Personal Problem

[~*~Ryan~*~]

OK well Im 14, My gf is 16, turning 17 in December. We started doing stuff.. and she called me today and siad she wnated to talk to em about something, and she told me she had talked to her long time friend (who has been pregnant before) and she said she might be because she wasnt feeling good and stuff, but its not ehr time of the month until later this month.. so im hoping she has it. BUT if she doesnt, and then she does the tests and finds out she is, How should I go about telling my parents lol, Without them killing me

 

[.Shocka]

Pee in her butt followed by a barrel roll.

 

[Shredderbeam]

Just tell them that you need to talk to them about something important, and just tell them that your girlfriend thinks that she's pregnant. If they're capable of any human feeling, your parents will support you.

 

[kingpin]

you know hes 14 right? man... your fucked no lie.

 

[~*~Ryan~*~]

Just tell them that you need to talk to them about something important, and just tell them that your girlfriend thinks that she's pregnant. If they're capable of any human feeling, your parents will support you.

Meh idk, they are gonna be hella mad

 

[kingpin]

But she probably aint pregnant because my gf was goin through the same shit and it was something bout her period being late i dunno but just wait till she gets checked out.

 

[Shredderbeam]

They may be mad, but they are your parents and should respond with love and support. If they refuse to support you, go to your other family members. Failing that, go to some form of government assistance.

 

[~*~Ryan~*~]

yea king, my gf had like 2 in the same month, she said its been all otta whack, so maybe could that be why she feelin bad and stuff?

 

[dpunk]

Well you probably should have packaged your meat, but since you didn't ( or at least I'm guessing you didn't since this is happening) let's just skip the whole guilt-trip and get straight to the helping. If she is pregnant, I would fine out how far along she is, and talk to your parents and her about what to do. You parents will probably want to kill you, but in the end they will help you out. Depending on her and your own moral standards, abortion could be a solution if you don't think you can raise the kid. Adoption would also be a solution to that, but it could have physical side effects on her such as stretch marks and other things that happen during maternity. I would advise against keeping the baby due to your ages.

 

[~*~Ryan~*~]

They may be mad, but they are your parents and should respond with love and support. If they refuse to support you, go to your other family members. Failing that, go to some form of government assistance.

Gotta remember im 14..

 

[SlaveOfTheBeast]

Even if she wanted to have sex, it's still considered rape to the police. Honestly if she is pregnant you are fucked.
The typical punishment for statutory rape is to serve jail time. While states list penalties as being anywhere from four to thirty years, a good lawyer can generally bargain down from the initial offer made by the courts. Of course, the younger you are the less likely you are to have a good lawyer

 

[dpunk]

Even if she wanted to have sex, it's still considered rape to the police. Honestly if she is pregnant you are fucked.

Well that depends on the state. Some states have the age of consent set younger than 16. I think there were a few states that had it at 14 and 15, but I could be wrong.

 

[~*~Ryan~*~]

Well idk king has a point about his gf, cuz her period has been all whack

 

[SlaveOfTheBeast]

Well idk king has a point about his gf, cuz her period has been all whack

If she doesn't have her period, she's pregnant. But remember you might be going to jail too. Her being pregnant is just the start.

 

[kingpin]

That could be the problem but my gf is pregnant and im quitting sythe for a while to take care of my daughter when shes born if your girlfriend is pregnant it will be a hard decision but you would have to give her away...at 14 i don't think u can take care of a kid im only 17 and i gotta quit school for this

 

[SlaveOfTheBeast]

Also, nice job using a condom!

 

[~*~Ryan~*~]

Well im waiting until the end of the month to find out, and out of all honesty, i didnt really have a choice, she just started and yea.

 

[kingpin]

D punk how can you think like that abortion is wrong, you give the child to an adoption centre.

 

[SlaveOfTheBeast]

Well im waiting until the end of the month to find out, and out of all honesty, i didnt really have a choice, she just started and yea.

Yeah, you could have told her to stop. If you have an abortion because of this, you should be ashamed, your killing someone because you couldn't wear a condom. Nice job.

 

[~*~Ryan~*~]

King you seem to be the best response to this so far lol, what do you think, be honest, cuz for the past 2 months she has had her period all whacked out and stuff, and we just did this like week and half ago... and her next should be at the end of this month sometime, what do you think? She said she was just feelin sick or with ehr stomach, but i was recently sick with fever, so mayeb she could have got what i got?