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My girlfriend doesn't try anymore?

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Wait a few weeks before attempting to break with her.
Maybe she is PMS-ing?
LOL
 
if she isn't trying them dump her or if you feel bad then just ignore her untill she dumps you
 
Tbh this is why I don't get into relationships, I'd just ask her straight up, because I would hate to be pushed out. But that's me, I wouldn't let nobody fuck about with me like, if your unhappy tell her straight up, if she cares, you'll just know, otherwise get outta dat shit.
 
she wants you to break up with her lol.
 
Don't listen to this guys saying 'break up dude everything is lost!'. There's a big chance there's something else - if she didn't like you anymore she most likely already broke up with you already.

Give it a few more days, women can be weird. If nothing changes by then, talk to her. Don't be rude, and don't blame her.

I've been in the same situation twice, one beautiful story and the other is pretty sad, and it honestly took me months to get over it. Although, in both situations the girl acted like this, so don't give up, there's hope.
 
Just don't hang out with her so often, be more distant, she will come crawling back, and will do anything for you. Trust me, this works if you stick to it, don't give in even if you don't think this method is working, it will work. If she asks why you are being distant just say shit like 'oh i'm just busy with *insert something random*'.
 
†Tyson† said:
Just don't hang out with her so often, be more distant, she will come crawling back, and will do anything for you. Trust me, this works if you stick to it, don't give in even if you don't think this method is working, it will work. If she asks why you are being distant just say shit like 'oh i'm just busy with *insert something random*'.
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Essentially, she will most likely come back and make an effort if she feels she is loosing you.
 
You have to talk to her about everything you are feeling. Do NOT be judgmental. Do NOT get angry. If she gets angry, simply say If we want this, then we have to talk about how we feel and not keep it inside. Relationships MUST be OPEN AND HONEST.

To be honest, in my eyes If she is saying things like she will not do anything that makes her unhappy to make you happy... She is way too immature to be in a loving relationship. I have been in the same kind of situation. Once you stand up for yourself, you will either work together and fix the shit, or break up. I ended it with my girlfriend when she started shit like that, basically to make her understand that I was serious.(I knew her too well and secretly hoped she would come back haha) And when she realized almost a month later without talking, she came crawling back;) We worked shit out, and now we are quite happy. Whatever you do stand up for yourself and how you feel. YOUR FEELINGS MATTER JUST AS MUCH AS HERS. If she doesn't understand, and will not take your feelings into consideration, then she isn't worth your time.

PS: How old are you? You both sound young. If so, you have LOTS of time to enjoy yourself before locking the chain:P
 
mr n0obie3 said:
You have to talk to her about everything you are feeling. Do NOT be judgmental. Do NOT get angry. If she gets angry, simply say If we want this, then we have to talk about how we feel and not keep it inside. Relationships MUST be OPEN AND HONEST.

To be honest, in my eyes If she is saying things like she will not do anything that makes her unhappy to make you happy... She is way too immature to be in a loving relationship. I have been in the same kind of situation. Once you stand up for yourself, you will either work together and fix the shit, or break up. I ended it with my girlfriend when she started shit like that, basically to make her understand that I was serious.(I knew her too well and secretly hoped she would come back haha) And when she realized almost a month later without talking, she came crawling back;) We worked shit out, and now we are quite happy. Whatever you do stand up for yourself and how you feel. YOUR FEELINGS MATTER JUST AS MUCH AS HERS. If she doesn't understand, and will not take your feelings into consideration, then she isn't worth your time.

PS: How old are you? You both sound young. If so, you have LOTS of time to enjoy yourself before locking the chain:P
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17 and 18 :p
 
Kristian4th said:
If anybody treated me like that I'd end it without a doubt. Some girls think they're superior because they have the vag. I suggest you end it now, give the bitch a reality check.
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Perfectly stated. Let her come back to you dont sweat it.
 
I'd be prepared for the worst which in your case is the ending of your relationship but bare in mind their may be something she isn't telling you which is personal e.g family member crisis or something so just talk to her about it. 1 year and 9 months is a long time too so don't expect any outcome to be easy.
 
Loui said:
My girlfriend does not "try" anymore?
Lately I've been getting the message that my girlfriend just doesn't care. I could feel that if I broke up with her she wouldn't even shed one tear. It seems like lately it's all about her and nothing for me.
Evidence:
Whenever we watch TV it's what she wants to watch not me.
Whenever we watch a movie it's what movie she wants to watch and not what one that I want to.
Whenever we go somewhere to eat my suggestion gets rejected and I accept hers to make her happy.

Recently she said that she won't do anything that makes her unhappy to make me happy.
It seems to me that she doesn't care weather I'm happy or not.
A few days ago was our 1 year 9 month anniversary. I wanted to go get pizza and go see a movie. We agreed over the weekend.
Friday = no
Saturday = no
Sunday = no
and today I found out that it's a no (we both have monday off).
She won't even just go get pizza with me.

We see eachother everyday. However she usually seems mad or like she doesn't want me there. I've addressed this to her but all she says is sorry.

Ideas?

EDIT: Thanks for your responses. Today was the first day EVER in over 600 days that we've been dating that she did not want to hang outside of school.
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Sounds like the typical wife to me.... All is well.
 
try to talk to her get her to change her attitude if she doesnt then end it
 
Loui said:
My girlfriend does not "try" anymore?
Lately I've been getting the message that my girlfriend just doesn't care. I could feel that if I broke up with her she wouldn't even shed one tear. It seems like lately it's all about her and nothing for me.
Evidence:
Whenever we watch TV it's what she wants to watch not me.
Whenever we watch a movie it's what movie she wants to watch and not what one that I want to.
Whenever we go somewhere to eat my suggestion gets rejected and I accept hers to make her happy.

Recently she said that she won't do anything that makes her unhappy to make me happy.
It seems to me that she doesn't care weather I'm happy or not.
A few days ago was our 1 year 9 month anniversary. I wanted to go get pizza and go see a movie. We agreed over the weekend.
Friday = no
Saturday = no
Sunday = no
and today I found out that it's a no (we both have monday off).
She won't even just go get pizza with me.

We see eachother everyday. However she usually seems mad or like she doesn't want me there. I've addressed this to her but all she says is sorry.

Ideas?

EDIT: Thanks for your responses. Today was the first day EVER in over 600 days that we've been dating that she did not want to hang outside of school.
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Why havn't you talked in 600 days?
By then .. surely it would of ended?

Anyway, why are you discussing that on here? :/
 
blindkilla said:
Looks like you should end it with her. Seems as though your relationship has come to it's end. She is obviously being a complete bitch. If she doesn't want to try, why are you clinging onto her.

If she still liked you, she wouldn't be acting like this.
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It can be that they just need a break. Try talking to her about it and try to figure something out. Obviously something has to be done.
 
Christmas 2013
if she isn't willing to taking anything you do for her into consideration i guess just isn't worth your love. Talk to her and try come to a conclusion.

Good luck.
 
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