Relationship

Well;
quick things about me...
I'm 17 and I ehm, have never had a girlfriend yet.

I have had many very good friends who were girls, but for some reason, I was always a pussy to take myself further to telling them I like them, et cetera; Now - What is there to do?

Another question...

I met someone at let's just call it 'work' - The girl seemed very nice and all, but I didn't really have the chance to talk to her - I was also in a very angered state of mind when I met her - Would it be a wise move to add that person on fb and possibly start talking to them, or should I just fuck it?


Also there is this other girl I have feelings for, but I know for a fact she has never been in a relationship before, but I feel that this is because she doesn't want one - Why could that be? (I doubt her being lesbian, so please don't suggest that). Many people have tried with her - with 100% denial rate. I am in a good relationship with her, but seeing how harshly she rejected being called out before, I don't think I want to.


Thanks for taking the time to read, I'd appriciate an answer to either of the questoins.
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For the first question, the only thing to do, really, is to balls up and talk to the girls like you want to. If you want a relationship, get one!

For the second, you should talk to her more in person, before you FB stalk her.

 

The first option - yeah might as well.

Second option - no real opportunity to talk with her anymore (can't explain why)

 

Well, then go for it. What's the worst that can happen?

 

There is nothing wrong with being shy, some girls like shy guys.
But really if you want to get a girl faster you will have to be more forward and just try it out, it's better try and fail than fail to try.

Yes I'd say add her, there is no harm done in a facebook add.

You are assuming the worst, have you ever thought that she thinks the same way as you and she is just shy? Try it with her, if she reject you, you can always pretend you were joking or something.

 

First of all, if you're gonna keep on being a pussy, you'll NEVER get a girl. Don't be afraid of getting rejected, it's not the end of the world.

Second of all, you never get the chance to talk to that girl, wouldn't it be sort of awkward to add her? But then again, she is from your work so why not add her?

And third of all, the girl that doesn't want to be in a relationship, maybe it's cause she has others things to focus on in life. Or maybe because she's not ready because relationships cause a lot of pain. Just continue being good friends with her and eventually tell her that you have feelings for her. And since you're friends with her she wouldn't reject you harshly.

Hope this helps.

 

never drop from the girl u like to go out with, in worst case she will jsut say no right?

 

Worst case scenario: She thinks you're a creeper?

Oh well. One girl. Fuck her.

Best case: Whatever you want.

 

In regards to the second girl, it may be that she has had a bad experience before with boyfriends, or even been sexually abused (do you know if this is possible? They can be guarded if this is the case). You need to talk to her more and let her know you're interested in her for all the right reasons.

 

Its kind of like jumping in cold water for the first time, you got to give yourself that little push to get in.

 

Heres a reply to all your questions.. You win some, you lose some... Give it a chance and possibly her parents might not let her date and or she doesn't want to date until she graduates? Hope I helped