I hate my life.

[Jellito]

I just need to vent ):

About a year, maybe longer ago, I met this girl, her name was Aimee. I fell in love with her from day one, a month later I asked her out, and we started dating..She is the most bubbliest girl I have ever met, and I love her to pieces..
About 7 months into the relationship she met another guy named Justin, me and Aimee were fighting a lot and she dumped me.

The next day we had a chat, and she asked if I would take her back, I said yes of course, Cause I love her so much...the next day she broke up with me again..SIGH..Said she just wants to be friends..
A week later, she dates this Justin fella, and then the next day comes to me and asks me to dump him for her.
FML..I went on my duties, cause i love her so much, and dumped him for her.

During the next 2 months we get really close, and I finally get the balls to 'ask her out'..and we for about a month everything is perfect, we started fighting and shit, she started being a bitch, and we broke up...I dumped her this time..

During the next few weeks we were chatting and i asked her if she will take me back, give me a second chance, she said, you need to do something first,
I tried my best to be nice to her, I spent money on her for her birthday, asked if she wanted to do stuff with her on weekends..
Every single time I wanted to do stuff with her on weekends, she would say no and reject me ):

During the whole 15months we have known each other, we only seen eachother like 10times outside of school.
We chat and she says she wants to be with me forever, etcetc, wants to have kids, promised me her virginity, etcetc

During the last 3 weeks, This new kid came to school, his name is Leigh.
Aimee, fell for him hard, I dont even know why she likes him, he has bad acne, messed up teeth, and mumbles alot.

During this 3 weeks i get really angry, my mum and I started fighting, She stole my laptop, Ipod, phone, and refused to give it back, My whole family basically beat me and told me to leave the house, I left for the night returning the morning for my stuff..

She still wouldnt give me my stuff so I called the police, the police came, got my stuff and dropped me near school.
I wagged the day and met up with a few kids..
That day I had nowhere to sleep, i found an empty house and slept in that, for two nights..

My mum and I are still fighting, she doesnt drive me to work, I dont eat dinner, we dont talk, she doesnt do my washing..I recently bought a car with mum, the car costed $800, I only had $400 at the time, and mum offered to pay the rest, but I have to pay her back..I paid her back and now shes saying, You cant have the car, and ill pay you the money back eventually
which basically means never.


My school life has been a disaster, in 3 weeks ive gotten suspended 3 times, and now im pending expelsion.
I dont want to live anymore, just feel like crying.

I need a new life,

tl;dr.
My life sucks.

 

[Gurtaton]

Touchy. I suggest you dump Aimee, forever. If she dumps you for other guys all the time, it means you can't trust her. Move on and find a new girl.

Don't give up, commit suicide or any of that shit. You only live once.

Not sure what I'd do about the mom situation. I'll leave the other fellas to answer that.

 

[Jellito]

Thanks for the reply and reading my life story wrapped up in a thousand words. ):
She disrespects me like im a piece of shit,
Never wnats to do stuff with me on weekends, always flirting with other guys.
But it makes me so depressed when I see her having fun with other guys, and not me.
I ask her to walk her to class, and shes like 'naa'.
and leaves.

Runescape and my best online mate were the only thing that made me happy.
I played castlewars, became ranked in top #1000.
):

 

[Siinep]

It sounds to me that you're around the age of 18 or so. Having relationship problems is one thing, but getting kicked out of your house? Thats SO difficult man.

I am around your age and I have a girlfriend of a year and a quarter now, and it's really not all that special at our age to have someone so close. Honestly, I feel like it's a waste if both people do not understand that college is 4 YEARS. Which means you have to live separate for 4 years, if anything see each other for a weekend every 2 weeks and all. This is how it is with me because I go to school 2 hours away from home.

At this age I can not honestly say I want to marry my girlfriend. Why? Simply because we are to young to be saying shit like that. To me saying that multiple times during the week, or anything along the lines of that, is just ridiculous because you have no idea where you will be in the future. You can NOT plan your life around someone else when you don't know if you're REALLY going to be with them the rest of your life.

If something were to happen to you two, and you planned your life around her, then where are you now? Somewhere you probably don't wanna be. But you did it for her. You know?

18-24 IMO is one of the most important time in your life to have your head on straight, and looking towards your future without distractions. After school, yeah, you might be ready for a serious relationship because you will be semi settled with knowing what you want to with your life.

Also, on the topic of family. I can only imagine how bad it feels to get kicked out of your house. But the thing is, no matter how much you want to change it, those are your parents, and that will never change. Maybe if you just agree with them sometimes and not let it get to you, things could be better.

My father had open heart surgery on March 7th of this year. That was the last day he's ever been able to see me, visually. He's still alive today but permanently blind and weak from recovering. He doesn't feel like a normal human being any more. So please, take it from me. Just make your parents happy sometime, whether you do or do not agree with them. Stress build up brought my father to where he is today. I would never wish anything upon others like what has happened to him.

