sweaty hands?

[burny]

So I've always had sweaty hands and it has kind of always made me self concious..but I use drysol on special occaisons (which works wonders) and I met this really great girl and at homecoming when we held hands it was really sweaty. Like to the point that I didnt think it was me because the drysol really does work. Thing is, I really don't mind it if her hands are sweaty because I know what its like. But I feel like I should confront her in case it really is just me but I cant think of a delicate way to say something like that. Any suggestions?

Also please forgive my grammar and spelling I'm on my phone and in a hurry.

 

[Fantasy Factory]

Just sit her down and tell her about your sweaty hands. Don't mention anything about her maybe having sweaty hands, but if she says she does too, then boom done.

 

If she didn't say anything in the first place then I wouldn't bring it up, as she obviously doesn't mind

 

[I KO I]

If she her hands were only sweating during prom, it could be because she was nervous, the venue was hot which made her body temperature rise, thus making her sweat.

You might want to hold her hands again and see if her hands are sweating again. If not, then you know that it was her because she was nervous, heat, etc.

Plus, I feel as if this is such a small thing that doesn't really need to have a sit down conversation. You could just swing a bat, drop a football, something like that and mention how you hate it when your hands get sweaty. If her hands get sweaty, she'll agree, she could lie but you'll obviously know if she is lying based on the conversation.

 

[burny]

Yeah I was thinking how awkward that would be. I suppose I really don't need to mention it at all. I just thought I might address it with her if she thought it was gross or something.

 

[bluecheese]

maybe taking cocaine around her would help alot.

 

[burny]

Seems a bit overboard.

 

[rue]

Seems a bit overboard.

I agree to some extent, don't let your self-conscience wrap your confidence in grief. I have sweaty feet which is basically a different form of hyperhydrosis which basically what you have but with your hands. If you have the money to, you could always consider iontophoresis. Which in short is a procedure that uses electricity to temporarily turn off the sweat gland. It is most effective for sweating of the hands and feet. The hands or feet are placed into water, and then a gentle current of electricity is passed through it. The side effects are minimal too which is also an upside. Not sure if your insurance would consider this as cosmetic or if they would offer you a helping hand. Honestly, use what you're using and don't even bring it to her attention. Both of your main focuses are having a fun-filled night.

 

[burny]

I have actually already done this for a few dollars. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cc0pj2tf6_4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

For anyone interested this worked well for me but I endes up being too lazy to continue it.

This thread however is about how to approach this situation not how to cure my hands.

 

[Alesso]

So I've always had sweaty hands and it has kind of always made me self concious..but I use drysol on special occaisons (which works wonders) and I met this really great girl and at homecoming when we held hands it was really sweaty. Like to the point that I didnt think it was me because the drysol really does work. Thing is, I really don't mind it if her hands are sweaty because I know what its like. But I feel like I should confront her in case it really is just me but I cant think of a delicate way to say something like that. Any suggestions?

Also please forgive my grammar and spelling I'm on my phone and in a hurry.

Weird, I think my GF is using Acutane (acne/pimple medicine that drastically dries skin) and I have already finished my 9 month time on it. I've always considered bringing it up to her, but since she doesn't say anything, I don't either.

Don't get me wrong, her face looks great, but I've noticed dry spots and feel that she is going through what I went through.

 

[burny]

Weird, I think my GF is using Acutane (acne/pimple medicine that drastically dries skin) and I have already finished my 9 month time on it. I've always considered bringing it up to her, but since she doesn't say anything, I don't either.

Don't get me wrong, her face looks great, but I've noticed dry spots and feel that she is going through what I went through.

I've actually been in that exact situation. Its like hey we both are always putting on chapstick and drinking water...