Question about girl...

So this girl that I barely knew like 3 years ago keeps messaging me after I liked one of her pictures. She goes to a different school now, not too far from mine and she's not that pretty. I was nice to her because she kept saying "I'm so ugly". Made her feel better now she won't quit messaging me. Any possible way I can get her to quit messaging me without hurting her feelings? If there's probably no possible way to get her to quit messaging me without hurting her feelings what should I do? (Btw I'm using Facebook to message her)

 

Maybe ease off on the replying to her? Just give it space and delay your time in responding to this girl. Sometimes if you just take the time to be a little more bland in your responses she might catch the hint.

 

Thanks Drento really appreciate the advice.

 

This is good advice.

Try to avoid being rude, and dont say anything thats an open ended statement

 

You don't want to talk to her because she's not pretty? What?

 

I don't get that either. Can't you just be her friend? Is her personality shitty or something?

 

With Drento on this one - keep responses very late, and one liners showing lack of interest. Eventually she will give up...or will she?

 

Drento on top with that comment.

She will get the picture sooner or later once you follow Drento's advice.

 

Just don't talk to her if you don't want to. It's not that complicated...

 

Life is more about judging people, she might not be your type but she could be your next best friend, you never know. Id personally just keep talking to her but do not lead her on

 

If she isn't a bad person just make a friendship with her. Just because she is messaging you doesn't mean that she is looking for something more than just friends. Also if your main motive for not talking to her is because she isn't pretty than that's really crappy on your part to be honest. If you're not looking for something and she isn't pushing it than just be friends. Nothing wrong with being friends with the opposite sex.

 

Just act like a racist bigot and she'll be likely to leave you alone. And then possibly tell everyone you're a racist bigot. I'm not really sure how you should handle this. Maybe go on a mates Facebook account and like some of her pictures, that way she'll bother him and not you.

 

Best way is to keep it short and simple... don't start conversation with her first , answer as short as you can without starting a conversation, wait a while to reply and she won't talk to your anymore eventually...

100 % working....

Personally i would just flipp her off, better hurt her sooner, than later when it hurts alot more

 

Are you twelve? Your answer to solving a woman problem is to flip her off? Where is the logic in that at all?

 

i agree with the others, just give stale answers, girls will get the hint lol

 

But if she was pretty, you wouldn't make this thread.

OP, just be a friend of her. Just because she keeps on messaging you, she's not trying to be your boyfriend or whatever, who knows? Not all girls are the same.

 

Just take a break from facebook or when you are online put the "offline", just tell her that you see her as nothing more than just a friend. She would rather want the truth i suppose. There is also one last complicated option which i do not suggest at all which is to say that you are gay lol. (if you do lie you are gay she will hate you for the rest of her life when she figures out you lied)

 

I was in the similar situation as you and I told her that I don't want a relationship but we can be friends and she accepted that.

 

Just tell her "maybe you misunderstood something else but i just want to be friends with you " or something like that

 

Yeah just chill and ask to be friends.