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SlaveOfTheBeast said:
I'm paranoid about death/god/science.
Basically just consumed and afraid, trying to know everything. I want to just stop thinking about it but i can't. Advice?
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Find a nice quiet spot and sit down and think. Cut the whole death thing out of the picture. Just think about your life. Think about what you plan on doing with it. Think of what you want to do with your life, not how its going to end. Think about all the things you want to achieve/do and just anything like that. Everyone thinks about that same question sooner or later during their lifetime.

When you go to an amusment park, do you think of how its going to end? Or do you think of all the wonderful things your going to do during your time there? Same goes for life. Enjoy it.
 
Ultralomaniac said:
here's my problem:

i am moving at the end of july to nevada [specifically, las vegas]

i am dating a girl right now and we love each other both very much. i myself love her more than anything.
i am not one to look to the future, so until the week of my move, i will be fine, but that week i am likely to have a complete breakdown. of course, only idiots would do anything like a long-distance relationship, and we both know that we're gonna have to cut it off :(
i'm trying to spend as much time with her as i can until then... but i am still probably gonna be all sad and stuff for like the first week i'm in nevada [a week is not a lot, but i get over things fast]

i'm not really asking what i should do,... but this IS a support topic
i would like to be supported :(
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should i fuck her?
 
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Ultralomaniac said:
I do respect them. I have loads of respect for my girlfriend. But i'm serious,... should i have sex with her?
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Then say it nicer, well if you want too its your choice... I mean it isn't upto us to tell you talk to her and just wait and see how it goes and i know it sounds corny but wait for the right time... To agirl it can mean a hell of a lot for it to be at the right moment, both pleasure wise and emotionally.

Monsier Noob said:
so is this thread for asking questions about being desperate for something?
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No jackass people can use it for their own things, if you aren't going to be constructive then don't bother posting in the something for all section.
 
Ultralomaniac said:
I do respect them. I have loads of respect for my girlfriend. But i'm serious,... should i have sex with her?
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First off, this isn't your choice.

Second off, show some respect, she isn't your object and this isn't a question that you should be asking.
 
Well, my problem isnt quite as sad as these other peoples, because im young and cautous, and have been in richass private school all my life. My problem isnt really a problem but i just kind of would like an outside opinion on this very touchy topic.
Well to start it off, for the last 6 months, ive liked this girl, alot. Finally after 6 months, my friend finally found out who she liked, and luckily it was me, so after telling eachother how we felt, we decided to start going out. Remember im only 14 years old, shes only 13 (soon to be 14) and were both going to be freshmen next year. Unfortunately im going to a new school, not really moving we will still live decently close, but that isnt really the problem. Shes out of town alot during this summer, and i really like to see her and just be around her, because i feel really comfortable with her around me, and i hope she feels the same way, but there is only one obstical to being with her when she IS in town this summer. The problem many private school relationships face, the girl's very over protective mother. I mean her mom likes me alot and i dont really mind her, but her mom doesnt even like it when me and her daughter hang out together. Weve only been together for a little over a week, but it seems like weve been together for months because we were really close before it was official last wednesday. And my problem one is her mom is a very touchy topic, and i know i can have my girlfriend talk to her if need be or even i could talk to her, so got any suggestions on how to help with her mom?
My other problem is a little pathetic on my part, but it needs to be dealt with lol. Im 14, gonna be 15 in november, im very cautous, and this has heald me back in the past in this way, and if you have read the first paragraph you may know what im going to say. I havent kissed a girl yet, i know, call me pathetic its okay i know i am, but more cautous then pathetic, just waiting for the right person. I think ive found the person i want it to be with, but if you read the second paragraph you know her mom is very overprotective, and since its been official shes been out of town, and we havent had a chance to hang out as a couple yet. I dont want to rush it, but how long should it be before we, well you know, kiss?
I know this is very un-manly to ask a runescape based cheat site, but i need to ask someone =) so please help me out, im open to any suggestion from anyone, ill check this frequently
-Pizzle
 
Pizzle. said:
My other problem is a little pathetic on my part, but it needs to be dealt with lol. Im 14, gonna be 15 in november, im very cautous, and this has heald me back in the past in this way, and if you have read the first paragraph you may know what im going to say. I havent kissed a girl yet, i know, call me pathetic its okay i know i am, but more cautous then pathetic, just waiting for the right person. I think ive found the person i want it to be with, but if you read the second paragraph you know her mom is very overprotective, and since its been official shes been out of town, and we havent had a chance to hang out as a couple yet. I dont want to rush it, but how long should it be before we, well you know, kiss?
I know this is very un-manly to ask a runescape based cheat site, but i need to ask someone =) so please help me out, im open to any suggestion from anyone, ill check this frequently
-Pizzle
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Whenever you think the time is right. Don't do something if your not comfortable doing it. Just wait for the right moment.

