Sex....

Many don't like addressing the subject so, here's what I have to say

I have had sex five times, at fifteen is this the right or wrong amount? too little or too much?
Twice with my girlfriend of a year, we started within the last week of our relationship.

Three other random hookups..

I personally think I relieve stress with it.
But I also think it fucks up relationships..

What are your opinions on the subject?

 

What ever you do, use protection. It's seriously not worth the stress if you aren't ready to support a child.

 

I see no problem at all with sex, just be safe and use protection. You don't want a disease just because you felt horny, and you certainly don't want a child until you're prepared for one.

 

Sex is something you shouldnt rush at early age. Even some people thinks its something to bragg about, its not. It doesnt make you more manly if youve had sex at early age. Of course its important part of relationship, but i dont think its something you should rush into, make sure you and your girlfriend are ready for it, and that you both want it.

Id say 5 times at the age of 15 is above average, not many people have sex at that early age. Protection is always priority #1, even if the girl is using birth control.

Also, I highly suggest using common sence when it comes to sex-related things. Safety first!

 

Sex is natural, lust in teenagers is natural, it is perfectly natural for you not to just want to have sex but to in fact have it.

The fact that you have a girlfriend and are hooking up with other girls is between you and her. Also with sex messing up relationships, it can, however it depends what type of person you are; you could be a player, or a one girl man if you like.

However to your question yourself is it abnormal, it is not abnormal at all. However there is no normal amount of times to of had sex so it is not too much or too little, the answer is it is just normal to have sex.

 

It's do want to do it, I know people my age that have never done it, and people that do it every weekend. How much is enough, is totally up to you.

 

I can't have a real opinion here being 16 and still virgin, but I'd also like to read more replies as the subject fits one of my many topics I'd like to know more about.

 

In this day and age people day what they want, not what instructed. Whatever choice you make, sec or not, always remember to wrap it. Second thing, if oyu are drunk go masturbate before you have sex with a person, because chances are they are not someone you would want to associate with.

 

I didn't get the part of masturbating before sex while being wrong?

Mind explaining please

 

What he was referring to was that once you cum from masturbation, you'll no longer wish to have sex. This implies that masturbation can prevent you from making stupid mistakes while horny.

 

Thanks for the clarification, but I think if you are too drunk you won't remember to masturbate...

 

haha got that right

 

i completely agree with most of what people say here. i lost my virginity as 16 to some random as ho and i kinda regret it because i only did it because my friends were all pressuring me. I however didnt learn from that and stayed with my friends and continued to have almost meaningless sex untill i was about 18 and found myself a real girlfriend. since then i have only had sex with her and im happy with that.

Now about masturbation aspect of this conversation. I 100% suggest stroking it before you gonna have sex with a random girl as i know there has been a few times where i get so horny i just wanna do it with almost any hot girl(while i am going out with mine) the simple answer is this though. ask yourself after you stroke it "Do i even find her remotely attractive right/wanna be with her now or could i not give 2 shits about her?" most of the time is the 2nd answer and you just saved a relationship/risk of STD

 

Sex is just something that happens if both parties our happy I don't see any problem with it at any age 13+

 

I agree with;
- use protection
- try to use your brain and not your dick when drinking
- careful who you hook up with, girls really are gossips,
- everyone is different, so how much you do is up to you

I will say this, from a female's POV;
Don't brag to girls, especially girls your age, about the hook ups you have had.
Some girls find the 'confidence' attractive, most will find it intimidating, especially if you're chasing a relationship. They're going to think it's all you want, and they could feel pressured into doing it... nuf said.

So I say do what you gotta do, just choose wisely who you talk to about it.

 

There is no problem with having sex, but keep it personal and be careful. I had a pregnancy scare at 17, and it tore my family apart. Definitely recommend using protection always.