Should I leave her alone?

Bulk up eat some protein bars and protein shakes build some muscle and then if he decides to come after you whoop his ass =)

 

Listen mate: I suggest you tell this girl you need to talk to her privately and it's something serious. If you're any important to her, she will come and listen to you. Once you 2 meet up tell her the matter ( it may be hard but worth it ), and simply from her response you should know whether your efforts are worth it. Best of luck to you.

 

I guess I'll just let her go then. Thanks all, besides those few people that suggested retarded things.

 

kick the boyfriend in!

 

I sometimes wonder if you guys even read the thread first. I've said that the boyfriend will surely beat me in a fight. No way in hell would I win it.

 

You can't give up so soon, keep on at it. Just talk to her and give her advice and tell her how she deserves someone better if she brings him up. When she dumps him and then you move in. You need to decide is this girl worth a beating if so, go for it

 

Why would you fight him anyways. That's useless

If he threatens you, then yes fight cheap and you'll win. Kick his fucking face in after you pepper sprayed him to the ground.

As for the girl, if she doesn't want you leave her alone. You're just going to annoy her or she's just going to turn you into her emotional tampon and you're not gonna fuck it period, you'll just be stuck when she feels better and she couldn't careless if you felt bad.

 

You think him beating you up, one of his girlfriends close friends, will contribute to their relationship? Fuck no. Shes going to realise how much of a dick he is, and dump him.

Sometimes a sacrifice is required for great gain.

 

Probably not. Which is why he just glares at me every chance he gets. His girlfriend probably threatened to dump him. >_<

She did say something about that yesterday.

 

Necro i'll go back to my OP. You are best of just standing up for your feelings, and not letting the bully decide how you live your life. Pain will go away, feelings don't. I'd talk to her about it (when he isn't around) and then if he honestly want's to fight you, make sure she is around. Look at her before / after he "trys" to fight you, and then she will know you took the beating to still talk to her, showing you are dedicated and one of the great guys in her life.

OP: Don't let the bully win. You deserve to have her, if what you are saying is true.

 

LOL at this ^^^

On Topic, well first of all, do you know how to fight? It doesnt really matter who is stronger just depends if your fast enough and accurate enough to hit in the right spot and knock him out... If you think she is worth it go for it, if not dont even bother.

 

Yeah I'm a blue belt at taekwondo. Not that good, but I've knocked people down and they stay down. But this guy is big. And when I say big, I mean BIG.

 

The bigger they are the harder they fall.

Quite truthfully, you could try talking too the guy if your up for it. Tell him why hes bad for her, and why you would make her so much more happy. His reaction to that, would say if he actually cares for her or not.

Or that could just get you whacked in the face.

 

As what they said above: Pain goes away, feelings don't.

Go for her and that's it.

 

Don't let people walk all over you. The way I see it, everyone has to take a beating some time. It all would work out for you in the end (besides getting beat down and all). Sure you'd be roughed up, but you'd get the girl in the end.

EDIT: You'll end up regretting it at some point in your life if you don't

 

Trust me... They can be the biggest motherfuckers out there.... but just punch in the right spot and they are out cold... ive seen it before...

 

option 1. Just be her friend/ impress her. eventually, she'll prolly dump that loser bf of hers. then make your move.[you have no balls way.(most ppl take a road similar to this)]

option 2. tell her how you feel. see what happens.if she likes you, great. if not, at least you tried.[damn, you got some balls kid.]

 

well first u gotta know if she will want u or not and then u gotta stand up for who you are and if u cant beat him then use weapons pepper spray baseball bats and steel toe boots to the crotch work absolutely great

 

And get stripped of my badge, suspended/expelled from school and sent to the police station? No thanks.

 

I suggest getting her to like you, and not forcing her to dump him, but get her to dump him. Then secretively go out with her, until the other guy gets a girlfriend, then he wont give a shit, honestly. Dont be afraid of him, really. Im 15, 6"2 and am pretty big myself, but im a softy, i dont like hurting people, but if its to help someone. I will do it. Just try what i said. )