My Love...

[Glyder]

Last Friday, basically my girlfriend and I broke up.

It was because I asked if this guy she got into an arguemnet with was why she told me she was pushing me away. But she thought I was accusing her of cheating.

Come next day, we talked and she kept on calling me a lier and I yelled at her to pretty much shut the f*ck up. Now she says she just wants to be friends until she things I am "mature" and can control myself if I get angry, she claims that she just wants to be friends for now because she claims that I will hurt her physically.

Although she may have a point, I would NEVER hit a woman, especially the one I love, no matter what or how angry I get.

Should I just be mature and try to get back together? Or just give up.

We were together for year, I love her more than anything in the world. I don't want to give up, but if I am trying for nothing then should I give up?

What do you guys think? Should I stop trying, or keep trying, I know she loves me, being told this by her mom, and best friend many times since last Friday....

 

[xx Sean]

Give her time. You can't force her to get into something she doesn't want to. Obviously she just needs some time, give it to her; who knows, mabye she'll come back to you. Best of luck!

EDIT:
Let her come to you. For now, just be as good a friend as you can be.

 

[FishFishy]

If you truly do love her, then you shouldn't give up so easily. If this was a common thing then yea I would say just forget about her, but this just seems like a simple misunderstanding that you two should work out. Maybe you can also try and prove to her that you are a mature/laid-back person by doing things like taking her out to eat, buying her flowers, etc. I Hope this helps, and good luck.

 

[Evan Wears Prada]

If you love her, don't quit, otherwise fuck her she isn't worth the trouble, there are other girls.

 

[Pureown]

there could be a problem in another way, like maybe she is upset of something completely else and she just needs some alone time.

perfect example:
2 months ago my girl friend dumped me (via text) for absolutley no reason whatsoever. i was at work at the time and i jsut get the message saying "i cant do this anymore, i think we should go our seperate ways" i ask her mom a couple days later, come to find out, she dumped me because her grandfather died and i reminded her of him. we are back together now becasue she came to me about a week later explaining it all

just give it time and let the wounds heal, i'd give it a week and then jsut try having a simple talk or something, get it all out in the open and all straightened out

 

[Glyder]

So she told me a few mins ago "no", and just to be only friends, I asked if I could talk to her later after we get home, and if I do I am going to tell her everything...."Sigh" I hate this

 

[Glyder]

I give up... She told me no straight up... Fuck my life... She just doesn't get it.....

 

[xx Sean]

I give up... She told me no straight up... Fuck my life... She just doesn't get it.....

Sorry to hear that, but you really should give her some space. Since her mother and best friend have told you she loves you, I'd expect for her to eventually come back. Love is such a strong word and if she means it, you'll be with her again. Be patient, and remain positive.

 

[Deacon Frost]

Your big problem here, Glyder, is that impatience is a sign of immaturity. You need to show her that you care for her, that you love her, that you're truly apologetic, and that you'll wait regardless.

If she loves you, and you love her, it'll be worked out through time and distance. If it doesn't work out, then you know she didn't love you enough to come back and check to see if you were good enough to give another chance.

Also, waiting for a week is not enough time. You should give it a few months, possibly a year or two.

 

[Surf]

Your big problem here, Glyder, is that impatience is a sign of immaturity. You need to show her that you care for her, that you love her, that you're truly apologetic, and that you'll wait regardless.

If she loves you, and you love her, it'll be worked out through time and distance. If it doesn't work out, then you know she didn't love you enough to come back and check to see if you were good enough to give another chance.

Also, waiting for a week is not enough time. You should give it a few months, possibly a year or two.

Says the guy that is happy his girlfriend doesn't text him.

 

[Deacon Frost]

Says the guy that is happy his girlfriend doesn't text him.

You try playing WoW and texting at the same time every minute.

IT'S COUNTER-FUCKING-PRODUCTIVE.

 

[Glyder]

LoL! I told my friend that I am done trying for now, and he told her, now she is bitching me out...

Women can be so stupid sometimes, they claim men don't listen...

(No Offence and Women here...)

 

[Deacon Frost]

LoL! I told my friend that I am done trying for now, and he told her, now she is bitching me out...

Women can be so stupid sometimes, they claim men don't listen...

(No Offence and Women here...)

That means she is hurt, because that's the only time they bitch. That, or when they think they lost.

It's not stupid, necessarily, but to our gender it can be confusing. Deal with their moodiness, and accept their attitude swings. It's all we can do if we hope to procreate .

 

[Surround Sound]

You try playing WoW and texting at the same time every minute.

IT'S COUNTER-FUCKING-PRODUCTIVE.

Tried to facebook 'like' -> Couldn't -> Cried -> Realised this is like the 5th time -> Cried more.

OT: You really need to give her some space. Also, if you're talking about her to friends etc. then make sure it's good things. These WILL get back to her eventually and she'll appreciate it. Talking shit about her behind her back is cowardly and certainly doesn't help the cause, regardless of whether it's for pride.

 

[tiger9110]

Before you try to get her back if you decide to, really try hard to think if your anger will get in the way again, to a girl a man with a temper is a HUGE turn off, if you can control it then I would definitely try again.

 

[FireZ]

Give it a little bit of time and if that doesn't work then it is time to move on. Theres too many girls in this world.

Every relationship needs a little space also.

 

[Vini]

I suggest controling your anger saying shut the f*ck up to the person you love is quite horrible.