not looking me in the eye and my mom right off the bat says ''Your dad has been having an affair for 4 months!''

I was shocked, but I handled the situation very well.. got my mom to go to my room downstairs and kicked my dad out after he packed.

A few days they settled things and are still working it out..

We went to where all our family lives, cos were a close knit family and we meet every yr or two at my grandparents.

I turned 18 while I was over there.. so I couldnt party with my friends..
My dad took me for a few beers.. and tells me were moving there. About 10 hours away from where I live now.

I get back from the trip and my friends are all started college, high school again, or university.

Now the girl who destroyed me is liking me status' on facebook and stuff again.. which it took me over 2 months of 0 contact with her to just get slightly over her...


I'm just tired of everything srsly..
plus now my mom is using her anger out on me.. and I unno.. just tired of it all srsly...

 

If you got a friend you can trust with everything tell them have them help you stay at their place every now and then just to get away from everything another thing you can do i something relaxing such as fishing or camping. Just hang in there everything happens for a reason buddy Best of wishes to you.

 

Man don't you just hate it when you finally start getting over someone and they do something to make you like them back? Anyways. Sorry to hear all this man. I thought my life was rough, but you totally beat it. Since your sister hasn't done anything since last september, I don't think there's much to worry about her. As far as your parents and your dad's affair is concerned, you should leave it to your mom to decide what she wants to do about it. They are adults, they know what is best for them. And DO NOTTT take that girl back or start talking to her. From personal experience, I will say that once you start talking to her again, you will start liking her again, and before you know it, she will break your heart, once again. It will not be as "easy" as first one. Girls play you, they're taught to use their charms to get what they want and that is what they do best.

 

Thanks guys (L) It means a lot to me. I'll take your advice. I'm going to try and get through this.. thanks..

 

Hey man, keep your head up. Life tends to make sure everything that can go wrong does go wrong all at the same time. Things will turn out for the better for you in the long run. Just know in your heart you are a strong person, and when you do finally get through it you will be a stronger person.

 

Everyone has hard times in their life, and for you, I admit, it seems pretty bad..however, you must remain positive. In the long run, you're only hurting yourself by talking and thinking of these experiences. Stop thinking about how "bad" your life is and focus on the things which give you happiness. There must be atleast a few things which do. Remember this: "behind every cloud, there's a silver lining"; just hang in there, it'll all work out for you. Best of luck.
Please add my msn: [email protected], I'd love to speak with you more regarding this. Hopefully I could be of some help.

 

Thank you bud. I'll keep this in mind.. (l)

I added you. We will talk whenever we can get on at the same time... thanks.

 

Hey mate,
life can be a bitch sometimes, as the old saying goes.. everything happens for a reason
but in the future you will have the time of your life and you will wish that time will last forever. You will meet a wonderful gorgeous girl that you will spend your life with .

 

Hey, thanks man!
I really hope so
Thanks a lot again, great to know that people like you still exist. Best of luck for yourself !!