Too many too soon!!!

[MohtasaUnique]

So I've been having a dry spell since I broke up with my last girlfriend when she moved off for college. I haven't gotten any since then, and all of the sudden, I'm flirting hardcore with a chick friday, making out with another chick saturday, and spooning/making out/possible sex with another chick sunday at a party. One is really hot (Betty #1) and it's fun to flirt with, another is really freaky but I don't want anything serious with her (Betty #2), and the last; I've really wanted to be with for a while (Betty #3).

I find myself sabotaging all three relationships because I feel bad about hitting on just one out of the three. Betty #2 apparently fell madly in love with me after our makeout/fingering session, but I really didn't want anything else from her. Betty #1 is in a relationship with someone else (sort of) and she's really fun to talk to and flirt with, but I don't think she's really my type personality wise. Betty #3 is a completely different story. She's a really really good friend, and we both got drunk sunday and were all over each other, and I think I ended up sleeping with her. The worst part is, my other good friend likes her a lot, but she's not into him. Even in my drunken stupor I felt SUPER bad when he'd look our way and we were all over each other. I even found myself stepping away so that he didn't see. Anyway, that morning we woke up in the same bed anyway with hardly any clothes on. I don't want to ruin it, but I'm a nice person and I don't know how to tell everyone else it just can't happen. I don't know how to tell Betty #2 that I really don't want to take her out on dates. I narrowly avoided dinner and a movie tonight by inviting a party of people to go with us (it was pretty smooth on my part imo).

But I don't want to absolutely sabotage my relationships with anyone on the off chance that Betty #3 actually likes me, and wasn't just drunk and horny.


What do you think I should do?

 

[that tank kid]

Live it up while it's good, your not always going to be in fine form

 

[Kabal]

Unless you really like #3, just keeping seeing all of them. Nothing wrong with it, you're young, they know how it is.

Though #1 and #2 especially seem kinda crazy and you may want to avoid leading them on lol

 

Some people do this after a break up, it's normal.
I'd say just shag em all if I was a friend or something as that's what we guys are like, but to actually help you I'd say just get with the girl you like the most.

Keep the rest available in case it doesn't work out with you two though, choose one you're going to have sex with and try not to do it with the others.
If a girl ever finds out you've had sex with a girl on Friday, then a girl on Saturday and then her on Sunday she'll just think you are using her and she will ignore and probably tell the other girls leaving you in shit street as then you won't be able to get with any of their friends because you'll have grown a bad reputation. (unless you know they don't know other girls you know)

 

[MohtasaUnique]

I just had a thought in the shower today while analyzing my own personality and compatibility. I figured out that I can't be comfortable with dating people I hardly know. There's just not enough to talk about and I'm awkward if there's nothing to talk about. I'm comfortable with silence and I like to be by myself once in a while... but when there's other people, I feel compelled to entertain and when I can't I just lapse into non-responsiveness. I was having dinner with #2 last night-- and was DREADING it-- but then I invited a few friends, asked her if it was cool if we made our outing social thing with a few friends, and she was fine with it. It was 10x more comfortable because there were people there who I could keep a conversation going with.

Knowing this, I really want to try things out with #3 because I can actually keep comprehensive conversation going, we have inside jokes, we know each other pretty well, and we do a lot of activities together like camp counselor and youth and gov....

I'll let you know how it goes :x Our group is watching movies and floating the river tomorrow, so I might approach her then. I'm still worried about what #3's and my friend will think of it. I hope he doesn't get super offended and never talk to me again :/

 

Ah one of those guys are you, I used to be like that with new people, I'm not joking when I say this, but start being crazy, just do things you never normally would, that makes the girls ask you questions and you can use their questions to start conversations.
Or if you're not up for that just ask them questions and joke with them a lot.