Do things that relax you, take some time to yourself, go sit outside and take a look around at nature and put your mind in someone elses shoes to see who you really are.

Don't say you don't want to live anymore. The world is full of opportunities.

 

[Jellito]

I am 15 :\
Thanks for your speech
It made me teary.
Sorry about your father.
):

 

[Necromancer24]

Sounds to me that this Aimee is just taking you for a ride. How can you ever trust her not to sleep around or cheat on you? I suggest dumping her for good. Find a girl who really cares about you.

Also, I suggest patching things up with your mom. Who else are you going to turn to when you're in difficulties if not your family?

 

[Siinep]

I am 15 :\
Thanks for your speech
It made me teary.
Sorry about your father.
):

Oh wow, well in that case man, seriously, lay off the girlfriends... They're nothing but trouble around that age. A girl cannot make up her mind even at 18, so don't be looking for any commitment at 15, it's just too young. Take a look from your parents prospective. How would you like your child going off with some random girl he knows from school?

How do you fix that? Have your girlfriend get to know your family better, in order to build trust and less suspicion of the girl. Sometimes everyone should take a step back, and take a look at your position, in another perspective. You may not see anything wrong with what your doing because it's what you want, but it may not be the right thing in someone elses eyes.

I guessed you were around 18 simply because you said your mom bought you a car and you got kicked out of your house? Last time I checked you cannot legally get kicked out of your house and the cop that helped you get your stuff should have said something along the lines of your parents cannot kick you out at that age.

 

[kill dank]

i remember those days. at that age girls don't even know what they want. their weird, ya know?

 

[qdagod]

Fyi Girls Fuck Life Up You Cant Focus On A Girl You Got To Focus On You I Know You Love Her But Still Do Whats Best For You

 

[i <3 1 def]

Meh, at that age girls might seem the most important thing too you, but trust me there are things out there that matter more, when i was about your age i lost my mum too cancer, she was a single parent and i was living in a seperate part of the country too the rest of my family and i had to be taken into care, it was horrible, i didnt have anywhere to go and was pushed from pillar to post and treated like an unwanted toy, but these things make you stronger. Make things up with your mum and dont let some girl ruin the relationship that children and parents should have, if she ruins something that special she isnt worth fighting for.

I was also kicked out of school at around that age just before i took my GCSE's, your best bit is too get a part time job, just working the max hours a day you can at that age (i believe its 4 hours, might be different in different countries), it doesnt matter where that job is, its still cash. Then go and speak too your local careers advice bureau, (e.g connections), they can help you with finding either another school or some sort of education. I was offered a place in a college going 3 days a week studying mechanics and am now fully qualified x], now ive left school i can work full time and am still making more than most of my friends who finished school with good grades . hope all works out for you

 

[Jellito]

Oh wow, well in that case man, seriously, lay off the girlfriends... They're nothing but trouble around that age. A girl cannot make up her mind even at 18, so don't be looking for any commitment at 15, it's just too young. Take a look from your parents prospective. How would you like your child going off with some random girl he knows from school?

How do you fix that? Have your girlfriend get to know your family better, in order to build trust and less suspicion of the girl. Sometimes everyone should take a step back, and take a look at your position, in another perspective. You may not see anything wrong with what your doing because it's what you want, but it may not be the right thing in someone elses eyes.

I guessed you were around 18 simply because you said your mom bought you a car and you got kicked out of your house? Last time I checked you cannot legally get kicked out of your house and the cop that helped you get your stuff should have said something along the lines of your parents cannot kick you out at that age

I think I have come to the decision that girls are waste of my time/money for now.

Meh, at that age girls might seem the most important thing too you, but trust me there are things out there that matter more, when i was about your age i lost my mum too cancer, she was a single parent and i was living in a seperate part of the country too the rest of my family and i had to be taken into care, it was horrible, i didnt have anywhere to go and was pushed from pillar to post and treated like an unwanted toy, but these things make you stronger. Make things up with your mum and dont let some girl ruin the relationship that children and parents should have, if she ruins something that special she isnt worth fighting for.

I was also kicked out of school at around that age just before i took my GCSE's, your best bit is too get a part time job, just working the max hours a day you can at that age (i believe its 4 hours, might be different in different countries), it doesnt matter where that job is, its still cash. Then go and speak too your local careers advice bureau, (e.g connections), they can help you with finding either another school or some sort of education. I was offered a place in a college going 3 days a week studying mechanics and am now fully qualified x], now ive left school i can work full time and am still making more than most of my friends who finished school with good grades . hope all works out for you

I do have a part time job. I work like 10-15hours a week, thats how I bought my car.
Thanks for the advice.

Thanks again,

Sounds to me that this Aimee is just taking you for a ride. How can you ever trust her not to sleep around or cheat on you? I suggest dumping her for good. Find a girl who really cares about you.

Also, I suggest patching things up with your mom. Who else are you going to turn to when you're in difficulties if not your family?

Will do, Thanks.

