Inappropriate or Appropriate?

[Almond Joy]

So I think this is way out of hand. the point where i'm just fed up with this guy
whenever my sis bf comes in our house every time. I don't mind him coming in my house with my sister. What I hate mosty is her bf comes in our house without knocking on our door or anything. So recently, I'm eating cereal and our garage was open. He just goes in our house by going through the garage door and just opening it without saying anything and does whatever he needs to do any exit promptly outside. I mean, is this really appropriate for a guest to just come in ? I know hes welcome to our house ( my parents dont really care ) but I think its really rude. What do you think?

 

Tbh, I think you're worried about your sister, and her getting into any type of trouble with this guy. If your parents say he's welcome, then it's fine. You're just a worried/paranoid about this guy being around your sister.

 

[Almond Joy]

Tbh, I think you're worried about your sister, and her getting into any type of trouble with this guy. If your parents say he's welcome, then it's fine. You're just a worried/paranoid about this guy being around your sister.

Well my parents don't really say anything, its just him how he looks pretty much and yeah. It just annoys me how he goes in our house randomly without knocking on our door or anything. Its that feeling where you can just go in your own house without knocking on the door or anything because its " your " house and he does the same basicly except we have a gate and a door which he rather take the short cut and just goes through the garage and in our house.

 

[Meeder1]

Tbh, I think you're worried about your sister, and her getting into any type of trouble with this guy. If your parents say he's welcome, then it's fine. You're just a worried/paranoid about this guy being around your sister.

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Thats probably the case tbh.

If hes your sisters boyfriend then i think its fine for him to just walk into the house IF your parents are fine with it. You might not see it that way because you dont know him on as much of a personal level of your sister, but i think its fine.

 

[Almond Joy]

^.
Thats probably the case tbh.

If hes your sisters boyfriend then i think its fine for him to just walk into the house IF your parents are fine with it. You might not see it that way because you dont know him on as much of a personal level of your sister, but i think its fine.

Of course, yeah. I just don't feel uncomfortable that people just go in our house randomly to see my sister. It's only him that does it and the rest of her friends don't. It would be more understanding if he walked in with her.

 

[Sorry]

..I think its highly inappropriate even if you are worried about your sister. What if your naked or somthing and he rushes in....

 

[Karl]

It sounds like you're trying to find an excuse or a problem with this guy any means possible, He's going out with your sister, and you probably think he's going to be a problem somehow, you want to protect her, so you're trying to find a fault with him.

 

[Almond Joy]

It sounds like you're trying to find an excuse or a problem with this guy any means possible, He's going out with your sister, and you probably think he's going to be a problem somehow, you want to protect her, so you're trying to find a fault with him.

I just don't like the fact that people can just come into other people's houses thats all. I've never done it before but its that awkward feeling that I get if I do because its not my home

 

[Billetes]

If he's close with your family then there shouldn't be a problem with it. I think your problem is that you're not as close to him as everyone else in the household.. I mean, he doesn't give you as much attention as he does your sister/parents. I bet you once you get closer to him and you become more like "friends" than him just being your sister's boyfriend, your perspective on the whole situation will change. Stop being paranoid, start a conversation with him when he comes in the door, be his friend and make him feel welcome.

 

[Almond Joy]

naw that ain't true, nobody in the family is close with him except her.

 

[Billetes]

naw that ain't true, nobody in the family is close with him except her.

Are they around when he comes in? Or are they always working or out of the house? But take my advice and build a relationship with the guy, trust me it will make yours, his and your sister's lives a lot better if you get along.

 

[Almond Joy]

Are they around when he comes in? Or are they always working or out of the house? But take my advice and build a relationship with the guy, trust me it will make yours, his and your sister's lives a lot better if you get along.

I guess but its all good they leaving anyways LOL

but still knocking before entering someones home, does anybody do it?

 

[Billetes]

I guess but its all good they leaving anyways LOL

but still knocking before entering someones home, does anybody do it?

Yeah people still do lol.. But what I've noticed is if the family is really close, and let's say you have a window in the kitchen that you can see through the back yard, and your close friend come through the back yard, and sees you or your parents, the parents or the kid will usually let them in without them having to knock, until it becomes normal for the friend to just walk in, because they're so close.

 

[i noob killer i]

Just relax and let the guy In and try and be friendly with him thats all .

 

[Almond Joy]

Just relax and let the guy In and try and be friendly with him thats all .

i was bouta blow that guys car up or wreck it just for the fun of it

 

[i noob killer i]

i was bouta blow that guys car up or wreck it just for the fun of it

Well Im not going to lie that would be prittey stupid tbh :/

 

[0 w n t z]

Im pretty sure he probably does not think its rude...i mean...he may have other friends and he goes into their houses without knocking...but it is allways good to know if someone is their...i mean...he could knock.

 

[i3urnin_Up]

I wouldn't be worried. I'm sure he doesn't mean to be rude or anything
but if he's over a lot knocking every time gets kind of annoying.
My sister's boyfriend does the same thing, I don't think anything of it
they've been together for 2 years and my whole family likes him a lot.

 

[BaYBeeZ]

Is your sister and the boyfriend older than you? If they are, it might be best to casually mention something to your parents or even to your sister that you would appreciate it if he knocked first when coming into the house.

Speaking your mind could go a long way.

 

[HamJam]

You could ask him to knock next time? As you feel that your privacy is tarnished by him entering your home without consent to do so...

I mean I would find it very rude if one of my friends randomly entered my house... if he has an sense what so ever he would knock on your door... I mean that's what door bells are for