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Jacmob

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I used to talk to a girl everyday.. we were 20 minutes apart and went to different schools but we texted like crazyd (skype too).. Anyways I had gotten so busy about a year ago she was like "fine i understand i guess my feelings and yours werent the same" and I didn't realize what was goin on.. Anyways so about two weeks ago I texted her and we got back to texting.. i finally hung out with her yesterday... mall..movies.. and we were really close. For example during the movie (we saw "The Odd Life of Timothy Green" over "The House At The End Of The Street" >_< ) like she would get close in her seat next to me but the movie was so flippin boring and little sad that I didn't make a move..

During the mall she was always close to me and just stuff like that. I felt like we really hit it off.. We talked alot teased each other.. I mean it was great.. Anyways I was wondering.. I am going to ask her to do other things, but should I make a move.. like over texts we send we'll tease each other a lot and stuff, but should I make a move like start hinting at feelings.. I don't want to scare her away, but i'm sure she feels the same way but I just don't wanna blow it

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You'll regret it more in the long run if you don't.

1. You go for it. Mabye you find your soul mate. Mabye you get embarrassed and then move on.
2. You dont do shit. You regret it.
 
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Make a move to be honest its your chance to get closer to her.
 
the best time to make a move is when you thi k that it's already too late.

Like etpsales said, you make a move now and either get accepted or rejected, or you don't and you regret it forever.

Don't think of the things that will follow if you d get rejected.
Shit happens in everyday life.
 
OK guys I'm slowly hinting at it.. like I'm getting together more often.. stuff like that.. talking more etc

btw do you still ask 'wanna go out'.. havent done this since middle school
 
Jacmob said:
OK guys I'm slowly hinting at it.. like I'm getting together more often.. stuff like that.. talking more etc

btw do you still ask 'wanna go out'.. havent done this since middle school
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Well, i guess it really depends. If she takes the hint that you guys have a mutual attraction, you don't have to straight up ask. You could go for something more casual like "Hey, on Friday would you like to grab dinner and catch a movie with me?", or something like that. If you want to be 100% sure that she understands your intentions though, definitely ask her if she'd like to go out sometime. That's as straightforward as it gets.
 
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Good luck bro, I'm glad to see you bac in your feet after your previous ordeal dealing with a woman :p
Dn't forget to tell us how things go!
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Yeah we're definately getting more close each day.. also I know she digs me because well here's what I received in May of last year when I quit talkin to her (well everyone really just went rogue for month for camp but never bothered going back to relations with her until 15 days ago)

http://lettersillneversend.com/2011/02/20/hes-just-not-that-into-you/
kay, got the hint. thanks for making me believe in a lie.
I swear I really am done this time. I'm worth more than this, I know I am. I may not have guys just waiting to be with me, but I know that I deserve to at least be talked to once and a while from someone who's supposedly my "best friend". One day I'm going to actually have a guy who's my best friend, AND acts like it. I'm just tired of it. Let's face it, [My Name], if you really wanted to even just be my best friend, you would make an effort to talk to me. I wouldn't have to wait years to hang out with you just once. And you haven't done anything different that I'm upset about. I just know that I deserve better, and I don't have the time to wait 8 years to hang out with a guy like I've had to do with you. Seriously, that's just ridiculous. So you can go on, and be with other girls you won't mind talking to, and maybe even one that you can't stop thinking about, the way I used to feel about you. But I'm done, I'm tired of giving second chances. and thirds. and fourths.
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so after i looked at my messages recently i realized she loved me and well now I KNOW that both of us are getting those feelings again for each other.. btw guys update: she has my weekends planned until I die.. like literally..

:) Just gonna make it official soon by actually confessing my feelings to her later
 
definately make a move man i will give you £100 if its not successful! i have faith by what you've said
 
Make a move! She seems interested in you and you have to make the move before it's too late.
 
If any part of you wants to make a move, do it. Even if you fail, you learn from your mistake and become better for next time. When put in perspective, theres nothing to lose, only gain.
 
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From what I've gathered, you guys have been flirting. Every girl knows when a guy likes her. If you like her, she knows and she clearly hasn't pushed you away. Don't wait too long, go for it.
 
If you like a lady, ALWAYS make a move before it's to late. If you dont jump in the boat before somebody else does, she may take off with that other person leaving you alone on the dock.

Then if you start dating, DON'T EVER cheat. I lost my whole life to that bullshit. If you got one lady that likes/loves you and is loyal, that takes more game than any 3,4,5,6some ever could.

Kiss her, if she's close and cuddly she wants it. They don't call me PT (Playa Tayla) for nothin g. And if my some miraculous chance she's embarrassed or offended, than jus tell her you like her alot and you thought she wanted a kiss, she may accept it an kiss you back. ;)
 
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