I Don't Masturbate

Hey everyone, I'd like to start off by saying I'm going to be 17 in a few months and I'm currently in High School.

Okay so nowadays a large majority of people my age masturbate or 'jack off'. But guess what?

I NEVER do it, like ever ever.

Is this natural or do I just have good self-control?
Note - I'm a virgin as well.

Are there any Pros/Cons to not masturbating?

Is it true It will take me longer to 'come' when I have sex for the first times, or will I just come out faster because I never masturbate?

P.S Everyone who I shake down with/touches my hands thinks I masturbate at school because my hands are always soft/smooth, and I don't even use lotion on them -.- lol wtf

 

Mate fair play to you for still being a Virg. WOW i couldn't go that long not at all especially if i wasn't getting any at the time but the more often you get sex the less you seem to masturbate in my conclusion. However this all depends on your genes.

 

Alright thanks for the advice kind sir Nice siggy might I add

 

If you ask me I think you'd get spent pretty fast if you don't jerk off...

 

Then FML lol

 

Only pro that I can think of is you save 15-30 minutes of your life every day.

 

You mean you've never came before in your life?

The second your dick will hit a vagina, you'll probably butter all over the place. Not even kidding, everyones first time with sex is quick, and everyones first time masturbating is even quicker.

 

masterbation is somtime the most sensible solution to having sex with an ugly ass chick... or your best friends girl. you do have alot of self controll i hope i had as much

 

Yeah I've came before, I used to have wet dreams lol

 

I can already imagine TBH.

 

He's right,

Pro's to masturbation:
Longer sexual endurance
Since you last longer, your also pleasing her longer !
Longer sex = better sex, your still getting your orgasm, you just get to have more fun before it as well.
Honestly, if your having a bad day, it really can cheer you up.
Masturbating before a date, or being around hot girls cant quite honestly make you less nervous, and you probably wont get any random boners because you've already masturbated.

Cons:
VERY easy to get addicted to lol, control yourself.
It takes up time.
You can procrastinate with it wonderfully, and yes, procrasturbation IS real, it happens alot.
Some girlfriends prefer their boyfriend to not watch porn/masturbate because it makes them feel like they're not enough for you.
You could get caught up in some porn site that cost money, honestly, you have no need for a website that cost $/month.

 

Damn dude thanks for that list of advice
Probably explains why I get random boners in my 1st period at school sometimes

 

You would go off faster to answer the last question, because you are not use to the feeling of any stimulation.


Its natural to masturbate, therefor it is natural the other way around as well. The want to do it is caused by the hormone testosterone. Having less of it does signal you have a lower sex drive and energy in general, but overall its not a bad thing. Makes it easier so you can talk to people, and keep a laid back attitude.

Do whatever makes you happy, no reason to be uncomfortable because you don't fit in with the population.

 

I dunno bout you guys but if I jack off I make it so that it's a week's difference between each "session"(if I even jack off at all, I've been stopping recently), because with testosterone you procrastinate less and want to get everything done, your more awake, and it feels a lot better in the end.

 

Most 16-17 year olds randomly get boners, especially in the morning.

I've heard from a friend of mine who is a marriage counselor (which is pretty much a sex counselor) that masturbating can actually cause premature ejaculation. Your body knows exactly what to do to "get off", and you become addicted to the orgasm rather than the actual sex. A body which masturbates a lot can be much more happy with a PE than one that doesn't masturbate, according to that person.

A lot of people come early in their first sexual encounter, whether or not they are chronic/casual/never masturbaters

 

Well I think the reason is because you haven't masturbated, like you said. Once you feel what an orgasm feels like - disregarding a wet dream because you couldn't control/remember how to make it happen - then you will probably feel the need to induce it more often.

I think that could only happen if you masturbate several times a day. I could be wrong though, don't quote me. I think for most people, it's not hard to resist yourself from doing it excessively. Also, it's difficult to try to induce orgasm again already when you just masturbated not too long ago because your nerves become really sensitive, and will hurt if you try to do it again.

 

And many rolls of toilet paper

But seriously, there are more pros to abstaining from sexual activity then there are cons.

 

Thats only if you are really over the top with it.

And everyone does.

And I very rarely masturbate, to be honest. Its really not that abnormal at all.

 

wow holy crap i go at it a fuck load least once a day its better stress relief then smoking.

 

If you said that to me irl, i would say "YEAH RIGHT". But i'll believe you this time!

Well, yeah props to you for saving those tissues and 10 minutes everyday. o.o