To be completely honest I didn't even know the status of their relationship, if she said something along the lines of "oh we're doing good" I would've replied "oh" but this is how it went:
Me: Sophia r you still dating that one kid?
Her: Uhh idk were in a fight.. Why
Me: U know what'd piss him off? Go on a movie date with your friend Ray tomorrow
And that was all for shits and giggles, I didn't even expect her to say yeah since they've been dating for so long but whatever, it never happened anyways. And you're right, back when I was nervous and shy when it came to girls, they would always somehow like me, I don't know... But it seems now that as soon as I gain confidence and approach them in more of a "give me your phone number" (not in that exact way, but being confident in what i'm saying kind of way) that most girls nowadays actually don't, they just say no.
Now back in the day I would go around and hit on girls and be a little bitch about it and go "Hey I saw your from down over there and I thought you were really pretty you think I could get your phone number?" Expressing no confidence, but damn it would work... Oh well hah