Oh Em Gee Lolwut? Advice pl0x?

[Glyder]

So I am all past that crud with those other women.

And I hear this girl I have known for a while likes me, and I like her too..
BUT She doesn't want to date just yet, she wants to get to know me better as friends.

Any ideas how I can "speed up" per-say the getting to know her? Like I already know the basics that I gotta actually talk to her, text her, hang with her, etc, but anything else?

Or just simple guy advice or even other women can chime in?​

 

Take her out to the movies? Go out with other friends?

Invite her to a party? Honestly, there are so many options, but don't rush things if she doesn't want to be rushed.

 

[Glyder]

Oh I know I don't want to rush her, I am just saying what are some ideas that are good to get to know someone and get closer, without "rushing" like you said.

 

Like I suggested, do things people do at your age. Take her out to the movies or go hang out at the mall with a couple of other friends. It's very simple you just have to give it time

 

[Glyder]

Yeah your right, hmm, what do today's typical 16 year old in Hawaii do..... lol

 

Take her out to the beach!

 

[Glyder]

Exactly! I can teach her to surf ehh?

 

You don't have to. You both can just walk alongside the beach and that way you can tell her how you feel about her, plus it's a romantic setting to be in

 

[Glyder]

Sunset ftw?

Well I can always take her to a waterfall, I am told she loves waterfalls, and there are plenty of easy to get to ones I know of.

 

Then do that

Looks like you've already answered your own question

 

[Glyder]

Yeah I have, wow...

Well it never hurts to hear others opinions/ideas yah know?

 

[0 w n t z]

Like said above, I would get to know where she likes to go, What places she likes to eat at, What jewelry/flowers she likes...It allways help relationships develop faster.

 

[Glyder]

Yeah, well with this advice, I hope things go well, usually I suck with ladies tbh... which is why I had all those other issues.

 

You have already wrote down everything you have to do.

Like I already know the basics that I gotta actually talk to her, text her, hang with her, etc​

By the looks of things you are confident in talking with girls so that's a huge help, I'll give you a few little tips though.
If she says something bad has happened to her, for example she says that someone at college/work threw something at her, you say "wow I would never do that to you".
This is going to sound cheesy, but if you look her in the eyes and while she looks at you just say to her "you have beautiful eyes" she will either laugh and say thanks or she will be like aaaawwww, either way it should work out great.
Another thing would be to tell jokes/make her laugh,have serious conversations but occasionally make her laugh, girls dig a funny guy.

As you said, take her to a waterfall, if she likes it, do it.

 

[Tmoe]

Take her out to coffee, or to a low key restaurant like Panera. It's a great atmosphere and is great for getting to know some one.

 

[flipflopsftw]

Well ... as a female myself .. My bf 'caught' me by being a great listener and asking me about my life, my likes my dislikes and by remembering stuff that I'd told him on other occassions - He showed an interest in me as a person. Of course it helps that we are both gamers and we had that in common, but finding a common interest is really useful too.

You sound like a really nice guy and I wish u all the luck in the world!

Flops

 

[Sativa]

Take here to the movies and speed things up with the old penis in the popcorn trick. Thats usually what helps me out.