Btw, it's not "un-manly" to ask for questions. Infact it takes more of a man to speak up and ask for help.
 
Shawn_ said:
First off, this isn't your choice.

Second off, show some respect, she isn't your object and this isn't a question that you should be asking.
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actually, it kind of is.
we've been getting a lot closer, and i am thinking it is very possible it could happen.
but i am still unsure if i really want to



Pizzle. said:
Well, my problem isnt quite as sad as these other peoples, because im young and cautous, and have been in richass private school all my life. My problem isnt really a problem but i just kind of would like an outside opinion on this very touchy topic.
Well to start it off, for the last 6 months, ive liked this girl, alot. Finally after 6 months, my friend finally found out who she liked, and luckily it was me, so after telling eachother how we felt, we decided to start going out. Remember im only 14 years old, shes only 13 (soon to be 14) and were both going to be freshmen next year. Unfortunately im going to a new school, not really moving we will still live decently close, but that isnt really the problem. Shes out of town alot during this summer, and i really like to see her and just be around her, because i feel really comfortable with her around me, and i hope she feels the same way, but there is only one obstical to being with her when she IS in town this summer. The problem many private school relationships face, the girl's very over protective mother. I mean her mom likes me alot and i dont really mind her, but her mom doesnt even like it when me and her daughter hang out together. Weve only been together for a little over a week, but it seems like weve been together for months because we were really close before it was official last wednesday. And my problem one is her mom is a very touchy topic, and i know i can have my girlfriend talk to her if need be or even i could talk to her, so got any suggestions on how to help with her mom?
My other problem is a little pathetic on my part, but it needs to be dealt with lol. Im 14, gonna be 15 in november, im very cautous, and this has heald me back in the past in this way, and if you have read the first paragraph you may know what im going to say. I havent kissed a girl yet, i know, call me pathetic its okay i know i am, but more cautous then pathetic, just waiting for the right person. I think ive found the person i want it to be with, but if you read the second paragraph you know her mom is very overprotective, and since its been official shes been out of town, and we havent had a chance to hang out as a couple yet. I dont want to rush it, but how long should it be before we, well you know, kiss?
I know this is very un-manly to ask a runescape based cheat site, but i need to ask someone =) so please help me out, im open to any suggestion from anyone, ill check this frequently
-Pizzle
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for part one:
i would suggest that whenever she is IN-town, you should make plans not to be at your house or her house, but somewhere else. this way, she doesn't have to directly ask her mother "can i go to my bf's house?"
it's good that her mom likes you, but theres nothing you can do about her being over-protective. one of my ex's parents were like that, and i kept this in mind at all times- "out of sight, out of mind"
if she doesn't see you with her, she won't be as worried.
as for the 2nd part...

i myself had never kissed a girl until 1 month prior to turning 15. which was right around this time last year
you just have to try to be with her whenever possible, start holding her hand, if you don't already.
... try cuddling :P
no i'm serious.
the closer you two get, the more close you two will want to get [emotionally AND physically]
well, i hope i helped!

Sparq said:
Whenever you think the time is right. Don't do something if your not comfortable doing it. Just wait for the right moment.

Btw, it's not "un-manly" to ask for questions. Infact it takes more of a man to speak up and ask for help.
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yeah pizzle, you've got real balls asking us for help :p
BTW, i don't play RS anymore. a lot of the people in general discussion and something for all do not play it either.
 
Pizzle. said:
Well, my problem isnt quite as sad as these other peoples, because im young and cautous, and have been in richass private school all my life. My problem isnt really a problem but i just kind of would like an outside opinion on this very touchy topic.
Well to start it off, for the last 6 months, ive liked this girl, alot. Finally after 6 months, my friend finally found out who she liked, and luckily it was me, so after telling eachother how we felt, we decided to start going out. Remember im only 14 years old, shes only 13 (soon to be 14) and were both going to be freshmen next year. Unfortunately im going to a new school, not really moving we will still live decently close, but that isnt really the problem. Shes out of town alot during this summer, and i really like to see her and just be around her, because i feel really comfortable with her around me, and i hope she feels the same way, but there is only one obstical to being with her when she IS in town this summer. The problem many private school relationships face, the girl's very over protective mother. I mean her mom likes me alot and i dont really mind her, but her mom doesnt even like it when me and her daughter hang out together. Weve only been together for a little over a week, but it seems like weve been together for months because we were really close before it was official last wednesday. And my problem one is her mom is a very touchy topic, and i know i can have my girlfriend talk to her if need be or even i could talk to her, so got any suggestions on how to help with her mom?
My other problem is a little pathetic on my part, but it needs to be dealt with lol. Im 14, gonna be 15 in november, im very cautous, and this has heald me back in the past in this way, and if you have read the first paragraph you may know what im going to say. I havent kissed a girl yet, i know, call me pathetic its okay i know i am, but more cautous then pathetic, just waiting for the right person. I think ive found the person i want it to be with, but if you read the second paragraph you know her mom is very overprotective, and since its been official shes been out of town, and we havent had a chance to hang out as a couple yet. I dont want to rush it, but how long should it be before we, well you know, kiss?
I know this is very un-manly to ask a runescape based cheat site, but i need to ask someone =) so please help me out, im open to any suggestion from anyone, ill check this frequently
-Pizzle
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It's probably one of her first relationships aswell, and that is why her mother is overprotective. Mind you you've only been offically "seeing her" for over a week so her mother has every right to still be over protective. If she likes you your already one step ahead, and her mother will warm up in due time. In the meantime, don't be in a very public relationship in front of her mother to show her respect.

