Thanks for your feedback Shredderbeam. You have an agile mind. However, I respectfully submit that you are perhaps unjustifiably laboring under an anthropomorphic view of God. This is noted in your use of a gender pronoun reference to God (though you cleverly used she: I'm impressed!), but in fairness, that is trivial. I'll come back to this in a moment.
I like the fact that my question, "Would you agree that God is not a parent who loves us unconditionally and who will forgive us no matter how much we screw up?" was provocative for you. How
could there be evidence to support that view? I think we cannot know for sure, but the concept of eternal damnation for the wicked certainly seems to come close to "supporting evidence" (if you believe in that sort of thing). At least I can reference The Bible here, though I won't quote you chapter and verse.
Hmmm, were you talking about a god other than Allah? Do you have better access to the thoughs of another god? A Hindu god perhaps? Krishna? A rose by any other name?

What did you mean by this?
When I wrote, "...our human notions of right and wrong might not jive with God's concerns.", I did not mean to suggest that our human notions are trivial, unimportant, or wrong; merely that it is difficult to equate human notions to God's, or to assume that they are analagous. When you wrote "They might not, but the fact that somebody more powerful than us disagrees does not put us in the wrong", it made me suspect that your view of God is anthropomorphic. How can one have a disagreement with God? Doesn't disagreement imply a lack of ability to fully understand, appreciate and have compassion for another person's point of view? I submit that if you had full understanding, appreciation and compassion for another person's point of view, you would not "disagree" with them in the usual sense of the word. You might think that they are making the wrong choice, or that they are not seeing matters clearly, but you would also appreciate that they are making the best choice they can given their present understanding and development. Thus, your acceptance of their view or choice would outweigh your feelings of disagreement.
You ask if God always grants the sort of requests that I mentioned. My answer is YES - to the extent that I truly want such requests to be granted. If there is a failing here, it is my own.
I just don't understand your reasoning when you replied "Then God, as most people conceive of her, does not exist." Why do you say that?