I need chick advice

[IsmokeKush]

Lol.. I rarely ask for advice but this is different.
Anyways I've been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. I kinda have falling for her, but not really. What I mean by this is if at a party I meet a chick, I'd probably fuck her and not care. We talk about everything literally. From family, personal to even me telling her that I'm a pot dealer. I asked her if we would ever be more then friends yesterday and she was like, "I wanna get to know you a little better first." I asked, "I want you to get to know me, and then a possibility? Because honestly I don't wanna waste time and end up getting nothing in return." She said, "Yes there is, I like you but not yet." We usually text each other all day everyday. But yesterday I had to text her at 3pm for her to text me. She hasn't texted me sense she woke up and it's about 10PM. Idk what to do.. I'm not pissed or anything but I'm on the edge of OK I'll let it slide to Fuck this bitch.
Any advice?

 

[Swin]

How can you be falling for someone, but not really? You need to be sure about how you feel when you confront a girl about it. Don't ask her to be more than friends when you don't know how you feel, you're asking for trouble later down the track there.

Give her time, don't always expect things. She will reply, she's human. She's only human. What if she's out for dinner? Fell asleep early? Ran out of credit? Can't find her phone? You need to stop jumping to conclusions my friend.

She sound's like a nice girl, don't mess it up. Let her get to know you a bit better, take her to the movies and make her fall for you. Pay for her ticket, buy her snacks. If she's comfortable to eat in front of you, she's a keeper!

However, I know how you feel always having to start the conversations. But if you want her to start liking you, you've gotta do it. Once she falls for you, I can assure you it won't be a problem anymore.

Goodluck mate.

 

[shawnwill1210]

she just hasnt texted u bro.. i personally hate having to text a person all day everyday

 

[iNoobz]

She probably wants to take it slow, she looks up to you as her best friend for now. Trust me, you dont want to put any pressure on her, let it take time, good things come when you wait :] I always like to think that, I would wait til summer break and if she's not feeling it, then.... I'd go for another chick.

 

[IsmokeKush]

Thanks guys, I appreciate it. I guess I'll just let her do whatever she wants. I won't bring up anything about being more then friends anymore.

 

[IsmokeKush]

Swin- When I said that I didn't mean it in a bad way. To be honest, I'm falling for her tooo fast. I have invited her to many things but it just doesn't work out. I was suppose to go to a party with her but I lost my phone and didn't know where it was :S

 

[Swin]

Swin- When I said that I didn't mean it in a bad way. To be honest, I'm falling for her tooo fast. I have invited her to many things but it just doesn't work out. I was suppose to go to a party with her but I lost my phone and didn't know where it was :S

Then it's time to make up for it, that was your fault.

Suggest the movies and do what I said. :noworry:

 

[Pwnm30rdi3]

Time is key.
I'm decent with advice; and from me to you patience is key.
Either she wants you or she does not. It's normal for girls to be shy and skeptical at first, Especially when they like you. It's rare to find that 'one' girl that is right for you, but when you do. You will both know. Try to be more gentle with her, ease into things. Start bringing her sweet and thoughtful things. Even if they are small; Bring her a coke in the morning, bring her dinner, take her to dinner and have a night where you just walk around.

I wish you the best of luck.

 

[IsmokeKush]

Time is key.
I'm decent with advice; and from me to you patience is key.
Either she wants you or she does not. It's normal for girls to be shy and skeptical at first, Especially when they like you. It's rare to find that 'one' girl that is right for you, but when you do. You will both know. Try to be more gentle with her, ease into things. Start bringing her sweet and thoughtful things. Even if they are small; Bring her a coke in the morning, bring her dinner, take her to dinner and have a night where you just walk around.

I wish you the best of luck.

Wow man, I really apprecaite your advice. Thanks, do you think If I randomly sent her roses to her house she would like that? One problem, her parents don't know me that well. But I would assume they would if I did something like that?

 

[Veni]

Wow man, I really apprecaite your advice. Thanks, do you think If I randomly sent her roses to her house she would like that? One problem, her parents don't know me that well. But I would assume they would if I did something like that?

That's really thoughtful, but maybe too soon? Since you two aren't together right now it might be a little too much..

Not trying to be rude, just saying it might give you an answer you don't want or you can start small Do small things like bringing drinks or such, like someone else said.

It's taking it slow and in a thoughtful way, girls like that shit more then anything

Good luck man!

 

[IsmokeKush]

thanks

 

[Adrian Ochoa]

Don't expect to meet a nice girl talk to her for a few days and then start going out. It doesn't normally work like that give it a few days. Like the other posts said she's just human.

 

[Baconater]

I asked her if we would ever be more then friends yesterday and she was like, "I wanna get to know you a little better first." I asked, "I want you to get to know me, and then a possibility? Because honestly I don't wanna waste time and end up getting nothing in return." She said, "Yes there is, I like you but not yet."

she dont like u dawg