Idiots at School

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Honestly, I'd just ignore them.
I was never really picked on but I knew dicks who would pick on people.
Ignoring them would make them get bored of you.
They're just playing poke the bear.

 

Alright man I'm going to post from my point of view, because this shit is what happened everyday to me. You have to fight back man, it got up to the point where I couldn't take it anymore so I stabbed the kid with a pencil and that just made him more angry. Honestly it sounds stupid as hell but you just have to keep at it and ignore them the best you can, they will make your life a living hell because bullies don't know when to stop but I promise you man it gets better once you get out of school and won't ever have to see them.

I'm sorry for the shitty advice, but I've been through it before, and if you ever want to talk about it, PM me and we can talk on MSN, I feel your pain man, don't give up. Take it easy man <3

 

Find the big clumsy guy that has no friends. Make friends with him and he will protect you. There's usually always those big chunky guys that have a hard time finding friends in grade 9.

 

Thanks guys,

Gohan your a freeking legend

ill see how it goes at school tomorrow.

 

I myself am year 9 and a friend of mine just recently started getting shit from a group of 4-6 year 11's. Anyways my friend is averaged height and no muscle to him but he insisted on fighting them all by himself. Really it is only 1 or 2 major people in the gang and the others just follow along. So my friend attacked the 2 major leaders and they only tried to fight back for a while before running onto a bus to escape.

Anyways if anything I've learnt from him is don't take shit and only aim at the major leader of the gang.

 

True words off wizdom off Gohan there, Always has the freindly advise.

 

you can't let it go big guy, it only gets worse if you try to ignore it. find an "equalizer" anything can be an "equalizer" such as a 2X4, or a baseball bat, etc. I'm not saying to beat the holy fuck out of them im saying to scare them approach them(off school grounds) and say "you wanted to fight?" 9/10 one of them will rush at you, aim for his chest DO NOT SWING AS HARD AS YOU CAN, it'll scare the rest and they'll run off and then theyll leave you alone.

idk if you should do this, this is a last resort, see if you cant ignore it for a while. if they start getting physical, dont let it go.

 

Stand your ground.

Don't take shit from anyone at any point in your life, trust me thats some good advice. Some people will love you for it others will hate you for it but at the end of the day remember those three words.

 

thanks guys really helpful

 

This way isn't good for school but it will make them stop.
Fight back, if you see 1 of them bending over picking something up push them over and beat the crap out if them, or if they are in a group just go psycho, and scream and hit 1 of them or 2,3,4 if they go down. There is a chance you will get beat up, but bullies pray on the weak, if you fight back they won't bother with you, you can always get your older friends as you said aswell

I have always been tall and pysicaly stronger and there was a nerd shall we say in our group, I personally didn't like hanging around with him but he was getting bullied and I haaaaated the bully so I thought I would help him out, the bully didn't bother him after like a week or so of me and my friend helping out.

 

Judgemental,
Anyways, I wouldnt listen to this guy. Although i would beat the crap out of a kid if he did bully me (ive never been bullied). But you should ignore them...the more you ignore them the more they get bored. Once you get out of highschool its way better. Hang in there kid. Anyways,Im a junior in highschool.

 

You ever seen the film Harry Brown? Watch it. An old man is harassed by a group of teenagers.. He picks them off one by one.

Moral of the story here, isss.. ?

Just lay the fuck into each and every one of them one by one. Deal with the punishment later.

 

I'm going to give you the most practical advice believe me I've seen people in your situation.

Tell your teachers, report it to the principle! tell your parents. This all depends how strict and what ground rules are placed at your school. My school wouldn't tolerate bullying and neither would yours.

You might lose a couple of friends but you choose the only wise decision and not dropping down to the animal state behavioral these other people are suggesting.

If anything they should be expelled if they carry on. After you tell please contact me on what actions the school have taken, I'll give you more support.

 

Everyone knows that that wont happen. Its one pupils word against another's. No-one will ever be expelled because someone has that they're bullying someone.

Teachers will do pretty much squat. And even if they decided to do something it'll take weeks for anything to get done. And the bullies will probably go for you harder after you've told someone.

ALSO, in life there's not going to be a teacher to tell. Learn to fight your own battles.

Kick the holy fuck out of each and every one of them and man the fuck up. Dont listen to the fags telling you to tell a teacher.. I mean, seriously, what sort of bullshit advice is that?!

 

Gee thanks for the insults. As I said if no action takes place he can contact me I'll help you through it.

 

Fighting the bullies only makes it worse. Don't listen to people who tell you that fighting them will make it better. They WANT you to fight back to get a rise out of you. It's the same if you don't do anything back, it makes it worse.

 

Definitely. Some people here been watching too much "Eminem no love video"

Gohan don't you feel your situation could of been solved earlier by reporting to a teacher. As this would initially stop the cycle as the person stopped bullying you he might have gone onto somebody else.

 

I didn't tell a teacher because I knew that it would only make things worse, and my teacher knew those kids were picking on me and once in a while just told them to stop.

I'm out of that shitty school and out of high school now, and that's why I tell the OP things get so much better with patience.

 

Most of these kids go nowhere in life... do well in school, and make a name for yourself. It doesn't matter what goes on now, its not important to whats going to happen to you in the future. Don't let it bother you, and, if it does, take your time fighting back, and do it intelligently. You don't just have to punch someone to defend yourself. Think outside the box!