About the kissing part, it really doesn't matter, it can happen the first "date" or it can take a while, but you'll remember your first kiss for the rest of your life. Don't feel bad at all that you haven't kissed a girl and you're turning 15 it really doesn't matter if you do earlier or later.


It takes a lot more balls to ask a question than it does to sit quiet and suck up your problems. No one is perfect, and everyone is gonna have to face things that they have no experiance multiple times in thier life. Don't be discuraged from asking question about anything because there is someone eon this forum that either has the experiance, or can do some research for you and give you a proper answer.
 
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Pizzle, the best way to get through an overprotective mother is to actually SHOW her how good of a person you are (whether you are or not) try having civilized adult conversations with her... Figure out their religion and other things just find out things you can talk about OR do for the girl to show the mother that you are a good trustworthy person.

As for the kiss.. Hang out a bit first. If its your first kiss you want it to be great... So just hang out with her... watch a few movies or something... goto the beach or pool or W/E you have... Then one day the two of you will hug or something and i dunno it just seems to happen... As corny as it sounds you WILL know its the right time when it comes.
 
kingnick0694 said:
Hey, well, I have a minor dilemma here... One of my brothers started his first year of college this year, and he is living in an apartment... I was sad when he left, but I still have another brother so it isn't that bad... My older brother went through college living at home, but now he is going to dental school, so next week he is moving into a condo.. My mom and dad both work, but it's not like i never see them or anything. But still, I'm sad that i have no one else in my house... My brothers were awesome, and I always feel much more comfortable at home when they're here... but now I just feel lonely. Sure, I have my friends, but I'm not with them all the time.... Any advice on how to stop the loneliness and feel better?
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Theres not much you can do really....Your going to have to find a good friend that you can hang out with, but you could always try to move in with someone else, it would make it a little less money, but keep in mind people aren't always good roommates.
 
lol! ok so every sunday my whole family goes to church, well this morning we were supposed to go at 8, well me and my bro decieded he would take us later (we didnt go but thats not the point, hes 17 im 13) any way on the way back we were talkin bout how my dad let him have his old 400hp cadilac sts, and he goes: "im not gona lie but this thing can giddy up and go" so he dieceds to show me about 2 miles before our house, so he floors it and passes the truck in front of us at 98 miles per hour while theres a car coming head on and we pass back into our lane and barly miss it ect, anyways we pull into our driveway and see the truck we passed pull into our neighbor hood and park one house down... we live in a super strict gated community with cameras and all...were gona get in so much trouble. Were wondering what to do, dhould we deny it or what? or what should we say...i need help! btw he hasnt called yet it happend today, but no matter what he will i know..do we tell my parents first? or lie? or what...
 
the_wippit said:
lol! ok so every sunday my whole family goes to church, well this morning we were supposed to go at 8, well me and my bro decieded he would take us later (we didnt go but thats not the point, hes 17 im 13) any way on the way back we were talkin bout how my dad let him have his old 400hp cadilac sts, and he goes: "im not gona lie but this thing can giddy up and go" so he dieceds to show me about 2 miles before our house, so he floors it and passes the truck in front of us at 98 miles per hour while theres a car coming head on and we pass back into our lane and barly miss it ect, anyways we pull into our driveway and see the truck we passed pull into our neighbor hood and park one house down... we live in a super strict gated community with cameras and all...were gona get in so much trouble. Were wondering what to do, dhould we deny it or what? or what should we say...i need help! btw he hasnt called yet it happend today, but no matter what he will i know..do we tell my parents first? or lie? or what...
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Hmm... That's a mess... If your confident that he'll tell your parents you should probably tell them, but make sure you talk to your brother first. I'd wait to see if he'd call as he probably wouldn't...

If he does call, don't deny it, it wont help.
 
Shawn_ said:
Theres not much you can do really....Your going to have to find a good friend that you can hang out with, but you could always try to move in with someone else, it would make it a little less money, but keep in mind people aren't always good roommates.
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Lol I'm 14 :p And I have a lot of friends, but i can't be with them/talk online 24/7... i guess i'm just not used to being an 'only child'
 
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