No Girlfriend

[florol]

Hello,
I've been thinking lately, I'm feeling kind of depressed that I've never had a girlfriend before. I'm 15 and a sophomore in High School and still haven't had a girlfriend. My friend had their first girlfriends in 8th grade but I've never had one. Am I getting depressed over nothing? When did you guys get your first girlfriends?

 

[fudgemsmaster]

jr year of hs and i dont think its anything to sweat about i remeber setting that goal each year in hs where i HAD to have a gf. dont rush it youl just end up dating some one you dont really like and that will just end bad :/ it did for me

 

[Awezum]

Your time will come.
Trust me, and when it does come... DO NOT GET ATTACHED.

Don't look for a girl either... let it happen, you don't need to be depressed either, we all different and get different things at different times.. don't let the stereotypical world pressure you

My first real girlfriend in my opinion that I loved was only in 10th grade.

 

[I_DONT_BOT]

Never had, 16.

 

[fudgemsmaster]

DO NOT GET ATTACHED.

exactly the first break up is always the hardest and the most akward one you will experience.

 

[Pockets]

Your case is not out of the ordinary at all. I didn't have my girlfriend first until a senior in HS (still with her now).

I also agree with the above posters that you should really be worrying about it and seeking one out at this time in your life. Just enjoy your high school years, have lots of great experiences, and if the opportunity comes up, then go ahead.

 

[omgpop]

I got my first girlfriend in 7th grade. But theres a problem when you date when you're young. You dont last long i had over 7 girlfriends in 7-8th grade Most of them last 1 month or less. Because i got bored of them and It's a waste of money. Every single month you must have an anniversary and give her a present and shit. So i stopped dating for some time lol. Might as well wait till your a sophmore or something then date and get some sex. at 15 Not alot of girls are willing to have sex just Hug/Hold hangs/kiss. Its nothing big

 

[Dastopper]

I would not sweat it bud, work on making great friendships with the females that are around you, and a relationship will happen eventually.

 

[oxodium]

Be confident in yourself, chat to girls you like, create opportunities for yourself, don't always wait for girls to come to your arms-- cause the good one's never do.

 

[DragonTails]

Your time will come... It will comeee >
no in all seriousness, don't worry about it.

 

[Pro Porkchop]

Relationships aren't worth it, IMO. If I had a choice, I'd rather be bestfriends with all the girls I've dated rather then dating for some period of time, breaking up, and most likely no longer be friends.

 

[.eNaCiRRuH]

It's not a big deal. I've never wanted to get serious with a girl like that until I met the right girl. Stick to talking to girls and not focusing on dating them unless you absolutely think she's perfect or the one. I know it might seem like you need a girlfriend right now, but if you think about it not that many people are in a relationship. Maybe just some of your friends..

 

[xxlr0ngelxx]

having a girlfriend is just a heartbreak ready to happen honestly, dont get attatched to a girl most likely you will just get fucked over , your time will come like they say , && my first girlfriend was like 5th grade but seriouse relashionship was 8th grade