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Jacks Charm said:
My life problems include:

  1. Hardly any friends (have 5 or 6 but thats it, everone else hates me with a passion)
  2. Heavily overweight (like I weigh 80KG, 160 pounds in grade 9)
  3. Never had a girlfriend.. (I never get the courage to ask a girl.. and end up in the 'friend zone')

I scape alot..
Go to boarding school
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Jacks Charm said:
I am like 6'1 atm im not 160 im like 148 or something
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Why are you changing your story? Lol.

Friends aren't necessary. They're nice, but they're not necessary. Focus on your studies, and keep at it. Don't let other people affect your decisions in life.

If you're over weight. Lose weight. It's that simple. People say it's "impossible for me to lose weight no matter what I do", that's only true for about... .000001% of the population (people with genetic bone or growth disorders). The rest of the people who think they can't lose weight... think that because they ran one time in their life, and didn't see a change. It takes commitment to train your body, not a night on the treadmill and a bottle of water.

I had a girlfriend in 2nd grade, 6th grade, 7th grade, 9th grade, and 10th grade... and lemme tell you... I regret it. There was absolutely no reason for me to date then, and it only distracted me from what was important. Work on yourself, develop your personality, learn about what people like in people... and I promise you you'll find a girl that will look past whatever physical ineptitude you have, and see you for the guy you worked to become.
 
STOP the runescape and everything for a while. See if you can do it, and then continue it casually. Start going to the gym and running/lifting weights, and go to parties and maybe pick up some small drug usage.

As bad as it sounds, you just need to STOP GIVING A SHIT about what people think. I know its hard, but just talk to people like you don't care. Girls and guys. Just be chill. All the social problems will disspear trust me and then you can look for the real friends.
 
im 5'9, 210 lbs and im 12% fat and 19 BMI

(i use to be 7.5% fat, but the summer i fucked up my life by gaming out on halo reach -.-)

anyways.... i have 4 friends and they are all my REALLY GOOD friends that i will b friends with for life. I have tons of school friends that mean nothing to me except for the fact i can talk to them when im bored. I have some friends that are girls but i only hang out with them every now and then

my advice to u is to try to maybe try life like i do. I talk to girls that are maybe shy and havent really talked to guys much either. I make them feel comfortable and we become friends. We can talk to what ever with each other, just like how i imagine u talk to ur friends.

fat should not be a reason why u shud make urself unhappy. infact it cud be the reason y ur not losing weight. ur stressed about ur weight and its putting lots of pressure on u and ur thinking of bad negative chains that happen when ur fat. instead, look at it another way. think about if ur skinny then what u can do, and use that to push urself through and lose weight.
 
it not how you work out but the way in which you work out, if you need some pointers feel free to private message me :)
 
arr0wblast said:
it not how you work out but the way in which you work out, if you need some pointers feel free to private message me :)
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this makes no sense lol. thats like saying, "its not how you work out, its how you work out." completely contradictory lol.
 
5 or 6? thats a lot compared to what normal people have. some people only have like 4 and then if you see them walking around with more its just friends of their friends. i have a ton of non-close friends. i don't have any REALLY close friends that i can tell anything too. i weighed 150-160 in 9th grade and a lot of people call me normal or not fat or skinny or fit.
 
Nyx said:
80kg isn't that much, believe me. You should be able to stabilize your weight in a month or two/three. As for the friends part: Why do they dislike you? Perhaps you should change your attitude a bit. Ask your real friends what they find annoying about you, and insist to be honest. When you lost some weight, and are kind to everyone, the girlfriend part will be solved as well... ;).

Good luck! I wish you all the best.
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You could also say that when he loses weight he has a confidence boost, making him arrogant..
 
Trust me, the most important thing, is the way you act amongst others. Try being social, and smiling. Try, every time you get up in the morning, and take a shower, look at yourself in the mirror, and smile at yourself. I do this every morning.

Also, loosing weight will increase your health, and make your confidence better, which will both make you function better socially, trust me. Less scape, more hanging with people.
 
Jacks Charm said:
My life problems include:

  1. Hardly any friends (have 5 or 6 but thats it, everone else hates me with a passion)
  2. Heavily overweight (like I weigh 80KG, 160 pounds in grade 9)
  3. Never had a girlfriend.. (I never get the courage to ask a girl.. and end up in the 'friend zone')

I scape alot..
Go to boarding school
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I have only 3-4 close friends, but many many more "acquaintance" types, if you will. I assure you, unless you give them a very good reason to, not everyone hates you.
Maybe you are, maybe you aren't. Depends on body build and muscle. If you're uncomfortable with it, join wrestling or football. Personally, I don't like competing. I spoke with my school's football coach and he agreed to just let me come to practices and participate, but not be in the games.
I'm a senior and I'm in my first serious relationship. Some people start at different ages.
 
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