 

[Sportsgame]

Dump Aimee, You have been such a good person to her and she doesn't realise that..I really hope everything solves things out and I know what you are feeling and your not alone my friend.
If you need to talk about things just PM me your msn
take care

 

[Stel]

Bro, I know where you are coming from on this. Its your first love. Its gonna hurt like a mother fucker for a long ass time. But trust me, You'll get over it. There is more than one girl out there man. And apparently, since you two fight alot, that you aren't mean to date. How old are you two anyway? 15-16? Your young bro. Don't worry about this shit.

 

[Eman S]

Where do you live? After reading that I feel like I need to do something to help out, if you're in the UK I can hook you up with a place to crash if you ever need it or stuff.

Firstly I recommend cutting Aimee out of the picture, completely. She's testing you and there's no point chasing after her anymore.

As for the other family shit, this stuff happens. When I was a bit younger I'd fight with my mum about this stuff every other day, but you NEED to hold on to the car. Your mum probably feels like she needs to dominate over you, proving she's still in charge etc. Unless she'll give you the money upfront, don't do it.

 

[goku usa]

its always the case
a girl comes in our life makes us happy and then makees us cry more than she ever made us laugh. just start over buddie. finish high school get out and forget her. go to college meet new girls and you will find someone.

 

[Jellito]

its always the case
a girl comes in our life makes us happy and then makees us cry more than she ever made us laugh. just start over buddie. finish high school get out and forget her. go to college meet new girls and you will find someone.

Thanks buddy.

Where do you live? After reading that I feel like I need to do something to help out, if you're in the UK I can hook you up with a place to crash if you ever need it or stuff.

Firstly I recommend cutting Aimee out of the picture, completely. She's testing you and there's no point chasing after her anymore.

As for the other family shit, this stuff happens. When I was a bit younger I'd fight with my mum about this stuff every other day, but you NEED to hold on to the car. Your mum probably feels like she needs to dominate over you, proving she's still in charge etc. Unless she'll give you the money upfront, don't do it.

I live in Australia..
If I ever wanted to move out into my car, and ever got caught driving around, my car could get impounded, and to get it out of impound would cost more than the car itself.

 

[ßl◘w 'π sm◘kΣ]

dude i really think this girl is playing with you.
from my 4 years of high school i learned all girls loved to be loved.
if they know someone loves them, they will carry him around.

we all know feelings are really really hard to overcome, but you have to.
it really seems like the only way out.
stop talking to Aimee; watch what happens, ignore her.
she will come talk to you because she will realized she doesnt feel loved.
you can do that, or just completely forget her is what i recommend.
but in the end it is your emotions, so your choice.

with your mum, dude parents are parents.
no matter what age you are, they raised you, gave birth to you.
there shit is shit you gotta deal with man.
say sorry is the only advice i can give here.
also when you are in the house just relax a little.

hope i helped man.

 

[Jellito]

dude i really think this girl is playing with you.
from my 4 years of high school i learned all girls loved to be loved.
if they know someone loves them, they will carry him around.

we all know feelings are really really hard to overcome, but you have to.
it really seems like the only way out.
stop talking to Aimee; watch what happens, ignore her.
she will come talk to you because she will realized she doesnt feel loved.
you can do that, or just completely forget her is what i recommend.
but in the end it is your emotions, so your choice.

with your mum, dude parents are parents.
no matter what age you are, they raised you, gave birth to you.
there shit is shit you gotta deal with man.
say sorry is the only advice i can give here.
also when you are in the house just relax a little.

hope i helped man.

I think me and mum have figured shit out.
But theres just something about Aimee, she wraps me around her finger and leaves me hanging, i love talking to her, i love being with her, she makes me smile so easily, and i miss all the little memoeries we've had, I dont want to throw it away.
We have spent every single night on msn speaking for the past 16 months.
And every single day at school chilling together.
I miss her ):
and then it makes me sad when she writes on her msn name 'ilovemylife'..
Cause i think now im not in it ):

 

[Cpt Croke]

I think me and mum have figured shit out.
But theres just something about Aimee, she wraps me around her finger and leaves me hanging, i love talking to her, i love being with her, she makes me smile so easily, and i miss all the little memoeries we've had, I dont want to throw it away.
We have spent every single night on msn speaking for the past 16 months.
And every single day at school chilling together.
I miss her ):
and then it makes me sad when she writes on her msn name 'ilovemylife'..
Cause i think now im not in it ):

Alright bro, since you have everything figured out with your parents now just make them happy.
You only get one set of parents, love them and do everything you can for them while you live in their house. They may treat you like shit but they still give you a roof to live under, clothes, internet, food, etc.
Just kiss your parents ass til they are loving again, trust me it'll work from past experiences.
As for Aimee on MSN just put "God, my life is so perfect!" or something like that, make it seem like your grateful she's gone and she'll want you back in a heartbeat.
Treat her like shit, don't get lovey dovey, it'll only leave you in shame.
Hope I helped, I'll be watching this thread

 

[Shall Skill]

Don't bother with females until you're ready to tie yourself down.