My GirlFriend does the most -_-

Yes we have our limits set, but once one of us do the most we tell each other.

 

So true, hands down!

 

Amen. And update, things are getting better. We have gave each other more space and are more understanding with each other.

 

That is good I really hope things work out for you, I went through the same thing and unfortunately we didn't make it.

 

Well played sir!

 

Chances are you'll end up exactly where you were before.

 

I really hope not, but that's what I'm scared of ..

 

Don't make a rushed decision, speak with her and mention you think splitting up could be a good idea because of the frequent problems.

Yeah she obviously cares for you because she's getting jealous and paranoid and stuff which is good, just explain to her how you think it's affecting you personally and how it's affecting your side of the relationship and that it shouldn't have to go on. Surely it's causing you unwanted stress and agro, so just let her know.

Help each other out, you're a team so make it work.

 

Those are girls man. Can't live with them, can't live without them. I personally find it funny when my girlfriend (ex now) got jealous when I'd talk to other girls

 

Honestly I would break it off with her jealousy is the root of a bad relationship. If she doesn't have enough trust in you to trust that nothing is going to happen and that you two are suppose to be together. Then I would recommend breaking up with her and trying to keep it civil.

 

Update: things have been going downhill, she's ignoring me and not much communication ... 😔

 

Try to talk to her still and show that you care. She'll eventually talk to you again. Hope things get better for you.

 

Thank you I hope too and I've tried talking to her but she doesn't reply and I found out she's talking to other guys...

 

It's okay for her to talk to other guys. You can talk to other girls as well too. I suggest you to still try to talk to her, saying that you love her and that she means a lot to you. Otherwise if she still continue to ignore you, you could try talking to other girls to see if she care about you still. I really do hope things get better.

 

If she's jealous when you talk to other girls, then goes and talks to other guys, that's a wicked double standard. Personally, I think you need to break up with this girl; you seem to be in a perpetual downward spiral where she's manipulating your emotions.

 

Learn how to communicate, if she's worth it you'll take the time to understand her and why she gets upset.

Understand she's maturing, and see if she's taking steps to help herself.

You can't do everything for her, meet in the middle and discuss your problems like adults. Don't raise your voice.

The best advice I can ever give you: when you raise your voice, you are the reason the argument keeps going. Talk in a normal tone, if she gets louder, get closer and whisper to her. This gets me out of 99.9% of my fights with every ex and current GF.

 

" I'm sorry we couldn't fix things when we had the chances to. Maybe fate will bring us together later on in life but until then I don't want you in my life." One of her texts...

 

Really upsetting that I'm a bit too late for this.
If you two ever decide to try again, and she is still jealous, try going for relationship counselling.
My boyfriend and I are like this too sometimes and we're planning on getting it ourselves.
Try your best to cheer up. If you need anybody to try to cheer you up, you can PM me.
I'm honestly a great person to pour your heart out onto. I'm like a human diary. :laugh:
Take care. Things will eventually get better.

 

Thanks I'll keep that in mind, she is still ignoring me but not as mc has she use too..

 

Update: we are back together and things are going really smooth!