I give up...

My Mother got Married, over 210 People where invited and I didn't.

 

Sorry to hear that Was there any particular reason? E.g. you had a bad fall out with each other and haven't spoken in 2 years, or could it have been a non-delivered letter or something?

 

Are you sure that maybe the invitation just failed to reach you for whatever reason (e.g A failed delivery in the mail.) or is it a definite that you were flat out not invited?
If it was for no reason (say your Mum didn't invite you for any reason) maybe you can confront her and tell her how that made you feel. Although it's kinda hard to tell why because it depends on the relationship with your Mum.

Shame to hear that though man

 

If you and your mother have been on good terms for your entire life and speak frequently then I'm sure that it was just an issue with the mailing.

However, if you had a falling out, then maybe you need to look at it from another perspective. If you left home, did something that upset her, haven't contacted her in a while, maybe she thinks you don't want to be a part of her life anymore.

Email, call, write to her. Get in contact and ask her why she didn't invite you. This is your mother, she raised you, you need to be able to talk to her no matter how bad/difficult it may seem.

Go into the conversation open minded, but don't expect anything. I won't lie/sugarcoat it, be prepared to maybe hear something you don't want to hear.

I'm sorry about what happened though, I hope all works out for you in the end.

 

You should confront your mother about the situation and ask her why she would fail to invite her own son to her wedding?

It sounds like there may be some sort of rift in your relationship with your mother, which would fully be worth repairing. A mother is a very special person, and you only get one, so don't let any more time slip away for you without starting to heal whatever it is that is happening between you two.

Also, until you confront your mother about it, you will never truly know why she did not invite you to her wedding. I am assuming that your mother just got re-married to another man and that your biological parents split up? Who knows, but maybe she declined to invite you because she thought it would be too hard/painful for you to attend a wedding where she is marrying another man than your father? Or maybe she just felt like she doesn't quite have your approval/blessing of this new man in her life. Whatever it is, you will never know until you talk to her.

 

Is it by accident or on purpose, you should definately ask that first (if you don't know it alread).
If you and your mother just have a bad relatisonship, and you wanna repair it, I'd suggest you send her a nice gift, and see if she responds.

 

You really need to ring her and ask what happened to yours, if you do get on with her then it must have been a problem with the mail. Did she ever talk to you about it before the date of the wedding about her plans for it. You should try get things sorted out between you guys, you only live once mate and you should try enjoy life while you can with the people you love. Not fall out with them, trust me once you get things sorted out with her you will feel so much better. Hope things get sorted between you guys, and if it was a mistake in the mail then it wasn't her fault.

 

I think the best way to handle this situation would be to confront the issue, simply ask her what the reason was for it, and if it was on accident or on purpose. Re-post if it was on purpose and we should be able to give further advice to help you out.

 

Dang man. Im sorry. Remember God has such a plan for you that you will forget about this soon. You may dislike your mother for awhile but you love her? Why on earth would she not invite her own son to her wedding? Another painful event to happiness.